Count yaself lucky 

Probably trying to be a nice guy.Lmao

May be the guy is just tryin to be nice and he is doin it in a wrong way ,

and for u my dear , u need to humble urself so as to make the guy feel comfortable around u ,

u never can tell , he might be the baddoski hiding under the black skin and to be frank , try to pull the conversation , do the action and see where it leads you .

and if it thus lead u to thesame spot , then u can say , the is guy is as good as a dead bit .

igboro ti daru , fileeeeeee!

Come on guys the ladies are not getting it right i believe in one thing at a time,

if i discuse about food n church on the first day,

definitely it will be sport n politics on the second day,

dressing on the third day,

Then music n romance were they have special interest n that leads to ,

i believe we all know it. patience! patience!! patience!!!

@ lovemoi2

u never come tell us wetin happen after una meet this sunday ooo

this is my take on this, naija girls are terrible at conversations and they try to log their weakness on naija guys. who said anything about conversation being one-sided? must it always be guys doing the talking? i discovered guys do all the talking and girls out of being dumb or something keeps quiet and wish him to say what they would've loved to discuss. just go ahead and start, try that and see how it works. its not all naija gals sha, but majority of them are so boring to be with,

Sirnbolo,u got it ryt! Naija gals r usually ignorant of anything outside nollywood,mexican soaps,food and church! Dey tink its d guy's duty to thrill them wit gist and their job is 2 b laffin and kickin their legs in d air! I go along wit it cos i'm an excellent conversationalist/raconteur AND cos its easier 2 spread open those legs while dey r kickin them in d air.most of them remain passive and front in2 their 30's,THEN dey bcome DESPERATE and SETTLE 4 ANY guy.

@poster,kip dullin ursef there,u no know say u get short shelf life? B waiting 4 Maitama Sule-like orator! U no get mouth 2 start gist? Hv u even tried 2 know d guy? If u lyk gistin abt tbagging,69 and doggy why not start such gist? If he doesnt respond well,dt means u pple no flow.u can break up wit him and stop comin on NL wit illogical whinning

u create topics then. . . .its a 2 way thing

na2day?:

@ lovemoi2

u never come tell us wetin happen after una meet this sunday ooo

don't think u would hear the remainin part of the story

not after him finding out about this thread, 

and more over what happened that day might not pleasant to discuss here 

Common poster be friendly! Aint u a friendly lady? Get 2 know his background, what he likes, where he schooled, about his family, there's damn too much to talk about. The guy might be so tensed up so for both of you to be friends YOU need to make things easier by initiating conversations. Unless you dont like him already but he just might turn out to be amazing. All d best.

Dont only visit fast foods o! of course datz y he's quizzing u on food. Go to parks, take walks together, be involved babe!

have you tried giving him a listening ear, try to find out where he is going. Are you sure he is not trying to strike a conversion with you believing that you like the topic. If this doesn't help, tell him outright how you feel

sirnbolo:

this is my take on this, naija girls are terrible at conversations and they try to log their weakness on naija guys. who said anything about conversation being one-sided? must it always be guys doing the talking? i discovered guys do all the talking and girls out of being dumb or something keeps quiet and wish him to say what they would've loved to discuss. just go ahead and start, try that and see how it works. its not all naija gals sha, but majority of them are so boring to be with,

well spoken - i thought i was the only person who used to notice this nonsense - i'm glad many people feel the same way - why will any sensible person expect a man who has spent his money and time calling you to do all the talking while you remain silent - i used to hang up the phone on such ladies - i'm not ready to toy with my dignity just to be in a relationship

***guy - wat did you eat today

lovemoi2- eba nd vegetable

guy- wat did you cook ??

lovemoi- eba nd vegetable . . . .

guy-how was your sunday ??

lovemoi- twas good just got back from church

guy- did you go to church??

lovemoi- ***SCREAMS CHEI !!!! NAIRALAND HELPPPP
lovemoi - yes I went to church - touching the helm of his shirt, "this your
shirt ain't bad, i like d curve on d neck"
guy - really? thanks
lovemoi - must be a designer's shirt, i just love them
guy - not really designer's, just bought it from 'Kunthy Boutiques'

Then you wouldn't come here to complain again

The guy must probably be shy and has limited lurics and topics in his convo database. It reminds me of a guy in my school back then who always tell a girl he was asking out "You are looking dull" each time he sees the girl. Why, because, it was his welcome address. You know what the girl did afterwards? He rebuked the guy publicly. I think you don't like this fellow that's why u made public this issue; but why not u be the one raising topics since u don't like his?

Doesnt make sense hw can that be? dump him straight up. He is a good for nothing fool.

see hw u make it luk as if u are doing naija guys a favour. . . . .

and what do U expect him to be talking about?hun, U know what,If U love him,tell him what's on your mind and I hope he'd change.

calabaman:

see hw u make it luk as if u are doing naija guys a favour. . . . .

Dnt mind her boo! make she siddon dia dey wait for MR RIGHT!! She go grow bear bear for chest!
Oyibo full ground, Go marry am now,

quote from na2day

@ lovemoi2

u never come tell us wetin happen after una meet this sunday ooo

see your mouth
[size=16pt]
i met him again last sunday
he turned out to be ok
but i am way too aggressive for him
i mean i dont mind getting down and dirty but the dude is just  too calm
well am gonna see him again on wednesday
he probably will get out of his shell this time [/size]

siping my 

lovemoi2:

quote from na2day[/b]see your mouth
[size=16pt]
i met him again this sunday
he turned out to be ok
but i am way too aggrassive for him
i mean i dont mind getting down and dirty but the dude is just  too calm
well am gonna see him again on wednesday
he probably will get out of his shell this time [/size]

[size=2pt]I think am among the selected few who knows what is going on here[/size] 

[b]_{*Subscribing to lovemoi2 sexaventures Episode 2*}

The sexcapades of lovemoi2 and the timid nigerian guy. 

lovemoi2, perhaps you could help unleash the inner beast in the guy.

LOL.

yeah sure
except that when we met in that boring asss resto like you, u never mentioned u were married
i just finish drink my garri     

anyhoo i will be meeting the guy today again haha
cant wait for the food and church talk   

na wa for NL sha.

nothing people cant post here.


and yes, I know this stuff happens in real life so spare me the lecture.

lovemoi2:

[b]quote from na2day[/b]see your mouth
[size=16pt]
i met him again last sunday
he turned out to be ok
but i am way too aggressive for him
i mean i dont mind getting down and dirty [b]but the dude is just too calm[/b]well am gonna see him again on wednesday
he probably will get out of his shell this time [/size]

siping my

saw a thread on this forum about girls not wanting to have anything to do with cool guys

and i thot WTF

uhm, but this statement this statement proves it right then

na wah oh

from your posts and some of your replies, I came to the conclusion that you are not that into him. I might be wrong. If you think his conversations are boring, why dont u start interesting ones. Ask your own questions and see what happens from there.

ha ha ha [quote][/quote]

he's always talking about food and church. what are u talking about. maybe grave and begging for money. ha ha ha

lovemoi2:

[b]quote from na2day[/b]see your mouth
[size=16pt]
i met him again last sunday
he turned out to be ok
but i am way too aggressive for him
i mean i dont mind getting down and dirty but the dude is just  too calm
well am gonna see him again on wednesday
he probably will get out of his shell this time [/size]

siping my 

You must be a benin girl. Thats why the conversation is heading to the opposite direction of what you wanna hear.

--and the attack on me begins.

Sam why the stereotype?

agaba we are all nigerians. just like the comedians say on stage
Igbo people like money
obasanjo is like monkey
Yoruba girls are this and that
Hausa girls are this and that

whats wrong in adding a line of sarcasm in topics, have fun agaba , have fun,

well im from benin and its offensive

platinumnk:

well im from benin and its offensive

Lol, i guess i just stepped on some toes,

no apologies though.