NekkyCee: I hope someone won't faint in the coming months. The funds must be used for the purpose it was disbursed for. Our leaders need to be held accountable at all times.
Yakubu113: The earlier Nigerians understand that this men are not representing them but themselves the better for the country but instead of the youth to raise up against this old criminals there are busy watching bb9ja for 24h i think Nigeria is a lost course is very unfortunate.
. After reading the whole story above, it is clear that several researchers have made their claims of having a potential cure for this COVID-19 virus but the government have kept mute on this, I believe that if the government had given green light without delay for the verification of those claims then we would have at least had a herbal cure by now, it really a shame that because of petty politics and greed Nigeria will eventually import herbal cure for COVID-19 from Madagascar, wow I am dumbfounded but what do I know. This is Nigeria.
AmericanQuarter: Kudos to the agile and vigilant boundary closure monitoring task force comprising Anambra state political appointees and security agencies. They intercepted this vehicle in the early hours of Saturday, 9th of May, 2020 at Onitsha Bridgehead carrying some passengers disguised as members of the press. This is in violation of the Federal government of Nigeria 8pm to 6am curfew, and the state government’s boundary closure order.
1zombie1: Hey, what's up everyone out there How are you doing and how has the lockdown lift been treating you Lagosian and people at Fct plus Ogun?
Well, down here, there's nothing much?
My writeup is gonna be like a stoned rice but for the sake of staying safe at home, you have to lubricate you gastrointestinal tract to enjoy the stoned invisible palliative from the federal government. Make some correction but don't abuse me, i don't know what i can so. The internet is not so faceless. Pune intended.
Recently I went out with a friend of mine and we both ran into some issue consciously consensually but his mother after hearing from someone called us to gently talk us out of it. Well, it was a serious offense but my dad would have faint and my mother died.... I know what you are thinking, love? Nah, I don't think so. This man would always want to give direction to the smallest task you want to do in his presence except pressing the phone. The reason why I said it is not all for love is that, when he was rich for a moment in his life, it was always small children of my age mate that are a student and young indigene as well. Dad, I need money for clothing, "go resize those" would be your surest answer i would always get. This was happening during his heydays, now tell do you think it's still love. We don't really communicate, I don't know if I like him, although we still stay almost together. Abusive life from age zero attempted suicide when I was in primary school at age 8 or so. I could remember asking my friend why do God save those people that want to die. I guess the tiger battery can't kill me.
There are many atrocities that this man has committed against me that affect my sanity, IQ, sg, and eq. I could still remember I cried throughout the day when I saw my name in the worst school in my community and he didn't even care about that, from stopping me to making friends to, not allowing me to work or beating me for our last born. Sometimes, I don't eat for days when I beat majesty. I have my own problems too but if I pull strings, it would also point to them as the right cause. I'm introvert and so is my dad but my dad beat my mom when they were still young and mon always fear him that even when she shouldn't. Domestic violence, yeah, yeah
No f, no gf, no bs, no l, no life, zero account balance and i felt I have been abused mentally. For you that have normal parents, you don't know what's going on... You will never understand my nigga.
Ps; my conscience would always disturb me but have no heart to listen to it. I felt I lost that too. I don't love, like, miss, or want anybody. I just want me, low noise and not so many people that regard themselves as a friend but what do they know? Me that I can never miss you but if I have money I can help your ministry because. Not in a relationship without money and I super broke(its not good to call someone persistently poor, I don't want to even associate my self with poverty because always come with some permanent tendency that is not easy to contend with). So you young parents out there, for the sake of your children to be great man you want them to be. Stop doing some activities in their presence. I started masturbation when my aunt(father sister) raped me consistently for nights(a story for another day) and his royal highness will never allow me to make a friend. An experience m***tor but I feel ashamed for myself.
You see ehn, I have experienced many domestic cases of abuse but upbringing and Iq won't let me appreciate the whole system.
Nb: we live together in 'love', we are stuck in brokenness. But i don't know if he feels same way but i don't know what love is about. Because younger bro that has gfs has not heart as well. Treat them like mid trash but sometimes I believe he shows them love financially. Although I have been trying to break away and it seems almost impossible.
Some more horrific personal experience associated with my name are numerous, I will write them when I have time. Some bad habit would be nice to dropped too.
Hey you folks, i don't do blame game anymore, I have to share the story for the culture .
Next story, drug addict(unknown date)
. Hi over there bro, I know a bit of what you have passed through bro, but what I can tell you right now is to accept Jesus as your Lord and savior if you haven't done that, and read your Bible searching for the truth, to be sincere I believe God is about to challenge your life for the better but you have to give God your heart and mind by searching the Bible for the truth, I know you might say someone has told me this before but I believe what that person didn't tell you is that you success in God does not just happen in a day, you have to be consistent with reading your Bible and praying and gradually you will become free from all those things that have burdened you all this while. Don't worry wealth will come to you but of course you must do the right thing by praying, reading your Bible and going to work or getting a job if you don't have one. God bless you and may the peace of God be with you and may God heal all you open wounds amen.
Dupalmer: The truth is that rape is barbaric. Gagging you is another thing altogether. So sorry for the sad encounter. But waito: 1. I really don't understand how a nun should be living with a Hot oversexed groin and be expecting a monk treatment. 2. Forget about going to the police. There's a whole lot of burden of proof to look into especially considering the fact that you are living with him. Also you MAYBE robbing yourself of a great RELATIONSHIP and Happy MARRIAGE. O yes some blessing come in disguise. Hard fact.
3. It hurts to have your treasured virginity taken away in a way you didn't bargain for. GAGGING YOU IS THE MOST WORRISOME, it shows he has violent and CRIMINAL Tendencies. 4. You may reconsider taking it as one of those things. try and match his good qualities and make up for his weakness. There's no perfect person anywhere. 5. Most girls lost theirs in a more horrible way only to later become sex champions. 6. Pondering over the pain of what happened may cause you depression and unnecessary mood swings. 7. Console yourself with the fact that virginity and balloon has one thing in common. "A pick and it's all history" 8. If you see genuine remorse in him forgive him, get the both of you go for medical checkups, free your mind and continue with him. You'd see he will treasure you forever. 9. If you have made up your mind to forgive him then close your ears from sorry loser feminists. Their counsel will bring you more horrible pains. 9. You implied that you guys loves/loved each other. Well, love endures and there's no love without pain. Love heals.
. Really, you said it all you self 'it worrisome if he gagged you that shows he has criminal tendencies', oh come on, I am not saying she should not forgive him but the guy in question has a lot of issues to fix in his life before she should consider starting anything with him again, this is for her own good.
donpata: I hope this is true story. If it is, I hope you find healing soon enough. However, I do wonder how one man will rape a woman without her letting him. Except when weapons are involved, it's almost impossible for one man to rape a woman when she is fully conscious. Imagine having that thoughts for the rest of your life. That's emotional torture and you were unfair to yourself. Tried protecting him from shame and now you gonna carry this for as long as..... Hmmm.
That is why the law of God is written for our safe walk in this world. You went to his house, slept over and was "making out". Now, it's you feeling the pain, and not really God whom you disobeyed. Wish you healing.
. Yes, it for our own good but I don't know why a lot of people can't just understand it, it just plain simple!
Roycemadeit: I am so sorry about what is happened to you. Get em pills. And stay as strong as you have been. This is what happens when sex is labelled evil, it becomes more exciting.
DeeMain: So that's it? You don't want the idiot to pay? You want to unleash the animal to prey on other victims?
This painful story is making me angry.
It will be your choice if you choose to prosecute him or not though. There are Anti Rape advocacy groups that could help you fight this if you choose to thread this path. You can call them right away to direct you on what to do.
Secondly, do not blame yourself. You didn't rape yourself. Somebody did. He is responsible for the atrocity. Resist the urge to take up his guilt and responsibility as yours. Refuse to take the blame and shame. You were only naive and trusting, you didn't kill anybody. You didn't commit any crime. I repeat, refuse to accept responsibility for this rape. Place it squarely on the horrible animal you once called a boyfriend.
You are scarred physically now. You will likely be scarred emotionally and psychologically in the coming days and months and years. Pre-empt that. Get a therapist to help you break that cycle or go to those NGOs, they can provide professional help for free.
Lastly, get closer to God. Get more spiritual, you will need the support, strength and comfort therein in the coming days.
Don't leave this to chance. Take care of yourself. Then bounce back.
Life experiences are lessons. Learn your lessons. Let this make you stronger not weaker. Be the victor not the victim.
. Yes, she needs to learn and move close to God. Awesome counseling and the great direction you have pointed her to.
soulbroken761: I'm extremely introverted. It has always affected my relationships with people; family, colleagues, and lovers. I've not been in a real relationship before because of my communication issues. So I thought at 24 years, I need to learn how to be in relationship if I get a good guy. My female classmates are married or engaged and I felt left behind I met my guy and started staying days in his house at a go. I thought it was for the best. He is a good guy even though very broke. Honestly I put myself in this situation. We would make out but because I was a virgin, coupled with the fact that I have extremely low sex drive, I always told him to stop when it gets to that point. Even his finger hurt like crazy. It caused little quarells but he always told me he would never force it because he loves me. So this afternoon we were making out as usual and he started touching me down there. It was so dry and it hurt like crazy, as if the skin was peeling off. I think the fan contributed to the dry ess. Anyway I begged him to stop but he wouldn't and I was almost crying. He started trying to force his dickk in but it didn't enter. All the while, I was begging him while trying not to attract neighbors. It got so painful that I bit his arm very hard and that was when he stopped.
He was very very angry, asking what I did that for. I told him he put me through a lot of pain. He went out and came back at night. I saw he was still angry so I slept in the living room, trying to be understanding and not piss him off further. He came and lovingly moved me to the bedroom. I thought all was well and dozed off.
Only to feel my mouth being gagged all of a sudden. I was still confused because I never expected such a thing. He said he had been thinking of what to do to me for biting him. He put clothes in my mouth and tied my mouth very tight, bound my arms together at the back, forced my legs open. I was crying and begging not to let it be like that but he slapped my face.
He grabbed oil and poured it and began forcing his dick inside until it entered and he rapedd me. I just waited helplessly for it to be over. I bled so much. I cried in the bathroom and came out to leave. He started begging, saying he loves me, etc.
I wanted to WhatsApp my dad to tell him something terrible just happened to me but my heart broke when I saw his picture. My parents really tried.
I just wanted to pour out my feelings in this post. I already know it was my fault even though I feel robbed. I would have given it to him if he had been patient. I hope to get over it soon. Typing with tears. I will shamefully get something at the pharmacy in the morning so that I don't get pregnant
. So so sorry dear. God will heal you and help you get over this in time, amen.
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