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daily. or somtimes four times in a day.

Doesnt make sense hw can that be? dump him straight up. He is a good for nothing fool.

the only reason i am still with him is that i think with time his view will change. I guess the reason he acts that way is because he is very conscious with money and when he was in 9ja he had some bad experiences with women majorly because of money. When he first came to UK apparently he went out with some white girl and the girl was always paying for stuff for him "unlike we black/9ja girls {his words} dat evn when we have the money majority of us would not want to pay. I am so tired of going over this with him because i always tell him 1 doesnt classify all because one girl did that doesnt mean all would. the same goes for black/9ja girls {some are willing to spend money on you}. This has never been an issue to me in previous relationships and now i find myself dwelling on this everyday i really do not get again.

@ mrbrownjay thanks 4 d advise.

@ kelvinj he is black we are both nigerians.

i have been dating this guy for 8months and i really like him. The only thing that puts me off about him is that he is always going on about how white girls are better than black girls and how they dont demand for money like black girls. This really really annoys me because in my mind i am thinking that if you like white girls so much why are u with me. its not like i even ask him for money like that just once in a while when i am reallly broke but every time i talk bout money he is always going on about we black girls like money so much that white girls are better less stressful. I dnt really get him anymore i dnt knw whether it is immaturity or because he has just been in the UK for a year and is noticing some stuff. I have told him to stop comparing black girls with white girls and if he wants to d ate a white girl badly because "they would spend money on him he should leave me" but he keeps saying it is true and that he loves me. As this is really annoying what do i do?