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chaircover:
How can you love someone you hardly know?  If you can throw caution to the wind so can he. You gave it all to him in no time and so what is left for him to look forward to?

You are even lucky that he is only avoiding your calls. The callous ones will set their friends up to have a taste of you or abuse the hell out of you when you call him.

The only thing to do now is to gather what is left of your dignity, refrain from calling him, hold your head high and get on with life, making sure that you remember all the lessons that you have learnt from this episode.

Desperate women are a turn off to many men.

Just hold ur words right there or r u my mama now? How does having s3x wit some1 d first day goes wit desperation? if u dont hv reasonable thing to say u can shut the hell up.
Is it a  must u say somethg? U told u i was desperate to have him? I enjoyed the s3x i had wit him and i didnt regret it. I wanted it so get that into ur brain
U can keep ur bleeping remaining dignity to ursef cos i still have the whole of mine.
Next time when u see my post dont ever bother to read let alone contribute.

jay bee:
What are u really looking for actually? sympathy perhaps?
You are here claiming you love someone you barely even know and it's obvious he played a fast one on you so count your loss and be wise next time

Aint looking for anything actually. not even sympathy
Ok mayb i had feeling s for him if its wrong saying i love someone i hardly knw.
Just to hv pple advice. I believe wot i hv read so far has really given me the gut to move on.
tx oga

SA Goddess:
Dude has a sweet tongue too he told you what he thought you wanted to hear. . . . . .glad you are moving on. . . .

No problem . Notting dey happen

Ujujoan:
Ahhhh Jenny . . . . . '[b]Love' makes you do silly things!

At end of the day we appear cheap, used, desperate e.t.c . . . when all you wanted was to share this beautiful feeling with someone you think gets it!

The pains of unrequited love . . . it can drive a person crazy! [/b]

What's happened has happened. I think you should just forget him and move on . . . You took a risk, i didn't work out . . Life goes on!

Uju, u can feel my pain. i didnt it for love thinkin we culd start somethg frm dre but it ended in a mess. He played the fast one on me.Kudos to him

^^^^^^^
Thank you

SA Goddess:
I hate to be the wet blanket here but if you so much allow him to tell you more lies, you will end up with your heart being broken into pieces, be careful of this guy especially because he has shown you what he is about, believe him!!!

It happen again. i hv my plans too if he shld show up again  cos it wuld be a big mistake if he thinks i forgive like that (Beyonce)
Thanks gf, am already moving on.

sorrytoo:
first of all ,u messed up big time by sleeping with him the first time,

Yes u can wait the earth to sleep with him and he will still leave u ,if he dosent like u,but by sleeping with him, the first time,u made urself look cheap, o , try ra ra,

what differentiates u from the aristo loving girls ?nothing!!,the only thing is u didnt ask for money,he probably thought ,u will soon ask,hence the sharp exit, (to him,he feels like a sharp guy ,i don chop ,clean mouth)

he calling ,once a while is just to not make it not look too obvious that he ditched u,but he even cant be bothered to act it well,

i will like to tell u things that will make u feel better ,but i cant,

At least u enjoyed the Sx right?,so just shrug your shoulders,dust it off and Move on,but at least ,nobody go ever use u as mugu again,

it happens to the best of us ,trust me, so put your head up,

Thank u am moving on already. I knw i wuldnot ask him for a dine cos i knws where am working and hw much am earning. SO he wuld knw i slept wit him cos of my true feelings. He even told me  i was the first working class he wuld date cos all the school girls used to ask him for me and wuld jilt him at the end so he preferred me to any of them

andromida:
op he is not serious he has chopped and clean mouth. let him go start working on expelling him out of your system he is not worth the headache. but note that he will want to keep you close so that any time he needs some he can get from you surely you are worth more than that.

Thank u. i knw i dont deserve ds but i hcv to move on.

Omolola1:
First,

Why did you sleep with him the first day,
Again, i dont think he even told you much things about him

Bone the guy
He might be married for all i care

Omolola shit happens. I wanted the s3x at that time cos i culdnt control my feelings. if i didnt want it, u wuldnt rape me.
u guys have every right to scold me that i messed up big time by allowing s3x the first time.
Thanks tho

J12:
There is a reason for everything. He has a reason for behaving that way. You both really have alot to talk about.

u think so?

Basildon1:
No one is rly goin to judge you based on that (ok, just a lil   ). But then just be a big gal, cut your losses (maybe learn your lesson, maybe) and dont have a heartache over it. The handwriting on this wall is just too clear.

thank u

Thank u all for ur advise. i knw i screwed up.

baby.me:
I can feel your pains,but seriously you have to stop calling him for now. IMO if there is anything wrong with him he should inform you duly instead of putting you through so much heartache.

Don't appear desperate to him,face your job and when he's ready hw will contact you. You are worth more than this.

More Blessings

Thank you i really appreciate ur words

iyatrustee:
not like dat my dear! if we are all too serious advising you, the thread would be boring you know. just a little bashing gives it flava

I kcan understand wot u r trying to say but nothing with standing u can bash cos i asked for it and at the same time give ur opinion.
I knw i screwed up. tx tho

SA Goddess:
OP, I am sorry to say this but sounds like your "cyber man" is busy elsewhere. . . . . .throughout your essay, you say nothing about him loving you but him being happy that someone truly loves him at last. . . .  .he is messing with your head girl.  Maybe he knew talking about marriage would get you to open up. . . . your legs I mean    I wouldn't be surprised if he is still with the girlfriend he told you about.

As for him warning you in advance that he would reject your calls, I die a small death, playa!!!      

He told me he loves me but u cant see or knw anyones mind towards you. u can oly knw urs towards that person. He still sopke to me on Saturday. He told me he was coming from the Hospital to monitor the corpse of his cousin. That the corpse has bn kept in the mortuary. So atleast he wuld rest after his running up and down. On Sunday, he told me he was in d noisy place that he wuld call me back.
I dont knw wot to believe again

iyatrustee:
she no want make we bash and my mouth dey sharp

Wot wuld be ur gain if u bash me?
It adds notting to it cos i knw already that i messed up by having sex with him. He didnt force me, i allowed it cos i wanted to

M M M:
iremi sorry 4 asking how much does he have?

I dont knw hw much he has cos aint after his money.

Goldieluks:
first of all,i don't think you are inlove with him,i think you are in lust with him.
second of all,maybe he is married,or he's just a hit and run waster.

my advice for you,is to forget about him,he's just another finger licking pusssy bozo,
he's a heart breaker and a liar.

its up to you,to either forget him,or keep calling him,while he's probably
with another girl,its very obvious he doesn't care about you,he calls you
whenever he likes and you keep calling the mofo.

Am inlove with him cos i cant call it lust.
I messed up by sleeping wit him the first time we met i accepted.
If he is a liar and heartbreaker like u said, i knw wit time i will get over it .
Thank u

We met sometimes last month on a social networking site. We got along talking on d fone 4a while. He told me he didnt have serious relatiuonship like wise me.
One day he culd not stand without seeing me so he drove down for 2 hrs to come and see me. It was a weekend. I was first scared to follw him becos i knw i really had feeling s for him. He told me he knw i was scared but he too wuld control himself. We drove  back to where he was chilling ( not where he was staying. He likes to travel so he goes to diff places whn he is not working). After so many romance, we ended up  making love.
We r 2gether thru out d wkend. He brought me back on Monday. We got along on the fone. He told me he doesnt like to pick calls whn he he is driving so if he doesnt pick my call it means he doesnt see it and if he rejects it, it means he is not convinient for him to pick it but he sees it.
He just lost one of his first cousins due to fatal accident. Out of no time whn he came to Lag last friend to see the family, he came to my place to see me. he apologised that he knw he has kept me waiting and that hes sorry he wuld leave me again but he wuld make it up to me. I cried cos i love him and culdnt stand him leaving me again. He confessed to me that for the first time someone is in love wit him truly.
His past rship was bad becos his fiancee left him after 3yrs to marry his friend becos she said he was asthmatic. He told me he has been playing ard since so wit me he has found ytrue love. He told me that he wuld need to move a fast move for m eto meet his pple. His parents r late and he is the only son so his family has been pressurizing him to get married.
That friday, he promised to come and pick me after Sunday service that we wuld be 2gether so that we can have time for each other since he has not created time for him all the while. On Sunday during service i called him to knw hw far, there was noise where he was and i culdnt hear him. After service his # was off.
I tjot  he had flat battery. I waited the whole day for  him, i sent pings but not delivered. I became so worried praying nothing bad  had happened to him. Around, 11pm, i just woke up to check my fone and i saw dat all my pings had delivered and he had read dem. He didnt reply any.
On Monday, i called him thru out he didnt pick up. Attimes he wuld reject my calls. I felt so bad that i couldnt control my tears again. I begged him, said so many things morning,  noon & nite. No words, no calls from him.
I got angry, i deleted his contact. I made up my mind that it was over that mayb i had used me or something. I planned to move on.
Yester morning around 630 whn i was going to work, my fone rang and i was suprised he called him, i didnt knw wot to say. He asked me where i wwas and i told him i was on my way to work. Asked him if hes fine, he said as soon as i got to work i shld let him knw.
Whn i got to work, i called him he didnt pick again. Thru yesterday,  he didnt pick or call me. Till ds moment.
I dont  knw the meaning of all these. I love him truly i wont deny that. He told  me he was scared of him losing me so he didnt want long courtship cos he needs to settle down ASAP. I am desperate abt marriage he is the one talking abt it.
I dont knw y he doesnt want to talk to me. Isent a ping to him that even if a woman is involved, he culdnt be wit the woman the whole day and atleast he can excuse himself and talk to me for 1mins.
I dont knw wot to do. Am  very sorry for my long story but i need serious advise.
Guys please wot do u think he is doing or up to. Please no abuses or insult.
Thank u

We met sometimes last month on a social networking site. We got along talking on d fone 4a while. He told me he didnt have serious relatiuonship like wise me.
One day he culd not stand without seeing me so he drove down for 2 hrs to come and see me. It was a weekend. I was first scared to follw him becos i knw i really had feeling s for him. He told me he knw i was scared but he too wuld control himself. We drove  back to where he was chilling ( not where he was staying. He likes to travel so he goes to diff places whn he is not working). After so many romance, we ended up  making love.
We r 2gether thru out d wkend. He brought me back on Monday. We got along on the fone. He told me he doesnt like to pick calls whn he he is driving so if he doesnt pick my call it means he doesnt see it and if he rejects it, it means he is not convinient for him to pick it but he sees it.
He just lost one of his first cousins due to fatal accident. Out of no time whn he came to Lag last friend to see the family, he came to my place to see me. he apologised that he knw he has kept me waiting and that hes sorry he wuld leave me again but he wuld make it up to me. I cried cos i love him and culdnt stand him leaving me again. He confessed to me that for the first time someone is in love wit him truly.
His past rship was bad becos his fiancee left him after 3yrs to marry his friend becos she said he was asthmatic. He told me he has been playing ard since so wit me he has found ytrue love. He told me that he wuld need to move a fast move for m eto meet his pple. His parents r late and he is the only son so his family has been pressurizing him to get married.
That friday, he promised to come and pick me after Sunday service that we wuld be 2gether so that we can have time for each other since he has not created time for him all the while. On Sunday during service i called him to knw hw far, there was noise where he was and i culdnt hear him. After service his # was off.
I tjot  he had flat battery. I waited the whole day for  him, i sent pings but not delivered. I became so worried praying nothing bad  had happened to him. Around, 11pm, i just woke up to check my fone and i saw dat all my pings had delivered and he had read dem. He didnt reply any.
On Monday, i called him thru out he didnt pick up. Attimes he wuld reject my calls. I felt so bad that i couldnt control my tears again. I begged him, said so many things morning,  noon & nite. No words, no calls from him.
I got angry, i deleted his contact. I made up my mind that it was over that mayb i had used me or something. I planned to move on.
Yester morning around 630 whn i was going to work, my fone rang and i was suprised he called him, i didnt knw wot to say. He asked me where i wwas and i told him i was on my way to work. Asked him if hes fine, he said as soon as i got to work i shld let him knw.
Whn i got to work, i called him he didnt pick again. Thru yesterday,  he didnt pick or call me. Till ds moment.
I dont  knw the meaning of all these. I love him truly i wont deny that. He told  me he was scared of him losing me so he didnt want long courtship cos he needs to settle down ASAP. I am desperate abt marriage he is the one talking abt it.
I dont knw y he doesnt want to talk to me. Isent a ping to him that even if a woman is involved, he culdnt be wit the woman the whole day and atleast he can excuse himself and talk to me for 1mins.
I dont knw wot to do. Am  very sorry for my long story but i need serious advise.
Guys please wot do u think he is doing or up to. Please no abuses or insult.
Thank u

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chipmunkey:
is your love conditional?

My love is unconditional but i know what i want.
Thank u.

Sweet T:
No mind the yeye girl, she is still in love with him otherwise she wouldn't be asking this yeye question. If a woman wants nothing to do with you, she wouldn't even waste her time thinking about anything that pertains to you not to talk of coming to a public forum. I can bet $100 that this girl doesn't have gut not to add him as a friend. SHE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIM!

Thank you u read my mind.This was exactly what i wanted to ask her if she was still in love or not.She loes the guy and hurt at the same time cos of the way the guy left her.I dont blame her though.

@ poster if u know if will hurt u to see his posters on FB,dnt add him cos this will bring more pains since the way u guys parted broke ur heart.He wants to know somethings abt you that is y he is insisting

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Am a xx yr old single lady, a xtian ,Yoruba,5'6 tall and a working class.I just broken a my engagement.I need a guy i can call mine.He shld be btw the age of 36-42,must be taller dan me,preferably Yoruba, a xtian as well.He must be a working class and very caring.Please this is not a joke.I dont want a divorcee as well.You can reach me on 07029204388 or iremi4real@yahoo.com.
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