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Kalago,
please am thinkin of moving to US soon to have my baby as well!
Can i hav ur email address to discuss some issues wit u, please?
Thank you

sorrytoo:
Even ,if u dey use the latest reg Range sports, if man come with Mercedes Sls Amg,u go trip!!!
if u had said he same with keke maruwa now,then u'll be talking,

Oga i no be material freak
Nottin dey shack me.

Ujujoan:
My dear at a point in your life you just have to choose between what you want and what your need! Sometimes it's a very difficult choice to make.

Do you 'want' him? Obviously Yes . . . . Do you 'need' him? Hell NO!

I honestly think you should cut him off completely. Stop picking his calls and stop all forms of communications with him.

Just my 2 cents!

Thank u

jay bee:
And if he does what plans do you have? How are u going to handle it?
Whatever you do just make sure you do it with a "No regrets" mindstate
good luck and stay blessed

Thank u, i wont disappoint u guys.

@ Toymz,livedit, adamribs, abbycrown, rolchi
Thank you guys. I appreaciate ur words

@Ekpoma
Do u knw d car am using. I got it wit my money ooo not loan
Am working so his money and car didnt freak me.
So if some girls r chasing uu cos of car, aint one of dem
Get dat stick to ur brain.

@ stillwater
Thank you. i dont need to watch any move again. Wot happened is a grammy winning movie

@ ishilove
I didnt make myself cheap. I didnt make mysef cheap and i repeat i didnt make myself cheap. He may see me dat way and pple too may see me that way but i dont feel dat way. U just open ur mouth to say i was desperate!! Desperate abt wot?!!!!
Get it cleared.u knw y, i enjoyed d s3x.

ifyalways:
Dayo,how were u able to pull T's data ? Are we safe here?

If you want return match,lets negotiate terms and conditions . . . 10K per  . . . :DNot true . . .

Relative I tell ya!.  

There are people that go into affairs just for sex,females too.And they don't even try to mask their intentions behind any love BS,they are very true and open abt want they want.If you are game we roll and afterwards its all man to his/her tent.To such people,they must have sEx with you first before they wud even bother abt your name.lolz Sex is the first and most important [/b]foundation to them and If it sucks . . .the whole affair crumbles.

Nigerians too.Some get hooked when they jam a [b]killer  pucccie or dicccck while others are still enjoying the free world.

OP's problem was that she did not prepare her mind for just sEx and Zoom. . .dude was prolly interested in hitting it hard,wham bam thank you ma'am while she expected more.

MrBrownJay wud explain better.lolz

Thumb up for d bolded part.
I made a mistake of allowing d s3x to get in2 my head so i plannned to see him again after d enjoyment. I didnt prepare my mind 4 s3x and zoom

@ Natasha & Jenny
Pls its a new day lets spend it wise . love u girls

@ all
I promise to give u d gists as time goes on. Dont worry cos am very sure he is coming back

Natasha,,:
me or do you think every one is a dirty pig like you?   dont worry i will buy a shaving cream for you woman from the bush in fact why should i even waste my money for a bush pig

Natasha
Please stop exchanging words wit her.
Thats okay please
We dont hv to be told by anyone wot our worth is.
For the fact i slept wit a guy d same day has not reduced my value and has not taken away my dignity.
I still remain myself.
So please lets move on
@jenny
I think we hv had enuf and dat shld be d end of it.
Nice evening everyone

Ujujoan:
Okay . . . that's enough!

You too Jenny . . .  

seriously this whole fight is not worth it!

Iremi forget the guy and move on . . .  next time look before you leap.

Cheer!

uju thanks
hv forgotten d guy and i hv moved on.
But i just had a lovely day due to d posts i read frm some pple 2day.
Thanks every one esp jenny for making my day.

jennykadry:
@uju

I don't believe it and thats it. Look at your friend that moved in with a guy even after bride price payment still he left her.

what exactly do you call ''get out more often?''


@ iremi
Yes kadry got me preggers and married me after our night stand, what can be said of you?

No dykkkkk, no sperm left in ya poosie, the guy squeezed the last sperm left in ya hole before he left, he even left scratch marks on your bosoms to tell men that you are cheap assed slut, a biatch, a desperado with  o brains to cover her pubic hair.

Come oooo, maybe it's becos of the bush you have down there that the guy refused to date you, fear of a lion or tiger or even cobra falling out of your eveil forest called pubic hair made him run away. don't use a razor to shave ,pls use a garden scissors becos it will take a day to scrape off the hair and littered sperm lying around, maybe sef you might have hairs in ya poosieeee hence the difficult penetration

U knw wot ?! Am a clean shave babe? nice clean pu33y, no hair strand. He even begged me 4 sucking i turned him down.
I am clean lady, armpit, no pubic hair. Whaooooo u will just love touching it  

Ujujoan:
And it's now a 'story' because your don't believe it   Seriously Jenny, you need to get out more!

And yes, I consider myself streetwise. I've seen things that people twice my age have not. You got married really early, probably never had more than two bfs all your life. For some of us, that's not the case.

Why do you think everything is black and white?  

Why do think it's right to judge people . .  to encourage double standards?

The sex is not enough reason for a relationship the crumble (except the guy is a judgmental hypocrite). If the guy didn't like her attitude, or didn't like her gap tooth, or didn't know she was that dark in complexion . . . that would be a reason to call off the relationship! Why do you think it has to be because she was 'cheap'?  

uju pls i can feel u. i dont think she is exposed or she mistakenly got pregnant which led to early marriage.

@ jenny
I enjoyed my Bleep wit him, i wont deny that fact. The s3x i  had wit him didnt hurt me one bit. Who knows it mayb cos of wot i enjoyed wit him thats making me to go after him again. I will think abt dat now.
@ sweet T
yes Thank u dear.

Mich
We r diff pple, wot worked for her maynot work for me?
Whats her problem? If my mother wuldnot insult me wit d way she did if she heard wot i did.
This shows the way she was brought up and the same way she is bringing her children up.
Wots her business wit my life. I dont knw she knws d meaning of desperate.

jennykadry:
Lmao iremi ashewo did i hit a nerve. I no dey involve family but let me indulge you a little.heheheheheh who be ya papa? No be ya mama wey her womanliness dey smell like rotten scrambled eggs with bacon wey lagos touts use their dirty ''owo'' fingers insert for her anus c'mot be mucus wey drag you comot for this world?

Abi you don forget say ya mama is a love-peddler that men pay 10naira per hour to fcuukkk her brians out so tey she don discharge expired semen due to old age.

Abi na ya  pa dey fuckkkkk ya sister every night with him dykkkkk wey be like ''tifer'' head battery, uncircumcised  piece of worthless specie naim ya papa be.

Abi na ya brosses wey dey busy dey insert their fists for ya sisters anus, so tey to shyt dey hard them. Abi na ya mama wey men dey discharge untop her boobbbbbsss everyday as the thing flat like my bathroom slippers and with nipppplessss as large as a punctured lime.


Heheheheheheheh Gawd punish that ya mama wasted pooosieeee

u hv really cracked my ribs 2day.
Me thats thinking my mr one nite stand didnt get  back have forgotten the issue wit ur post alone.
Please send kadry my way, i wil give him d Bleep of his like under 2mins that we meet
Old woman like u, u aint my match pls. I dnt curse pple and i respect parents alot. It shows to me u dont hv proper upbringing.
I wonder the area u grew up. Who knws mayb after ur 1mth shakara wit kadry, he impregnanted u and pple quicly said he shld marry to avoid disgrace since u didnt like him frm day one so u didnt hv choice but to develop the love.
Let me leave u here. Catch ya

jennykadry:
if she had met this guy physically and been with him for the whole one month then I would have managed the word love

I wasn't even interested in kadry in the first place. yes it took time and alot of conversation,outings before my emotional mind could connect to his. When you start falling inlove ,your eyes becomes very conscious the eyes relay positive emotions to the mind and that is why when you see a guy you love, your eyes flutters because they have become use to the emotions that comes with physically meeting him.

Which one is more painful after shakara for one mth, he bleeped u and went away and having it the first nite and he ran away?
U never loved kadry becos u never liked him in d first place.
If another guy had come ard that time and u fell for him am very sure u wuldnt look at kadry 2ice be4 u pour hot water on him not to come to ur place again.
It is obvoius that its becos of ur aggressive xter thats y u didnt get another suitor which now made u to go for kadry in d end. U didnt hv another choice.
I knw d poor kadry is a victim in ur life.
I dnt need alum to wash my pu33y be4 its tight. U see y i called u a local woman. So thats wot u do everytime for ur tight pu33y so diff guys u shagged wuld think u were tight.
U r a naughty street fighter housewife

jennykadry:
@iremi

Ashewo oshi. I said you are cheap and desperate. You are sluty, loose, desperate name it. Oya hit ya head on brick wall. You better go and wash that womanliness of yours with lime and alum to tighten it before the next customer comes knocking. Ode. You think say kadry looks like the hit and run men that knacked you off a bridge ? We are talking about responsible men here not silly rettaarrrdddsss like yourself. I am not quiet CC,so if you don't wanna die of high blood pressure just ignore my post. Desperado.

@uju
II will never advice my daughters to do a one night stand. I think it is cheap. my best friend before I got married was a guy,infact I had more male friends as oppposed to females. And like I said no sane man wants its cheap. I don't care if he is the one or not ,one night stand  is cheap.

Can't quote,i am mobile

I can see u are one local old cargo woman. So becos i mentioned dat kadry culd b one of the 3 ,u now brought down d roof

Some1 shld just help me to laff.
Woman, whn u were zipping up for kadry, trying to b a die hard to get, let  me telling u he was busy bleeping another girl
Dont b mad wit this okay
I cant bet that dat kadry cant hold my hand cos i wonder that kinda man u got married to.
And wot did i want from him, mayb i had already imagined that his dick wuld be long so i was desperate to Bleep him . Is that wot i want?
That was exactly wot i enjoyed most in kadry ,

Ur daughter is having nightsssss of standsssss already if u dont knw and she wont tell u.
Stupid and local woman.
Aint desperate oooo u & i are not on d same level.

@ NAtasha pls dont mind ds illiterate woman. She is very sick upstairs

uju
Am  not being violent only that they way some pple talk atimes baffles me.
I agree that i was careless wit my feelings but aint desperate. The s3x didnt not bother me at all. Fine i loved him and but it he decided to leave ds way. no problem
Thanks tho

jennykadry:
Uju even we women hate men that are not principled, we hate men that are not disciplined. Give a guy a run for his money. Not kidding but kadry smelt his backside b4 any show. A man that truly wants to settle down will keep coming and keep loving the delay, a man that wants to sleep with you will try once ,twicw at most 5times and move on to the next girl. No man wants it cheap.

And yes she is desperate. Why is the poster screaming like a lunatic cos some peeps called her desperate. Yes she is desperate . She stated that she broke up woth her ex in sept and she's been with 3men already? Na so woman dey fall for man? Who cares if you've slept with him alone? You've had 3 guys in the space of how many months?

You are desperate.

After hw many men did kadry finally get u? I was with 3 men so wot?
And if i slept wit d 3 so wot and do u knw if ur kadry is among?
I wonder d way u girls reason atimes.
Look if i were 2b a desperado like u r shouting, i wuld not b here.
I dnt even owe u nada if i sleep wit anybody.
Those u knw wot am talking abt have spoken and i hv learnt from dem.

armyofone:
OP, having se.x with someone on the first date is a NO NO in gals ethic book don't you know that. dont repeat such mistake again
learn and move on, don't take him back another big NO NO, cheers

Thank u sir.

Natasha,,:
That's good to know, I'know how you feel cos its happening to me right now I just fell in love with this guy and its as if I have known him for long and I have never seen him before we just chart and talk on phone I'm scared of expressing my feelings cos I don't wanna make mistakes. You  should try as much as possible to hold your jeans tight cos this days you hardly know who is sincere ok. I really think you should find a means and talk things over, if he gives a good reason for this you can still go ahead with him but if not then forget him and move on I know its difficult but try k
my dear you cannot care or feel  for someone you don't love even if its your next door neighbour although I know that the love you have for a neighbour is different from that of a partner but all in all its still love , to care for someone is to be very concerned about what happens to them, you can't care for someone you don't love my dear

Thanks my dear. I dont knw hw u care and feel for someone u dont love.
Mayb dre own definition of love is having s3x wit their neighbour.
I wil be careful wit my feelings next time dear.
He too will knw wherever he is that i love him to care so much abt him ds way. And unfortunately i may b in love wit the wrong person

Let me apologise for my mistake here.
We didnt meet on dating site. We actually met on a FB am very sorry abt that. I didnt even knw i wrote dating site. So if this is d reason y everybody is saying am desperate, am sorry i called for it

Let me apologise for my mistake here.
We didnt meet on dating site. We actually met on a FB am very sorry abt that. I didnt even knw i wrote dating site. So if this is d reason y everybody is saying am desperate, am sorry i called for it
I never discussed marriage with him. he was even the one telling me that time is going as a lady that my priority shld be marriage if he, a guy culd be thinking abt how to settle down. So aint desperate abt getting marriage MADAM
Whn he called me one nite and i told him i was going to club he begged me not to go dat i shld stop dat kinda life style. Honestly i didnt go to club dat nite cos i knw i wuld drink. He has really helped me with my bad life style so i really appreciate him for this.
My friends didnt believe that i culd stop clubbing like that. They said they wuld give me time dat i wuld still come back

baby.me:
Hey,you don't need to address madam CC that way. She is telling you nothing but the truth.You were desperate and he played you for who portrayed yourself to be. You better take the good advice given you here and next time think with your head instead of your punanie

I dont give a Bleep who she is . She is not my mama so u cant spill her truth to  me like dat. Is that they way u advise pple. I have read more posts worse that dat but not in ds manner.
Hw many men did sleep wit be4 u got married? And if u got married as a virgin, congratulations ur reward is in heaven.

chaircover:
Youre taking your anger out on the wrong person babe.

. . . . . and yes it does reek of desparation if you keep on calling someone who clearly doesnt want to speak to you. Move on with your life cos he surely has.

@baby.me no wahala. She is angry. So I understand.  

Aint angry abt anythg just pissed off wit ur post dats all.
Aint even angry wit the dude let alone wot he did to me. Life will definitely go on and life has moved on for me since cos i dont have any cause to get in touch wit him again.
Next time u just dont tongue lash pple anyhw. Weigh ur words be4 u pour it out.

Natasha,,:
awwwwwww baby its okay, If you truly love him that much I think you should find a way to meet him and talk things over with, he should let you know where you stand, And men you shouldn't have had sex with him on a first date gosh. I know sometimes we do crazy things when we are in love but it was just a first date gal. And you guys don't have to be rude to her after all no one knows the skeletons you guys have in your cupboards .
And who the hell told you guys you can't fall in love with someone you hardly know?

tx dear i knw i shld hv done dat the first day. I must tell u dat my last rship ended in Sept and we had s3x last July. Be4 i met ds guy, i had been wit 2 guys but it didnt work out. I must tell u i didnt hv s3x wit any of ds 2. There was one that was desperate to marry me. I wuld go to his house to sleep but NO S3X. So whn we finally broke up cos we aint compatible, i just moved on.
But whn i met ds guy, they way we used to talk on fone, it was as if we hv knwn each other for years. We wuld go back to the 90s and discuss so many tales. Whn we eventually met, i knw i wuld b able to resist him so i went for it.
I love him i wil say that again. I truly love him cos i gave him my heart and i have not regretted it. I think abt him

jay bee:
^^^^
It's practically impossible to fall in love with someone you've only known for a month

you can have feelings for them but surely not love

Also, why are you advising her to arrange another meet up? It's clearly a bad idea as the OP is obviously attracted to this dude and his lies, i'm sure she probably wouldn't be able to resist the second round/doze of mandigo which obviously will bring her back to square 1,2 or whatever.

If u cant fall in love wit some1 in a month dont think another person cant esp a woman.
U r a man so u may not have dat kinda feeling.
For u to knw hw much i love him, if it happens that he comes back and explain to me wot went wrong wit evidence and he is able to do wot i ask him to do, am telling u i wil forgive him and take him back cos he has all i want in a man. Despite his health condition i still love him.
Just admit that