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| We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Jesuspistol(op): 7:23pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Last wk I posted a thread about how I can help my girl become bigger. All that time I hadn't seen her for over 2 years except in photos. But when I asked her for a recent pic and weight, I noticed she has added weight well and I'm impressed. But there's anoda prb. She was actually my jnr broda's (not blood broda) gf in school days and my bro always asked me for advice on how to love and handle her misbehaviour and so on. But all that while my bro handled her with humiliation but never told me, yet she loved him. She said she had a dream and she saw me and my bro in d dream but she followed and fell in love with me in the dream instead of him. She didn't tell anyone and I never knew. They were both in U.I and I was in LAUTECH but I noticed anytime I came around, she was always shy, she couldn't look me in d eye or call me by name. She calls me uncle and she smiles at everything I said. I interpreted it to mean that my bro was lucky. I was so broke then, I didn't even have my mind on a relationship. My bro was d one giving me some clothes to wear. It was dat bad. Well they broke up like a year ago and I didn't bother to reach out to her personally since I didn't even knw she had a crush on me but now that I've reached her, she couldn't hide her feelings, she poured out her heart. She told me abt d dream for the 1st time. She's so happy and moved to tears that I reached out at last. She's been in silent love with me all this while. I now realize she's actually a gud girl and not as bad as how my bro kept portraying her but I couldnt drag wife with my bro at that time. Well now we chat and call thru d nite till 4am, we discuss every intimate things including our families and all the gud and bad things we hrd about each other thru my broda. We have a lot of things in common and I love her so much. She's serving now in niger state but d problem is... She's now engaged to a phD student in U.I and they dated only a month b4 she went for nysc but he's been loving too and demanding for introduction after her nysc. Please what can I do. I'm so sad right now. Lalasticlala YorubaWoman gentlesinna ayourbamie Oma307 Tjpromise kannyluv joshsmarty bardella1 Medunah sexylogan holubee21 KashyBaby LuveU2 prettythicksme PinkBarbie Sexytemi Maxity02 cyndidamsel optional1 MrsChima ladyF mynd1 |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by INTROVERT(f): 7:29pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
come on guy... There are over 50 "good" million young ladies in Nigeria. 4 Likes |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Jesuspistol:wat advised do u want Shez a confused asshole Shez engaged to sum1 but inlove wt u Is dat even possible Shez just usin you pending wen her UI Bobo shows up 2.y do u want ur brodas leftover  3.i dnt know wat to say o..lol D ball is in ur court  2 Likes |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
I stoped reading at the part when she said she saw u in her dream, and that she loved you. BROTHERLY she is a family breaker, she wants to put enimity between u and ur younger brother, u cannot date ur brother's ex. its wrong b4 she turns both of u to cain and Abel. 2 Likes |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by repogirl(f): 7:34pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
This one be like love triangle abi rectangle or na trapezium sef..... Your situation difficult pass calculus, maybe the poster below might help. 1 Like |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by jmichlins(m): 7:36pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
INTROVERT:including our dear introvert. guy she is playing ludo on top your head let her go sort herself out and you do not need her type in your life if you value your relationship with your brother |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Iolite(f): 7:42pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
The girl to me o bros, is shameless. What kind of dirty and disgusting crush is that and the thing be say you were not in love with her until she told you of her dream. So you wan marry girl wey your brother don sleep with tire? |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nturguy1122: 8:21pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
She can only succeed in breaking the bond between u and ur bro...u loose on both ends...if u date her then u cant ave it right with ur bro again and the worst case scenario is when she now leaves u for her UI bobo...so i see..u sef just commot eye and let time heal the love u ave for her |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
LORDSAMURAI:Lol...same here,I felt the dream part was just too lame! |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by healthyarena(f): 10:01pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
So you did not meet any good girl while in LAUTECH? Let her keep pretending for you! Just don't come back and create a new topic "I married a witch" 3 Likes |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Lol funny girls Leave her and allow her make her decision. |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
Op simply forget her  . Simple  |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Royle2014(m): 11:27pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
IF they leave someone else for you. Whats the guarantee that she won't leave u for someone else. OP no matter how cool u are or how tight ur 'date game' is, there's always gonna b someone better. So if this girl is loving u, while stringing her supposed fiancee along, then she could as well b loving someone else while stringing you along 1 Like |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 12:39am On Mar 18, 2016 |
Smh...sorry but that a girl is a hoe... she never respected her bf in the first place..u are juz her "side nigga" in this game..and u, u have to back off coz she's in a relationship..ur both juz stabbing the back of her bf..ask urself what u gonna do if u were in the shoes of that man? Leave her and find someone that doesnt carry a baggage. |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Maamin(m): 1:01am On Mar 18, 2016 |
Wait O! Everybody is just telling the Op to leave her! Leave her!!..no one is even telling him to put Otapyapya inside her five alive before he moves on..how can she straf the younger bro and wants to straf the elder bro sequentially as well...no! she must not get away with that. Lai lai!  1 Like |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by klexycole(m): 4:10am On Mar 18, 2016 |
healthyarena:And You Think The Man With The Thread "I Think I Married A Witch" Would Be Happy With You? C'mon!You Ain't A Kid.It Happened To Him Today,It Might Be You Tomorrow(Not Cursing You Though).  Don't Take Advantage Of Another Person's Situation. Just My Opinion. Good Morning And Happy Friday.  |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by klexycole(m): 4:13am On Mar 18, 2016 |
Halfricanadian  |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by nanauju(f): 4:32am On Mar 18, 2016 |
No matter how we talk reach, na wetin dey ur mind op, u go do. Goodluck 1 Like |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by healthyarena(f): 7:09am On Mar 18, 2016 |
klexycole:You ain't a kid either and you should know that the person you mentioned has nothing to do with my comment! Make yours and stay on your lane please. |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
errm sorry I'm just seeing this.. I feel sad for you tho But hey move on.. You'll find true love someday.. Errm dats all I can say for now. .well goodluck.. |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Maamin:*salutes.. you are so on point jare Lols 1 Like |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Maamin(m): 7:06pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
joshsmarty:Sight you from under this cashew tree..  |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by optional1(f): 10:13pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Jesuspistol:bros abeg no vex wch kind advice u need 4 dis kind love matter now, u won marry d bae abi u no wan marry her? Well it does mean if she is engage wit another d engagement cant b broken if she loves u as u said she has to turn down engagement. But wait ooo bros r u ready to marry d gal in question now r u ready both financially materially spiritually? If ur ans na yes go fight 4 ur love but dnt break bottle lyk wizkid did oooo. 1 Like |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by klexycole(m): 11:06pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
healthyarena:Your Conscience Will Judge You. Have A Lovely Night Rest. #CaseClosed. |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by YorubaWoman: 6:16am On Mar 20, 2016 |
[color=#8C001A]Jesuspistol: Egbon, se e gbo yoruba? Oro yi so si mi lenu, o tun wa buyo si, iyo sire ko se e gbe mi. E ba ti so dele nigba alakoko Bo se wa ri bayi, ma gba yin lero lati sun siwaju. Ewa aya ti yin. Sugbon irufe arabinrin wo niyen, o ti wa engaji o si tun bayin so oro ife ti a ba wo daradara o ni kabakaba ni. O tun mo si wipe igba toun fe aburo yin, oun fe awon okunrin miiran. Nkan to ni siyin lawon oloyinbo npe ni 'crush'. Elekeji dabi oro mi lana ode yi, arakunrin kan ti a tijo soro ife ri tosi ti tan sibe lati November odun tolo wa nso fun mi lori chat pe oun si fe jeki a jo wa po. Mo ni rara o, o di aye atunwa. Ibo lofi oruko si tele abi leyin ti mo ti gba oruko ona kin wa ja oko afesona mi sile abi, ko saye nibe mo. Buroda, nkan ti nma soni pe, ki ewa obinrin ti yin siwaju, awon obinrin daada siku ti e ba ni suuru. Ete lasan ni ala ti oni yen. Olorun a ran yin lowo, yo si fun yin ni aya alalubarika ti iha yin gangan.[/color] |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by segebobo: 7:59am On Mar 20, 2016 |
What! Your younger brothers ex!! At least shame suppose catch u small Whatever could not make her remain with ur bro will cause her to break up with u too |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Taolyn4lif(m): 8:09am On Mar 20, 2016*. Modified: 9:12am On Mar 20, 2016 |
Dear OP, I think your story is incomplete for advice consideration. You stated that the lady is currently engaged to someone else, so from your post I don't think you've specifically told us exactly what the lady wants from you. Furthermore, you have refused to reveal to us your intention or plan for the lady in question. Do well to reveal these to us. |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by Taolyn4lif(m): 8:17am On Mar 20, 2016 |
optional1:Correct! Didn't even know that someone had asked you this |
| Re: We Love Each Other But We Found Out Late..please What Can We Do? by kannyluv(f): 3:27pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
Jesuspistol:. jesuspistol, If you love your life please deactivate the love you have developed for the girl....the girl have no choice and it has resulted for her to love any guy that comes around her...... |
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