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Weneda:
Better leave that girl allow and go ur way. If she comes back begging don't accept. She's playing with ur emotion. And u talked of her blocking u, maybe u are the one forcing urself on her. This is not a healthy relationship. I didn't say is bad spending a girl but that girl is not productive, maybe she might have a guy she truly loves outside.

Thanks very much may God bless you... she unblocked me saying we should talk about what happened yesterday that I should be mature for once...cuz I'm just ignoring her messages...I just have to block her and delete her number.

lordally:
Bro use your head ooo!! Them swear for you say na only Jobless girl you go see to date You no fit see working class girl date Habah!!!!! Suffer no dey tire you ...why are guys so funny!!! You make small money you run Fiam!! Go carry Unnecessary Responsibility!!! Can't you look for a girl who has goals , visions and plans for her self Bro get yourself a maturd girl if not Poverty go tie you like wrapper ooo... For God sake as a man that has plans of having a Financially stable future you need to have a partner who's focused and has goals no be all these small small pikin wey no know wetin life dey talk!! Use your head ooo. See there is a kind of woman you would get ehn!! Your life go change for the better!!! For example I'm working on travelling out of Nigerian this year ...my babe dey plan gimme 750k... While I try gather 1.5M ... Now tell me why if I see person wey dey disturb my babe I no go Off Shirt kee that person!!

Thanks very much brother...may GOD Bless you....you really nailed it bro...thanks alot o

Agbebakun22:
Baba we have similar issues mine I knew the girl is dating someone else but just keep mute and stop giving her any money, she done something that made me to finally end the relationship on first this year After shouting happy new year, no be say the boy weh dey date even better pass me in terms of finance and handsomeness lol just dey look the idiot despite good plan's I had for this babe this 2021

omor NAwa o...girls are something else.

JJoce:
You were played by her... Just pick up the pieces and move on. This may be hard to do at first, but you must. I hope this experience teaches you.

Yes it's really hard just pained.

Olakunleyakub:
You are always welcome my nigga.

Honestly I know how you feel cos nearly all of us have gone through one bad relationship or the other but don't wait to heal just move on and grow with disappointment cos people don't actually heal of a bad relationship of their loved ones.

Work more on yourself and responsible ladies will be flocking around you.

Just move on pls and I bid you success in your life journey.

Pls take care of your parents very well ooooooo..they are the idol you must not forget to worship everyday...they are the only ones i know that can't leave you during difficult time but you see those our generation ladies hen? Runoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

once again thanks very much...you will never know sorrow in your life...you'd never know what you've done to cool my heart down with your words... Thanks very much brother.

Olakunleyakub:
There is know how you will write all this and people will not bash you. You self think am nah

That is why I always advise my friend to invest most on their family especially parents they are the only two people I know that can never leave you when things go south.

You are a greatest simp..the lady was just playing with ur emotions and sucking you dry

You are supposed to go to church or mosque do a thanks giving that bad luck and gold digger just left yourife and you are here creating uneccessary thread.

The truth is that 80% of women don't like weak and soft guy like you honestly. That is there nature. They blv in sum1 with self worth and esteem that will not even send them at all

You don't owe any lady a dime and she does not owe you too. Nobody is doing any favour for anyone among you for dating each other you both like yourself and agreed to on a love journey so stop acting as if she is doing you a favor by dating you.

The rules of the game is to leave immediately when it is obvious to you that you are the only dating yourself or it is becoming more toxic or affecting your happiness and peace of mind.
Remember in anything, your happiness comes first above everything

The solution is for you to work on your personality especially ur self worth and swallow the red pill lesson a little bit not the extreme one dough on how to be a real man and stop giving a Bleep where Bleep shouldn't be giving and those period of not giving a Bleep are the moments that actually define our life.

Peace.

Thanks very much bro...you really nailed it.

Good morning nairalanders...and happy new year..I just need you to tell me what to do I need an advice from you all...have been in relationship with this girl and it's gonna clock two years this year....so been watching her since last year....I'm the one that calls always...but she'd never return the call...she do call before around that last year April when things are still good..even post me do all sort of things....but when I'm little financially down everything just stopped..she'd never call if I don't call...she'd always complain she doesn't have card to call....so I was just watching her and decide to keep mute and see what's happening... around October...my business start kicking in again.. but I'm still pretending like I don't have to see what she's up to...but I send her the little i can...ever since then she doesn't just call..any little thing she'd say is over and block and come back begging again....around November last year she said she wanna learn a job and i said no problem... I talked to the girl she wanna learn cake from and she said 60k..I promised to pay..but I was just thinking if I let her do won't this girl backstab me later....she also said she wanna learn wig...which I promise to give her too..but I'm just reasoning everything.... I take very good care of this girl....I do all what she needs...we actually see on the 25th of December....whereby i gave her some money for Christmas...after 25th...she was still troubling me telling me I'm not giving her attention...whereby I channel all my attention to her...where things start mixing up was at dec 31..whereby she was disturbing me I must send her money on the 1st of January... but I decide not to just to see what she really wanna do...she never called on the 1st ....all she do is send an happy new year message and then ask for money.....so yesterday I called her and tell her we need to talk about our relationship...that it seems she's tired...she said maybe I might be tired that I'm using the trick on her..and I just have to say everything on my mind... all she do is just break up and block me...it was painful though... I did alot for her when i was still okay....though I'm getting back on my feet....nairalanders I need your advise... I'm really heartbroken.. What do you think I can do about this girl...?no insults please.