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Eni333:
I am really tired of my marriage, my husband rarely stay at home, he just comes back to sleep and take his bath. He leaves as early as 6 to 7am and comes back by 12 or 1 in the night. Even in this lockdown, I see other men spending time with their families but my husband would leave as early as 6am and come back late. Any time I complain he would beat me up, he barely keeps money for me and my 2 kids. My elder brother is the one sending me money for my upkeep. My mother is telling me to endure it would get better one day.
My husband even carry girls around, there is one bar near our street my husband takes his girlfriends there. He doesn't care about my feelings.
I am thinking of leaving after this lockdown, my elder brother is asking me to come back that he would start a business for me, I am tired of enduring.

Every wise woman buildeth her house, but the foolish pucketh it down with her hands. - Proverb 14:1

What do we do in time of war? Do we fight or run away?
Answer = We fight back...
What do you need to fight and win this battle to get your marriage work again?
Answer = PRAYER...
'For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh' - 2 Corinthians 10:3
'For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds' - 2 Corinthians 10:4
'The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective' - James 5:16b

believe me what is happening in your marriage now is not ordinary, because the things you see happening in the physical now has already been decided in the spiritual. if not, how come all of a sudden your husband started behaving strange compared to before and immediately you got married. Think carefully and wisely on these things.
The enemies have sowed tares in your marriage. They don't want you to have a happy marriage. Their plan is to scatter your marriage/home. And what you are seeing now in the physical is a result of the manifestation of what had been done in the spiritual.
'But while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares among the wheat, and went his way' - Matthew 13:25
It's obvious the enemy must have sowed tares in your marriage, but you have to make it work by force.
Sis, You have to take charge of your marriage by going into a spiritual warfare through prayer and the studying the word of God.
Ephesians 6:12 for we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

Prayer points:
1. Sing praise and worship for at least 30mins and Pray with Psalm 51
2. By the power in the name of Jesus, let every evil tares sowed in my marriage be destroyed by fire.
3. Let every power/evil assignment/evil program assigned against my marriage be terminated by fire/die by fire in the mighty name of Jesus.

'So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate' - Matthew 19:6
You can go on 3-7 days fasting from 6-1, 6-2 or 6-3.
May Help you as you do so in Jesus name, Amen

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Rhaspody:
TLC = Total landing cost ; e still dey road
AIN = Already in Nigeria

Okay

thank you sir

please someone should explain the meaning of TLC and AIN deals? Thanks

*Are you downcast, confused, frustrated, restless trying to make ends meet or at the verge of giving up?* No matter the challenges you are currently facing, *hear the word of the Lord;* Jesus is saying that you should come unto Him in;

Matthew 6:28-30 - Come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

29 - Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

30 - For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

God is also saying in:

Isaiah 1:18 - Come now, let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.

19 - If ye be willing and obedient, ye shall eat the good of the land.

confirm

okay

Sure thing

Which Nigeria are they talking about?