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Akpobome1:
not only women, my dad died without letting us know that he has 2 children outside us, and he has a storey building here in warri without us knowing, and his death was not sudden, he fell ill for six months, my mum even borrowed 1,150,000 just to treat him until his death we never knew, after his burial we have to hustle and struggle to pay the debt, i got burnt when i went to work in local refinery just to raise money, my money even sold her land in the village so we can pay the debt, mean while my dad has a storey building of (6) 2 bed room flat 15k p/mnt and (2) self contain 10k p/mnt, while we were strugglin his other children were busy collecting the rent, it was our pastor who told us that was how we came to know 5 years after his death, he died july 2nd 2011, now i dey drive keke and papa pikin dey drive audi, i hated my dad cause my younger ones couldn't go to higher institution, though family they wan pass every thing to us that they don't know the other children.

Wow this is deep. Please release yourself of the hate and see what God will do for you. I have a feeling you can still go to school if you desire it. Why not start with one of this professional courses that has begginers class? Please try and upgrade yourself and you may even be better than the other children and mind you its not their fault but rather that of their parent.

Now let's ask these question,
Why do they keep secrets?
When was the act committed?
What is the secret?
Av heard of situations where ladies decide to share their past with maybe their future husband, but all they get is criticism or worst dissolution of the relationship.

ibk22:
We could also include the prayer that the person who knows should be nice enough to keep our secrets for us.

Don't you think praying or especially thinking about negative situations, brings it closer. Whatever is past is past, except when the secret is a deadly one, then the person should prepare for karma.

Death is a sudden encounter, I think that is why most secrets are taken to the grave. Maybe they had the intention to spill it someday but unfortunately death came knocking. Just maybe.

ibk22:
I've got some already. It is funny that we sometimes think we are carrying our secrets to the grave when in fact someone somewhere knows the truth. its a good observation though, maybe I should just change the subject instead.
please feel free to share if you have any.

And the prayer that, the person should forever stay far away from you, your present and future.