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Islam for Muslims / Friday Reminder by IOG01(m): 7:07am On Sep 28, 2018
Reminder;

"Every human is a slave. You're either a slave of your desires or a slave of Allāh. You either live life by your rules or the rule of Allāh.

How can the heart travel to God if it's chained by its desires?

O' son of Adam! Sell this World for the hereafter and you win both, sell the hereafter for this world & you lose both. #DeenOverDunya
Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyah

Islam is not a buffet where you pick and choose what suits you. Don't obey your desires. Obey Allaah.
"Imprisoned is he, whose heart is imprisoned from Allāh. Captured is he, who is captured by his desires."

Fudayl Ibn Iyad was asked "What do you find the strangest of all things?" He said: The heart that knows Allāh, yet still disobeys Him �

Don’t miss Salāh for the sake of people. You were born & will die alone, you’ll go to the grave alone & be questioned alone on Judgment Day
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الْأَخِلَّاءُ يَوْمَئِذٍ بَعْضُهُمْ لِبَعْضٍ عَدُوٌّ إِلَّا الْمُتَّقِينَ
Close friends, on that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous and God fearing..." •[Surah Az-Zukhruf:67]

Fajr you're asleep, Zuhur you're busy, Asr you're tired, Magrib you're watching tv, Isha you're eating. You can dodge prayer, but not death.

We prepare for uncertain matters in our life like marriage etc but do we prepare for the one event that is definitely going to happen #Death

The first thing a slave will be held to account for is Salah. If we fall short on that, then we will fall short on what's to come.

Fajr: Do not fear missing sleep. Fear a day in which there will be no sleep.”�

Expecting Paradise whilst neglecting Prayer, is like waiting for a train to arrive at the airport. Remember to pray Dhuhr

Everyone dreams to be in Jannah, but Allahﷻ says:
لَّيْسَ بِأَمَانِيِّكُمْ
paradise is not obtained by your wishful thinking •[An-Nisa 4:123] #work hard 4 hereafter

"If you could hear the sound of the pens of the angels writing your name among those who remember Allāh, you'd die out of joy." -Ibn Al-Qayyim

This Dunya Is Not A Resting Place �It's A Testing Place! #Earn Good Deeds!

The world is a prison for the believer and a Paradise for the unbeliever". [Muslim] Your release here, sooner or later will be coming to an end.

Ibn Al-Qayyim (رحمه اللّٰه):
"He whom Allah has predestined to enter Paradise, the reasons which will cause his entrance shall spring from calamities;

He whom Allah has predestined to enter the Hellfire, the reasons which will cause his entrance shall spring from lusts”

Get used to a rough life, for luxury does not last forever. -Umar ibn Al Khattab

Do not be overly pleased by easy times. Verily,gold is tested for its purity by fire. Likewise,a righteous servant is tested by tribulations

It pains me to see born Muslims chasing the lifestyle of the disbelievers by drinking, clubbing, getting high etc.

Why do you think reverts run away from that life to the deen of Allāh. Run back to your Lord for His mercy overcomes His wrath.

How long will the person be happy with his worldly life?..Knowing that his ultimate home is the grave"

No matter how beautiful your face is, you will still be the food of worms when you are buried. Set aside your arrogance & remember your grave

Every single limb & organ in your body will speak up & bear witness against every action you committed in this Dunya
مَّا يَلْفِظُ مِن قَوْلٍ إِلَّا لَدَيْهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٌ
Not a word is said except that there is a watcher by him ready to record it.” [Surah Qaf:18] This includes all that you posted.

Hijab includes the way a person walks, talks, looks and thinks. All of it should be done modestly and applies to both men and women" #Hijab

My dear sisters in Islam. Cover up for the sake of Allah before its too late as today you are over the soil but tomorrow you may be under it

Yes hijab doesn't necessarily indicate your level of piety BUT it is fard (a must). So regardless of what you say, you HAVE to wear it.

Make tawba (sincere repentance) not just for sins you've committed, but also for obligations you haven't fulfilled.” [Ibn Taymiyyah]

I pray that the comfort of our graves exceeds the comfort of our beds. �

We ask Allah سبحانه وتعالى to take our souls away when He's most pleased with us and make us of those who are always conscious. Aaameeeeen!
Islam for Muslims / Re: Deaths ☠ : An Inevitable Journey by IOG01(m): 7:59pm On Jul 14, 2018
tintingz:
The problem here is many Muslims will thrown to hell by Yahweh except you accept Jesus as your Lord and savior.

I pity you my brother... Hell is real
Islam for Muslims / Re: Deaths ☠ : An Inevitable Journey by IOG01(m): 11:24pm On Jun 21, 2018
After a long & hectic day at work, how difficult it is for a tired
person to go out to the mosque & concentrate on his prayers to
Allah, the Almighty. Snuggled up in a warm & cozy bed, how
difficult it is to get up at the call of the Muezzin: Come to prayer!
Come to success!

The famous doctor & philosopher, Ibn Sina (Avicenna), recalls such
a moment in his life.

One cold & icy night, he & his slave were resting at an inn in a remote part of Khuraasaan. During the night, he felt thirsty, so he called to his slave to bring him some water.

The slave had no desire to leave his warm bed, so he pretended not to hear Ibn Sina's call. But finally, after repeated calls, he reluctantly got up & went to fetch the water.

A little while later, the melodious sound of the azaan (call to prayer) filled the air.Ibn Sina began to think about the person calling the people to prayer.
My slave, `Abdullaah, he mused, has always respected me & admired me. He seizes any opportunity to lavish praise & affection on me, but tonight he preferred his own comfort to my needs.
On the other hand, look at this Persian slave of Allah: He left his warm bed to go out into the chilly night, he made ablution in the icy water of the stream, & then he ascended the high minaret of the mosque to glorify Him Whom he truly serves: `I bear witness that there is none worthy of worship except Allah. I bear witness that Muhammad is the
Messenger of Allah.'

Ibn Sina records: ( Through the call to prayer of the muezzin) I learned the essence of true love- that love which results in complete obedience.

“Say (O Muhammad ﷺ to mankind): “If you (really) love Allah then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic Monotheism, follow the Quran aиϑ the Sunnah), Allah will love you aиϑ forgive you of your sins. Aиϑ Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.”
(Surah Aal-e-Imran:31)

“O Allah, I ask for Your love,
aиϑ the love of those persons who love You
aиϑ love of actions that bring me closer to Your love”
[Bukhari]
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Islam for Muslims / Deaths ☠ : An Inevitable Journey by IOG01(m): 11:22pm On Jun 21, 2018
�بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم�
ﷺ ♥̸̨͡�ﷺ♥̸̨͡�ﷺ

Whether u are ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.

There will be no more sunrises, no salat, no sadaqah, no Ramadhan,no minutes, hours or days. All the things u collected, whether treasured or forgotten will pass to someone else.

Ur wealth, connections, fame & power will be irrelevant. It will not matter what u owned or what u were owed.

Ur grudges, resentments, frustrations, dissapointments & jealousies will finally disappear.

So too, ur hopes, l♡ve , ambitions, aspirations, plans & ur do lists will expire.

The wins & losses that mattered so much to u will fade away.

It won’t matter where u came from or what side of the tracks u lived on.

It won’t matter whether u are bεά̲ư†ΐfưl, handsome, intelligent, smart, friendly, lovely or brilliant. Even ur gender & skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter?
How will the value of ur days in this World be measured?

What will matter is
not what u bought but what u
built,
not what u got but what u gave.

What will matter is not ur success but ur significance.

What will matter is not what u learnt but what u taught.

What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage, or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate ur example.

What will matter is not ur competence but ur character.

What will matter is not how many people u knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when u’re gone.

What will matter is not ur memories but the memories that live in those who l♡ved u.

What will matter is how long u will be remembered, by whom & for what.

What will matter is how forgiving u are to those that wronged u no matter what.

Living a life that matters doesn’t happen by accident. It’s not a matter of circumstance but of choice.

Choose to live a life that matters..

Live a simple,truthful & religious life.
Live a lȋ̊fع to please اللَّهُ Subhana wa Ta'ala.

First...last....& in-between...اَللّهُ اَللّهُ اَللّهُ
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Islam for Muslims / Re: Marriage ⚭ In Islam : Importance Of Husband And Wife, Romance, Sex,etc by IOG01(m): 11:19pm On Jun 21, 2018
Sisters,

When you marry your husband, you leave your birth home and you become a real woman. Your husband becomes your family, your maintainer and protector, the father of your children, your friend and lover, so treat him well and follow him to the end of the earth, fear Allaah in regards to how you treat him.

Brothers,

The day you marry your wife, is the day Allaah places a trust and responsibility on you to give her the rights as a wife and she becomes your family, your comforter, the mother of your children, so fear Allaah in regards to your duties as husband.

Marriage in Islam completes half of your deen. Do not be swayed by good looks or money as these will come and go. Marry a man/woman who truly fears and loves Allaah, who puts Islam first before anything. Learn and walk in Deen together. Go in a marriage with the purpose in getting closer to Allaah and In Shaa Allaah it will be a blessed marriage!

Marriage is not easy, but with *Allaah's* help, it can be the best time ever.

May Allaah bless all couples.

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Islam for Muslims / Re: Marriage ⚭ In Islam : Importance Of Husband And Wife, Romance, Sex,etc by IOG01(m): 11:11pm On Jun 21, 2018
أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
✍ Sex in Islam

This is a topic that is discussed openly because of what it entails
Insha'Allah we will touch the topic a little.........

�How to have sex with your spouse.

✍ CLEANLINESS

This should be done before sex by both spouse

✍ Dua before sex with your spouse

“Bismillahi, Allahumma jannibnaa ash-shaitaan, wa jannib ash-shaitaan maa razaqtanna”

"In the name of Allah. O Allah, keep the devil away from us and keep the devil away form what you have blessed us with."

✍ About this, the Prophet said:
“After that, if Allah decrees that they will have a child, the devil will never be able to harm that child”. [Al-Bukhari]

✍ NOTE: Some Scholars say that children are disobedient to their parents usually because the parents forget/forgot to say the above duaa before having sex.

��pre-intimacy

pre-intimacy between the spouses before actually engaging into sexual intercourse is immensely important (especially for the wife) and a vital ingredient for a happy and prosperous marriage, that which should never be neglected.

✍ It's very important to get your wife aroused before penetration
That's what's called pre-intimacy because the prophet had talked about it.


So this is where caressing, kissing, the sucking of nipples and fingering comes in.


❌Do not use foreign objects


Sexual positions are allowed so far as its in the right place (vagina).
You can try doggy style and the others if you like instead of sticking to the well known position.


��Now let's talk about pre-intimacy


Imam al-Daylami (Allah have mercy on him) records a narration on the authority of Anas ibn Malik (Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) is reported to have said: “One of you should not fulfil one’s (sexual) need from one’s wife like an animal, rather there should be between them pre-intimacy of kissing and words.” (Musnad al-Firdaws Of al-Daylami, 2/55)


Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (Allah have mercy on him) reports in his famous “Tibb al-Nabawi” that the Messenger of Allah (SAW) forbade from engaging in sexual intercourse before pre-intimacy. (See: al-Tibb al-Nabawi, 183, from Jabir ibn Abd Allah


�Do not rush


There are no rules and laws in pre-intimacy as to how it should be done. The only laws and rules are the ones reached by the lovers by mutual consent and often unspoken understanding.


Whatever is pleasing and satisfying to both the husband and the wife is right and proper; and whatever is mutually displeasing is wrong.


The only limitation to this general rule would be any Shariah rule which goes against the wishes of the husband or the wife


pre-intimacy is Highly Recommended
Islam emphasizes on pre-intimacy. Imam ‘Ali (A.S.) says, “When you intend to have sex with your wife, do not rush because the woman (also) has needs (which should be fulfilled).”


�1 Sex without pre-intimacy has been equated to cruelty. The Prophet (SAW) said, “Three people are cruel: …a person who has sex with his wife before pre-intimacy .”


� 2 Another hadith equates sex without pre-intimacy to animal behavior: “When anyone of you has sex with his wife, then he should not go to her like birds; instead he should be slow and delaying.”


�3 As for the role of a woman in sexual pre-intimacy, the Imams (A.S.) have praised a wife who discards shyness when she is with her husband.


Imam Muhammad al-Baqir says,

“The best woman among you is the one who discards the armor of shyness when she undresses for her husband, and puts on the armor of shyness when she dresses up again.”


Throw away shyness when having sex with your husband


This means that it's not good for a woman to feel shy when playing with her husband.


If you are a Malama, when it comes to that, forget about your Malama things and "open fire"


There is no loophole in Islam. It's a way of life.


❌Don't come near your husband in the night with a hijab or a niqab or some rough dressing


The decent dressing you wear when out is no longer "decent" at that moment. when you return to your husband in the night, put that away, wear tight, short, transparent dresses or go nude. Simple.


It is allowed for a Muslim man to enter his wife in her vagina from any direction he wishes – from behind or from the front. About this Allah revealed the following verse:


“Your wives are a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how you will”
Al-Quran: al-Baqarah 2:223



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Islam for Muslims / Re: Marriage ⚭ In Islam : Importance Of Husband And Wife, Romance, Sex,etc by IOG01(m): 11:10pm On Jun 21, 2018
IMPORTANCE OF A HUSBAND.
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ asked one of the
Companion's wives: "Have you got a husband?" She
said: "Yes." He asked: "How do you treat him?" She
replied: "I spare no pains in obeying him, except what I
cannot do." The Prophet then said: "Make sure that
you obey him, because he is your Paradise or
Hellfire" (Tirmidhi)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If a woman dies
while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter
Paradise." (Tirmidhi)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If a woman
prays her five prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan),
guards her chastity, and obeys her husband (always)
she will enter Jannah." (Bukhari)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ was asked: "Which of
women is best?" He said: “The one who makes (her
husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when
he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him
with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he
dislikes.” (Nasaai)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If I were to
command anyone to prostrate to anything other than
Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to
their husbands.
=========================
By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad,
no woman will fulfil her duty towards her Lord unless
she fulfils her duty towards her husband, and if he asks
her for herself when she is sitting on a saddle, she
should not refuse him." (Ibn Maajah
=========================
*The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "It is not right
for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were
right for one human being to prostrate to another, I
would have commanded women to prostrate to their
husbands because of the great rights that they have
over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a
man were covered from head to foot with weeping
sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him
and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil
the rights he has over her." (Ahmad)*
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: "If Allah has
blessed any of you with a good wife, He has helped him
with half his deen, so he should fear Allah with the
other half." (Hakim)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “No woman
annoys her husband but his wife among Al-Hoor
Al-’Ayn says, ‘Do not annoy him! May Allah destroy you
(Literally ‘Kill you’)! For he is just a temporary guest
with you and soon he will leave you and join (come
tous‘.” (Ahmed, Tirmidhi, ibn Majah)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “There are three
whose prayers will not be accepted and they will not
ascend to heaven or even go beyond their heads: … a
woman whose husband calls her at night and she
refuses.” (Targhib wal-Tarhib)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “If a man calls
his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he stays angry
with her all night, the angels will curse her until
morning.” (Bukhari, Muslim)
=========================
The Prophet ﺻﻠﯽ ﺍﻟﻠﮧ ﻋﻠﯿﮧ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ said: “Any woman who
asked for a divorce for no reason, the fragrance of
Paradise is forbidden to her.” (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood,
Ibn Maajah)
=========================
"Whether the husband wants to discipline his wife, or
forgive her, or take another wife, or divorce her, this is
all up to him to choose. Let the woman beware of
incurring her husband’s wrath because this will lead to
Allaah’s being angry with her." - Sh. Muhammad Al-
Munajjid
=========================
"If a Man is married with a righteous wife, he will live a
harmonious life even if he is poor" - Sh. Saleh Al-
Fawzan
=========================
The blessings for a woman being a righteous wife and
a man having the righteous wife is pleasure in this
world and the next when we meet Allah...
======================

May Allah have mercy on us


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Islam for Muslims / Re: Marriage ⚭ In Islam : Importance Of Husband And Wife, Romance, Sex,etc by IOG01(m): 11:10pm On Jun 21, 2018
OF COURSE, THE SISTERS WILL LOVE THIS?

IMPORTANCE OF HUSBAND IN THE LIGHT OF QURA'N & HADITHS.

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم asked one of the Companion's wives: "Have you got a husband?" She said: "Yes." He asked: "How do you treat him?" She replied: "I spare no pains in obeying him, except what I cannot do." The Prophet then said: "Make sure that you obey him, because he is your Paradise or Hellfire" (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If a woman dies while her husband was pleased with her, she will enter Paradise." (Tirmidhi)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If a woman prays her five prayers, fasts her month (Ramadan), guards her chastity, and obeys her husband (always) she will enter Jannah." (Bukhari)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم was asked: "Which of women is best?" He said: “The one who makes (her husband) happy when he looks at her, obeys him when he tells her to do something, and does not disobey him with regard to herself or her wealth in a way that he dislikes.” (Nasaai)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If I were to command anyone to prostrate to anything other than Allah, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands. By the One in Whose hand is the soul of Muhammad, no woman will fulfil her duty towards her Lord unless she fulfils her duty towards her husband, and if he asks her for herself when she is sitting on a saddle, she should not refuse him." (Ibn Maajah)

*The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "It is not right for any human being to prostrate to another; if it were right for one human being to prostrate to another, I would have commanded women to prostrate to their husbands because of the great rights that they have over them. By the One in Whose hand is my soul, if a man were covered from head to foot with weeping sores oozing pus, and his wife were to come to him and lick his sores (to clean them), this would not fulfil the rights he has over her." (Ahmad)*

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: "If Allah has blessed any of you with a good wife, He has helped him with half his deen, so he should fear Allah with the other half." (Hakim)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “No woman annoys her husband but his wife among Al-Hoor Al-’Ayn says, ‘Do not annoy him! May Allah destroy you (Literally ‘Kill you’)! For he is just a temporary guest with you and soon he will leave you and join (come to) us‘.” (Ahmed, Tirmidhi, ibn Majah)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “There are three whose prayers will not be accepted and they will not ascend to heaven or even go beyond their heads: … a woman whose husband calls her at night and she refuses.” (Targhib wal-Tarhib)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and he stays angry with her all night, the angels will curse her until morning.” (Bukhari, Muslim)

The Prophet صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم said: “Any woman who asked for a divorce for no reason, the fragrance of Paradise is forbidden to her.” (Tirmidhi, Abu Dawood, Ibn Maajah)

"Whether the husband wants to discipline his wife, or forgive her, or take another wife, or divorce her, this is all up to him to choose. Let the woman beware of incurring her husband’s wrath because this will lead to Allaah’s being angry with her." - Sh. Muhammad Al-Munajjid

"If a Man is married with a righteous wife, he will live a harmonious life even if he is poor" - Sh. Saleh Al-Fawzan

The blessings for a woman being a righteous wife and a man having the righteous wife is pleasure in this world and the next when we meet Allah...

When Imam Ahmed ibn Hanbal's wife passed away he said "Wallahi I lived with her for 40 years and we didn't argue once." He was asked how? He said "Whenever she got upset and tried to argue, I stayed quiet. And whenever I was upset and tried to argue, she stayed quiet."

Holy Quran, A Complete code of Life

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Islam for Muslims / Marriage ⚭ In Islam : Importance Of Husband And Wife, Romance, Sex,etc by IOG01(m): 11:07pm On Jun 21, 2018
THE MOST IMPORTANT CARRIER CHOICE YOU WILL MAKE IS WHO YOU MARRY....

Let me begin with the words of Sheikh Hussayn Yee; Malaysian Scholar: "Our knowledge is limited, we cannot see our future but we can plan for it in order to get a better tomorrow." Carrier choice simply denotes the progress and actions taken by a person throughout a lifetime, though most at times related to occupations. Notwithstanding, selecting a spouse is, if not more important than that of occupation, critical to every one's life. It's a choice of a life partner, the mother of your children, your comfort while in distress, your happiness of last resort. And to a woman, you're selecting not only a father to your kids but their models that you want your children to emulate, your confidential friend, your ever-source of joy and one when you look into her eyes, will strike a gentle smile on your face because of her pleasant attitude ....
Our judgement of who to marry nowadays is clouded by some short-term considerations which many at times lead to either failure of the relationship or living a master-slave relationship where one partner tortures the other psychologically even sometimes physically. This is not surprising especially where a man levels a woman as one of his material possession that he injects money to defeat her contemporary Romeos and installed his love or rather love of his money in her heart and possibly her family. Let me invite the quote of one writer and a public commentator which says "Love, the genuine one that is so deep, and penetrating is a destiny meant to last forever; hence, most times, even the unfortunate wall which the failure to marry built could only separate the lovers not their hearts." So, a genuine form of love is more like an eternal bond which if not built any relationship based on that might cause eternal, not necessarily suffering but depression and regrets.... In essence, fruitful marital relationship should be love-biased.

Who to love? I am not in any way positioned to attempt this question, but your instinct. Yes! Instinct is a way of behaving, thinking, or feeling that is not learned: a natural desire or tendency that makes you want to act in a particular way... We all have feelings and desires yet, we need to use some principles to guide them, principles of knowledge, reasoning and contemporary awareness. I can't stop you from falling in love at first sight, but will that sight suffice to decide how your entire life should be? You need more than that, I think. Most if not all of the 'Divorce Diaries' that I read were product of either love-at-first-sight or money-driven relationships. According to one scholar and marriage counsellor, marriage has three stages and each stage has its peculiar requirements thus:

1st stage: Identifying a spouse and it requires understanding each other; You're in this stage to understand your supposed partner's character and ensure that no any form of hatred or dislike exist in-between

2nd stage: First segment of marital life which requires love; Having understood each other prior to marriage, next is the display of the real love you have for each other, the emotions, sweet names, love dramas, jokes, everything that will bring the girl in the wife and optimise the husband's pleasure, and

#3rd stage: Last segment of the marital life which requires mercy; Here, the previous love will transform to mercy for each other as most of the physical attributes that keeps the union going in the first segment might be diminished..
Therefore, seeing through the aforementioned stages will help you in selecting a partner with whom to undergo these stages with...

'You may fall in love with beauty or riches but whether you like it or not you're to live with the person's character not the beauty or riches and its the character that will raise your children not the beauty.' And we need to source for love not mere admiration as admiration comes with expectation which if not fulfilled might drain away but love accept some flaws. Moreover, knowledge has been proven to be a clear indicator of happiness in many unions as it enables the spouses to identify their respective rights upon each other and make judicious effort in fulfilling them. Whereas ignorance of the one's right in matrimony broaden the possibility of injustice, chaos and failure of the relationship.

"The choice of a good wife (so also a husband) is the verifiable indicator of (your) success and a determinant of your (life) career building" Yes! We can deduct that one is bound to succeed or fail subject to whom he/she select as a spouse. With respect to wife selection in particular , two things are indispensable thus: 'tarbiyya' (morality) and 'kauna' (love). Getting a partner that does not love you is really dangerous to marry as it may lead to untold and unimaginable sufferings mentally and physically from both sides. Same also applies to getting a partner no matter how much the person loves you if he/she is devoid of morality...

Question: Do you like your sons to follow the footsteps of your husband-to-be? Do you like your daughters to fill in the shoe of your wife-to-be? Answers to these questions might be sufficient to decide and un-decide... Remember that making a decision of 'who to marry' is not just a personal decision as its consequences affect the subsequent generation. "Justice makes a man, patience makes a woman, obedience makes a child and peace makes a society." So inspiring! What's justice then to a husband and patience to a wife? In other words, justice and patience are the attributes to characterize a good husband and a wife respectively.

To crown it all, we need not just virtuous spouses but good ones that will be source of our happiness, accept us as who we are, not just share our problems but carry them on their heads as theirs, understand that we are indebted to each other, know that the burden our children have upon us is to set a track of good life for them to follow, respect us, respect our families and friends, more importantly have a solemn confession in our mind that the relationship is satisfying and will last longer and bear in our minds that marriage is not just a luxury but also a way of serving the Creator that will lead us to Paradise; identifying knowledge as the spiritual wealth we can give and leave for our children.....


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Islam for Muslims / Re: Ramadan : Jummah Sermon by IOG01(m): 5:17am On Jun 08, 2018
Sunnah #81. Coming early for Jumu'a

It was narrated from Abu Hurairah [‫رضى الله عنه‬] that: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "Whoever performs ghusl as from janabah on Friday, then comes (to the masjid), it is as if he sacrificed a camel. Then the one who comes in the second hour, it is as if he sacrificed a cow. Then the one who comes in the third hour, it is as if he sacrificed a ram. Then the one who comes in the fourth hour, it is as if he sacrificed a chicken. Then the one who comes in the fifth hour, it is as if he sacrificed an egg. Then when the imam comes out, the angels attend to listen to the khutbah."

Sahih, Sunan Nasai book 14, Hadith 25
Eng: Vol. 2, Book 14, Hadith 1389
Arabic ref:Book 14, Hadith 1399


Shaykh Muhammad ibn Saalih al-‘Uthaymeen (رحمه الله) was asked: 

When does the first hour of Friday begin? 
He replied: The hours which were mentioned by the Prophet (ﷺ) are five. So the time between sunrise and the imam’s arrival is divided into five parts, each of which may be equivalent to what we know as an hour (60 minutes), or it may be more or less, because time changes. It was also said that the time begins at the break of dawn, but that view is less correct, because the time before sunrise is the time for Fajr prayer.

The mention of these hours is intended only to encourage people to come early and attain the reward of being in the first row and waiting for the prayer, and keeping busy with nafl prayers, dhikr and the like. None of that can be achieved by going to the mosque after the sun has passed its zenith, and there is no virtue in doing so, because the call to prayer is given at that time.

After sermon starts - you are an absentee as the Angels close their records and listen to the Imam.

You still get the reward for coming to masjid and praying in congregation but the bonus reward of Jumu'a mentioned in this hadeeth will be lost.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Ramadan : Jummah Sermon by IOG01(m): 11:33pm On Jun 07, 2018
Sunnah #83
Keeping quiet during Friday sermon

Chapter: One should keep quiet and listen while the Imam is delivering the Khutba

Narrated Abu Huraira [‫رضى الله عنه‬]: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "When the Imam is delivering the Khutba, and you ask your companion to keep quiet and listen, then no doubt you have done an evil act."

Ref: Sahih al-Bukhari 934
In-book ref: Book 11, Hadith 58
English ref:Vol. 2, Book 13, Hadith 56

� Even telling your muslim brother to keep quiet is evil. So imagine the importance given to listening to the Friday sermon. The scholars recommended using actions and not words to convey the message if you really need to while the Khutbah is going on.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islam: Sexual Secrets Of Women by IOG01(m): 9:30pm On Jun 07, 2018
5) THEY SEE SEX AS A SERIOUS BUSINESS:
You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never cross your mind. But for these strange ladies, they seemed sex as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing and advertisement.

WHAT TO DO:
Begin to see sex as a serious business, rebrand yourself, repackage yourself because you are the real product to your
husband only.

NB: The most common complaint amongst men is that their wives are not as interested in sexual intimacy as the men are. And likewise, the most common complaint amongst women is that their husbands are just interested in sex and only come close to them for one purpose. One of the primary reasons for this disparity is the issue of sexual arousal. A man’s arousal is like a microwave: it can be turned on instantly. A woman’s arousal, on the other hand, is like an oven: it slowly and gradually heats up over time. This is why when a husband approaches his wife, he is already turned on and aroused. He seeks instant gratification. He mistakenly assumes that his wife will get aroused as instantaneously as he does, and gets frustrated when she doesn’t respond to him the way that he wants. Conversely, a woman feels frustrated that her husband wishes her to ‘perform’ on demand, without her emotional or physical needs being addressed first. Men must be more sensitive to a woman’s needs, and understand that for a woman to start her arousal oven, she needs to feel loved, cherished, and beautiful. She needs to feel emotionally satisfied, otherwise she will feel like the man is just taking advantage of the fact that she is his wife and must obey. The most intimate act of marriage, that of sex, will become a chore for her that she dreads instead of enjoys. It is a husband’s responsibility to make sure that he has addressed the emotional needs of his wife before he approaches her. The best way a man can do this, is through romance, non-sexual touching and helping her deal with the stresses of daily life.

Men need sex to feel loved and appreciated. When a man approaches his wife, he is showing that he loves her. This is why when a wife does the act unwillingly, with little excitement, and treats it like a chore, the man feels rejected. In turn, women need to understand that romance is something that does not come naturally to men, *as men don’t need romance to be aroused or feel loved. Women need to be patient and continually try to explain this to their partners. In conclusion, both men and women need to understand the differences in the mechanisms of arousal, and be sensitive towards each other’s needs. A man needs to try and be more attentive beforehand as this is vital for a woman’s enjoyment. The woman needs to understand that a man’s arousal is instant and for him intimacy equals love, so intimacy needs to be a priority on her list.

Sexual intimacy is one of the best ways to overcome everyday marital disputes. It acts as a soothing factor that eases the tension and conflict that inevitably builds up between partners. It strengthens feelings of love and cements bonds of affection. Therefore, sex should be used to mend bridges and make up after arguments. Even if there is an enormous amount of emotional baggage, and the couple has still not resolved an argument, if one spouse approaches the other tenderly, wanting some affection and romance, it is in the best interest of the marriage that the other partner swallows his/her pride and accept this invitation for intimacy.



Have a blessed day���

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Islam for Muslims / Islam: Sexual Secrets Of Women by IOG01(m): 9:29pm On Jun 07, 2018
SEXUAL SECRETS OF WOMEN THAT WANT TO SNATCH YOUR HUSBAND....

Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men really see in these women that make them to get glued to them despite the facts that they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of sexual transmitted diseases.

Asalaam Walaykum Waramatulahi Wabarakatuhu, wives, you need to know the sexual secrets of these faceless women, _sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games_. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:

1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SEXUAL WEAKNESS OF MEN:
They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is sex and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using sex to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, bitterness between them and their husbands.

_WHAT TO DO:_
Use sex as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use sex to destroy your marriage, use it to build it. Umm's build your marriage.

2) THEY KISS LIKE MAD:
In a report, most married men reported that their wives hate kissing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kiss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area they use kissing as a weapon.

_WHAT TO DO:_
Don’t turn kissing to wrestling in your marriage, stop being local. Kiss your husband even when he is not expecting it.
Sister's start work.

3) THEY USE KILLER UNDERWEAR:
A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colors are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, with dirty pants, outdated underwear, bra that looks like
tarpaulin, wearing of boxers that is meant for men, wearing of knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are
creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, sexy panties and bra. They always balance colors under there.

_WHAT TO DO:_
Wives wake up, fashion starts from under, not from head gear or rope sieve bag, the real fashion is looking sexy when you UnCloth before your husband. Sister's don't be a dormant partner.

4) THEY USE KILLER NIGHTIE:
Strange women not only wear sexy underwear, they also wear killer nighties. While wives dress to bed and look like a soldier in bed, strange women dress to capture the man even before getting to bed.

_WHAT TO DO:_
When you are going out dress up, when you are going to bed dress down. Dress to capture the imagination of your husband, get very sexy, nasty nightie for your husband’s eyes only. Men are moved by what they see, let your husband see
the angel in you. Sister's 's wise up.

NB: Men, Kindly help your wives solve these problems. Help them change their wardrobes within reasonable time intervals in shaa Allah. If you water your own garden well, it's fruits can compete any international standard fruits.....Fellow men, let's water our crops to look more greener than those we see outside

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Islam for Muslims / Ramadan: Zakat Al- Fitr by IOG01(m): 8:10pm On Jun 07, 2018
ZAKAT AL - FITR

Summarized Rulings Regarding Zakaah al-Fitr

1 What is the ruling regarding Sadaqah al-Fitr?

Ibn Baaz said:
Zakaah al-Fitr is mandatory upon every Muslim, young or old, male or female, free or enslaved
(al-Fataawaa 14/197).

2 With what is the Zakaah al-Fitr given?

Ibn Baaz said:
A Saa’ (four handfuls) of food, dates, barely, raisins, and cheese; and according to the most correct opinion of the scholars, what is also included with these types is anything that the people nourish themselves with in their countries like rice, maze, millet and anything similar to these.

3 What is the measure for Zakaah al-Fitr?

Ibn Baaz said:
What is mandatory for this is one Saa’ from the food of the country and its measurement is with Kilos—approximately three Kilos.
Note: one(1) saa'= four(4) mudu= fourteen(14) tins of milk.
(al-Fataawaa 14-203).

4 When is the time for giving Zakaah al-Fitr?

Ibn Baaz said:
It is given on the days of the 28th, 29th, and 30th as well as the night of ‘Eed. It is also given in the morning of ‘Eed before the Prayer
(al-Fataawaa 14/32-33).

5 What is the reason for giving Zakaah al-Fitr?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
To show gratitude for the blessings of Allaah upon the servant regarding the breaking of the fast of Ramadaan and its completion
(al-Fataawaa 18/257).

6 Who is Zakaah al-Fitr given to?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
It is not to be given except to the poor
(al-Fataawaa 18/259).

7 What is the ruling on entrusting children or other than them with giving Zakaah al-Fitr on a person’s behalf?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
It is permissible for a person to authorize his children to give Zakaah al-Fitr on his behalf at its time even if he is in another country at the time for work
(al-Fataawaa 18/262).

8 Is it permissible for the poor to authorize someone else to take the Zakaah al-Fitr for him?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
It is permissible
(al-Fataawaa 18/268).

9 Is there a specific statement that should be made when giving Zakaah al-Fitr?

We do not know of any specific Du’aa (Supplication) that is said at the time of giving it
(al-Lajnah ad-Daa’imah 9/387).

10 Is it permissible to give Zakaah al-Fitr in its worth (in money)?

Ibn Baaz said:
It is not permissible to give its worth (with cash) according to the opinion of many scholars due to its opposition to the direct statement of the Prophet— ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭ ﺳﻠﻢ —and his companions— ﺭﺿﻲ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻨﻬﻢ
(al-Fataawaa 14/32).

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
Giving it in cash will not suffice, because it has been prescribed to be given in food
(al-Fataawaa 18/265).

11 Is it permissible to give Zakaah al-Fitr in a country different from the one its giver is in?

Ibn Baaz said:
The Sunnah is to distribute it amongst the poor in the country of the one giving it and to not give it in cash in a different country so that he can enrich the poor from his country and satisfy their need
(al-Fataawaa 14/213).

12 Where is Zakaah al-Fitr given?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
Zakaah al-Fitr is dispensed in the land that you are in upon breaking the fast [of Ramadaan] even if it is far from your country.

13 Is Zakaah al-Fitr given for a fetus?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
It is not given on the fetus’s behalf due to it being obligatory; rather it is given because it is highly recommended
(al-Fataawa 18/263).

14 Is it permissible to give Zakaah al-Fitr to Non-Muslim workers?

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
It is not permissible to give it to other than the poor from the Muslims
(al-Fataawaa 18/285).

15 Is the Zakaah al-Fitr for a single person given to just one individual or can it be dispersed amongst several people?

It is permissible to give the Zakaah al-Fitr for a single person to an individual just as it permissible to distribute it amongst a number of people
(al-Lajnah ad-Daa’imah 9/377).

16 What is the ruling on the one who accepts Zakaah al-Fitr and then sells it?

If the one who took it was deserving of it, it is permissible for him to sell it upon receiving it
(al-Lajnah ad-Daa’imah 9/380).

17 Delaying the giving of the Zakaah al-Fitr to after ‘Eid without an excuse.

Ibn ‘Uthaymiin said:
Delaying it until after the Salaah is Haraam (impermissible) and it will not suffice
(al-Fataawaa 18/266).

May Allah accept our acts of worship.

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Islam for Muslims / Ramadan Tafsir: Simple Nikah by IOG01(m): 7:49pm On Jun 07, 2018
The Blessings of a Simple Nikah according to The Blessed Sunnah:

There was a person who had performed the nikaah of his daughter in the musjid after ‘Asr Salaah. After the nikaah was performed, there were just a few dates that were distributed, and the groom did not even wear new clothing for the nikaah. Likewise, there were a few other nikaahs that took place in a similar manner. In the one nikaah, the groom wore his ordinary clothing which he would daily wear for work and his clothing was slightly stained due to work. Seeing this level of simplicity, the people present for the nikaah were quite agreeable and had no reservations. Hazrat Moulana Ashraf Ali Thanwi (rahmatullahi ‘alaih) then mentioned:
The nikaah of my brother, Mazhar, took place in a similar manner. On the occasion of his nikaah, even the old women remarked, “Really, this nikaah is full of noor and barakah, and our hearts are enlightened with happiness, despite there not being any elaborate arrangements found.” Subhaanallah! When the nikaah was performed in accordance with the sunnah, then why should noor not be perceived? Furthermore, the more the simplicity of the nikaah, the greater will be the noor felt in the heart. The reason for this is that when there is simplicity then there is no opportunity for arguments and quarrelling, and this causes one to have a clear heart (from malice, enmity, etc.). On the contrary, when there is a long drawn function and elaborate arrangements, then this leads to arguments and quarrels, and these undoubtedly darken and dull the heart.

(Malfoozaat Husnul Azeez pg.457)

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Islam for Muslims / Ramadan : Feelings Of The Dead by IOG01(m): 7:40pm On Jun 07, 2018
​THE FEELING OF PEOPLE WHO HAD BEEN DEAD​

"The dead man initially does not realize that he is dead, he feels himself dreaming of death, he sees himself weeping, bathed, dyed, till descended into the grave,
he feels himself dreaming when he is hoarded by the ground he is screaming but not someone heard his shout.
Some time later... When it's all gone home leave it alone under the ground. Allah restores his soul. He opened his eyes, and woke from his "bad dream". he was glad and grateful that what he was experiencing was a nightmare, and now he was awake from his sleep. Then he touched his body which was just shrouded in a cloth while asking in surprise
"Where's my shirt?
Where's my pants?"

Then he felt around him in the form of "Where am I?"
"What is this place?
Why the smell of soil and mud?"
Then he begins to realize that he is underground, and what he is experiencing is not a dream! Yes, he realized that he really was dead. Shouting out as loudly as he could, calling his closest people who were thought to be able to save him:
"Ibuuuuu .... !!!!"
"Ayaaaaah ... !!!!" "Kakeeeeek !!!"
"Neneeeek !!"
"Kakaaaaak !!!"
"Sahabaaaaat !!!"

No one answers him. He then remember that GOD is the only hope. Crying and calling Him while asking for forgivenes
"Yaa Allaaaaaaah ....
Yaa Allaaaaaaah ....
Forgive me
Yaa Allaaaaaaah .... !!!"

He shouts in an unbelievable fear that had never been felt before in his life.

If he is a good person, then two angels with a smiling face will sit him down and comfort him, comfort him and serve him with the best service.

If he is a bad person, then two angels will increase his fear and will torture him according to his ugliness.

Oh God, forgive my sins, the sins of my father's mother, my family and my friends.

Yaa Allaah do not take my life unless am ready to meet u.

my brothers/sisters, now you have two options,

1. Let this little knowledge be read only here and nothing happens.

2. Share this knowledge to all your friends, insha Allah is going to be useful and will be a reward for you.
Aamiin ..

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Islam for Muslims / Ramadan : Jummah Sermon by IOG01(m): 7:04pm On Jun 07, 2018
DO NOT SPEAK DURING JUMU'AH SERMON

On the authority of Ibn Abbas (r.a) , the Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said : "Anyone who speaks on Jum'uah day while the Imam is delivering the khutba, his similitude is like a donkey carrying books, and the one who says to him be quiet, is guilty of speaking during the sermon and thus he the speaker has no Jumu'ah (Musnad Ahmad vol 2, p 244).

In another narration by Abu Hurairah (ra), Allah's Apostle (pbuh) said : when the Imam is delivering the Khutba and you ask your companion to keep quiet and listen then no doubt you have done an evil act. " (Sahih Bukhari vol 2. Pg 27 no 56)

Hence the sin of speaking during the sermon on Friday is so grave to the extent that it renders your Jumu'ah null and void. Even to say to your brother keep quiet is impermissible.

May Allah save us all, ameen !

How I wish this message gets to millions of Muslims, as most of us are ignorant about this. Please share

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Islam for Muslims / Easy Ibadaat For Women In Ramadhaan On Their Menses / Period by IOG01(m): 6:18am On May 24, 2018
Easy Ibadaat For Women In Ramadhaan On Their Menses / Period

Many Sisters Feel That they cannot do much of Ibaadaat while on their monthly period, this is not true.
Allaah Ta'ala gave us the blessing of time, we should take advantage of it in doing things that are pleasing to Him.
So, here is a list of ten easy Ibaadaat that can be done during the menses/period:

1. Make lots of du’aa to Allaah.
Being in that state of ritual impurity should not prevent you from making du’aa.
It is reported from An-Nu’man bin Bashir (رضي الله عنه) reported the Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) said: “Du’aa is worship.”
[Abu Dawud]

2. Visit a close family member.
When you are visiting one of your close family members make sure to have the intention of keeping good ties of kinship between both of you.

The Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) said: “And he who believes in Allaah and the Last Day should unite his ties of kinship.”
[Reported by Al-Bukhari]

3. Make lots of Istighfaar (seeking forgiveness from Allaah) and dhikr.
This can be done when you are cooking, cleaning, going to work, going to the shop, etc.
Allaah says:
“O you who have believed, remember Allaah with much remembrance.”
[Surat Al-Ahzab: 33: Verse: 41]

4. Give Da’wah to Muslims and non-Muslims.
This can be by sharing an Islamic post, sharing Islamic knowledge in general and most importantly being a good example through your manners, speech and actions.
Allaah says:
“And who is better in speech than one who invites to Allaah and does righteousness and says, Indeed, I am of the Muslims.”
[Surat Fussilat: 41: Verse: 33]

And the Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) said: “Convey from me even if it is (only) one ayah (verse).”
[al-Bukhari]

5. Read beneficial books
Choose books that will help you understand more about Islam, purpose of this life and duties towards our creator. Anas ibn Malik رضي الله عنه said, Rasulullaah (صلي الله عليه وسلم) said: "Seeking knowledge is obligatory upon every Muslim."
[Sunan Ibn Majah]

6. Visit the sick.
It is one of the rights upon another Muslim to visit them when they are sick, and not only that, there are great virtues for visiting the sick as mentioned by our beloved Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم): “When the Muslim visits his (sick) Muslim brother, he is harvesting the fruit of paradise until he returns.”
[Narrated by Muslim].
This would also enable us to be more thankful to Allaah for the good health that we have and content with the condition we are in.

7. LISTEN to the Qur’aan frequently.
Listening to the Qur’aan would enable you to prefect your recitation of the Qur’aan, help you revise what you memorized, and constantly remembering Allaah in your heart and mind.

8. Help others.
If you see your sister in Islam going through hard circumstances, do what you can to help her. One day if you are in that same position, Allaah will bring to you someone who will help you too.

9. Smile at your fellow Sister.
By doing so, we are following the Prophet’s ﷺ sunnah and will be rewarded for it.

10. Spread the greeting of “Salaam”.
This should be done with those [sisters] we know and also with those we never met before.
The Prophet (صلي الله عليه وسلم) said: “You will not enter paradise until you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another. Shall I tell you about something which, if you do it, will make you love one another? Greet each other with Salaam.”
[Muslim]

� So let’s renew Our intentions And make sure we are doing all these good deeds sincerely for Allaah’s sake and following the footsteps of Our Beloved Prophet صلي الله عليه وسلم and his companions (رضي الله عنهم).
Religion / The Three Aameens by IOG01(m): 6:11am On May 24, 2018
�بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم�
ﷺ ♥̸̨͡�ﷺ♥̸̨͡�ﷺ

The Three Aameens

Kaab Ibn Ujrah (radiallaahu anhu) relates that Rasulullah ﷺ sallallaahu alayhi wasallam said
'Come near to the mimbar'
& we came near the mimbar.

When heﷺ climbed the first step of the mimbar, he ﷺ said “Aameen”,

When he ﷺ ascended the second step, he ﷺ said “Aameen”,

When he ﷺ climbed the third step, he ﷺ said “Aameen”

When he ﷺ came down, we said “O Rasool of Allah (sallallaahu alayhi wasallam), we have heard from you today something which we never heard before.”
He ﷺ said

"When I climbed the first step, the angel Jibraeel (alayhis salaam) appeared before me & said:

“Destruction to him who found the blessed month of Ramdhan & let it pass by without gaining forgiveness”
Upon that I said ‘Aameen’.

When I climbed the second step, Jibraeel said,
“Destruction to him before whom thy name is taken aиϑ then he does not make Dua for Allah’s blessing on me (by saying, for example , Sallallaahu alaihi wa sallam).”
I replied ‘Aameen’.

When I climbed the third step, Jibraeel said
“Destruction unto him in whose lifetime his parents or either one of them reaches old age, aиϑ (through failure to serve them) he is not allowed to enter Jannah”.
I said ‘Aameen’.

(Hakim, Baihaqi)

May we always take precautions never to fall in any of these categories in sha اَللّهُ.

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Islam for Muslims / Be Careful With #THIEVES Of The Month Of Ramadan by IOG01(m): 6:02am On May 24, 2018
Be careful with #THIEVES of the month of Ramadan

1. #Television, this thief is dangerous and ruins days of people and diminishes their rewards, by watching useless movies and programs it squanders the time in a month where the days are the best of all days and nights are the best of all nights.

2. Too much sleep

Just because it is said in Hadith that even sleep in this month has thawab doesn't mean that you should excessively sleep.. The point is that if even sleep contains rewards then imagine the rewards of Ibaadat.

3. Wasting night

A thief that steals most valuable time from you. This thief is responsible for turning you away from salatul layl, istighfar and tawbah and reading of specific duas of Ramadan and recitation of the Qur'an.

4. Stinginess

Give sadqa, iftaar and help the orphans.. Give iftaar even if it is half a date or a sip of water, so Allah will forgive your past sins.

5. Gatherings without dhikr of Allah

This thief comes with deep regret on the day of judgement

6. Helping parents

Whoever in this month does good towards their relatives, Allah connects them with his mercy on the day of judgement. My dear, always be careful with your mother and father. Serve them as much as you can...

7. Bad Akhlaq

Fasting is not just restraining from food and drinks but eyes, ears, tongue and all parts of the body should also be fasting.. Stay away from #lying, #backbiting, #cursing, #suspicion if you want to pass the #sirat with ease during this month make your Akhlaq good.

And the biggest thief ..

8. #Social media i.e Facebook, Watsapp etc

If you do not use them in the right way, all your good deeds could be taken from you.

Dear don't let this holy month go so that when everyone is receiving their rewards, you are the one who are empty handed

May Allah accept our IBADAT

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