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Christians are hypocrites they don't wear trousers to church but wear it to work, school, office, market and other places, does it mean that God is only in the church?? And he Don't see or care about what happen outside?? Don't be a hypocrite who condemn another sin but commit another one, (Still on the reformers/protestants saga) So yesterday one of those people that were insulting the Catholics and other denominations for a twisted Church doctrine, posted a picture of himself drinking beer publicly with his friends. This guy is also a chronic womanizer and everyone one knows that. Then I ask myself does it mean that God will not judge him because he dress decent and overlook his other part of fornication, drinking of alcohol and lies? Some few years back a lady from Sierra Leone claimed she went to heaven and God told her that only deeper life members will make heaven because they are the only Church that dress decent In Nigeria, but Bishop w.f kumunyi came old and rebuke the lady and said that such message was from the pit of hell, the Bible says that people are not defied by what they eat or wear, people are defied by what come out of their mouth. Do you believe that their are some prostitutes who dress decent and cooperate?? Same with arm robbers, kidnappers, etc.so will they make heaven just because they dress well?? Mind you I'm not supporting indecent dressing but I think dressing is not the most important thing in a Christian life, the Bible command us to pursue holiness & righteousness because with it no one will see God. Some of you with all your dressing no one know you even here on earth and in heaven, but there are some women who wears trousers but when they pray or speak miracles happen, women like Paula white, Joyce Meyer, Victoria osteen, Juanita bynum, Shirley ceaser etc. Even Jesus Christ the owner of the church did not send the prostitute away non did he sacked juda, so who are you to send someone out of the church?? Let's be careful in doing some things, before you become like those who killed Jesus Christ thinking they were fighting for God, no one can fight for God, same way someone died because he wanted to support the ark of God. Jesus Christ said allow both the plants and the weeds to grow together until harvest time then God Almighty will judge everyone by himself. Christians are hypocrite they condemn another sins but commit another one, don't be a hypocrites who don't wear trouser to church but wear it to work, school, office, market and other places, it means that your God is only in the church and he Don't see or care about what happen outside?? There is no holiness of a place, what makes a place or an environment holy is the presence of the holy spirit in us, if you have the holy spirit of God in you where ever you go everywhere you stand the place automatically becomes a holy ground and no evil shall come near there. Don't be a hypocrite who condemn another sin but commit another one, all sins are equal and all sinners end and destination is hell fire. Thanks |
simmydebadest:Pls what sort of evil that is going on there? Pls help tell us. |
SayginSA:you're a fat fool. south africa is as useless as the P in PSYCHOLOGY |
TOASTING ACCORDING TO PROFESSION . DOCTOR - My eyes are so focused on you like I'm carrying out an operation. Your love runs through my veins even without an injection . My love for you is HIV, I can only prevent it , but I can't cure it. A thousand Vitamin C can not give me the sweetness that comes with your love. Hope you can hear the sound of my heartbeat even without using a stethoscope, I can't stop thinking about you. . . LAWYER - My heart has been found guilty of beating for you On a daily basis. I know my love for you is not in the constitution but please can I lie my way into your heart ? Our love will I defend even when the judge overrules . I will quote subsection of any written lie I can find just to get you out on bail . FARMER - In your heart I have planted the seed of growth and happiness . Even without manure it grows steadily and without delay. I have tilled my heart to the ground and no soil compares to you . Like loamy soil you are fertile for planting and harvesting . Be with me and let me feed you with love that tastes better than a new Yam . POLICE MAN - "My love for you is like bribe , it can never stop .. Just like a thief in the cell, I won't let u leave my heart without bail .. I will protect u with my gun even though the bullet is rusty, don't worry I will use baton . Baby eh , I will always stand at attention so your mind CAn be at ease " . PASTOR - I Proclaim with my lips for thou has worn my heart . Like David looked on to God in psalm 121, so will my love go up and never come down . Like the red sea , you have parted away sadness from my life and enveloped me with a covenant too strong to be broken my an ordinary man.. . NATIVE DOCTOR - Your love gives me hope like Odeshi , even when people try to hurt me I don't feel it . You have charmed me with your juju that even the gods cannot compete with a mammy water like you because you are stronger .... POLITICIAN - I promise never to break your heart baby . I will change your life , your wardrobe and even your future . See eh , because of you I will build a new road in your village and name it after you . I will even build a Borehole in your compound. You will have steady power supply for the rest of your live. Just vote for my heart to win this election to your heart and I will fulfil all these promises . . |
This is what the bible mean when it says that the first may become the last, and the last will become the first. R. Kelly the world greatest Rnb icon started well, drop lot of Great gospel hits like: storm is over, He save me, peace, spirit etc but see his end today, even when the pope warned him. Look at Ja Rule today, DMX and Kanye West all doing pretty well in christ, all of them now pastors, if only Kelly could listen he would have been far and better than all others. The way nick minaj spoke about Kanye West with so much enthusiastism it shows that even the devil knows that there's real peace and happiness in christ. The beginning doesn't matter its the end that counts most. |
but our Mumu president was quick to condemn the attacks on saudi arabia oil facilities but he can't see this one. I'm very disappointed in this government, this is really a sad time being a nigerian. |
now its becoming too childish promoting unnecessary celebrities lifestyle. And christianphobia |
we don't need more prove that south african government is in support of this xenophobic attacks |
witchcraft In Nigeria & Some horrible African Cultures & Traditions. I call the the highest level of stupidity when a Kenyan, Zimbabwean, a Zambian or Ugandan watch American war movies but don't believe that their is war in America, when they watch an Indian hollow movie but don't believe there is hollow in India and when they watch a Chinese war film but don't believe it's real but when they watch a Nigerian movie they believe there is witchcraft in Nigeria, is this not the highest level of stupidity?? when you meet a Kenyan, Zambian, Zimbabwean Ugandan or anyone from east & southern African and introduced yourself as a Nigerian or anytime they hear the word Nigeria the first thing that comes into their mind is "Witches or witchcraft" I'm so appalled by this stupid and foolish mentality towards Nigerians, even the so-called most educated president Robert Mugabe believe this, because some few years back he accused the opposition of bringing witches from Nigeria to kill him and they they are killing chickens sacrificing in the House of the opposition leader Morgan Tsvangirai, I've never seen a spirit being been captured on a camera never, forget the lies of NASA & NSA there is nothing like falling angles being captured on Tv, it's all lies and deception. Satanism or spiritism is practice all over the world, the devil is everywhere even in the holy lands of Israel and Saudi Arabia, the earlier you know this the better for you, witchcrafts were practice and worshiped long ago even in the days of The bible Genesis 31:30-36, Nahum 3:4, Micah 5:12, I want to tell you about some horrible culture and traditions that you don't know anything about, maybe it's because those countries don't have movie industries that's why. 1. According to wikipedia Benin republic, a small country in west Africa is the home of witchcrafts and Satanism, 2. Do you know that in the Republic of Benin up till today if a mother dies after giving birth or during delivery the child is also killed?? It is assumed that the child is evil and has brought bad luck to the family so the child is brutally killed by the father or elders, they will take the child to the forest or on the mountain and smashed his/her head on the rock or a tree and the child dies immediately and his body will be left for animals, isn't this horrible and wicked?? 3. In Kenya there's a popular tribe that doesn't circumcise up till today, this is terrible. 4. Still in east Africa there is another popular tribe(name withheld) that the father or a relative must first desvirgin a girl, if the father is late then an uncle or brother most be the first one to have sex with the girl, this is terrible but it's still practice till today. 5. In a certain southern African country there is this culture that if someone died they shave them and break there bones, tired like a heap or a stone then buried, and they are buried naked and the grave is in form of a deep well. There are lots of horrible and wired cultures and traditional practice still going on in Africa, somewhere in Africa when a king dies he is buried with a virgin, and his chief servant, they are both buried alive alongside the king, and if a warrior died he is buried with 7 or 10 human heads. I want you to know that what you watch in Bollywood movies is fiction, it's the work of, computer arts, make-up artists and customs, it's not real, Nigerians don't worship juju as you think, apart from America no country can boast of 100 million Christians and 100 million Muslims, Nigerians are very religious and Godly people even though we still have some few bad ones. In some countries ladies wont date you once you're a Nigerian, they think you will posses them with Culture spirits, some parents can't allow their children to date or marry a Nigerian for the fear of witchcraft. |
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suen and mynda44 pls take this to front page. |
AMB. HAGHER’S OPEN LETTER TO PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI ON THE BENUE GENOCIDE. Jan 5th, 2018. HIS EXCELLENCY, President Muhammadu Buhari GCFR. President and Commander-in-Chief Of the Armed Forces of the Federal Republic of Nigeria Aso Rock Presidential Villa, Abuja Your Excellency Mr. President, YOU HAVE BETRAYED DEMOCRACY AND PROMOTED GENOCIDE I would have loved to wish you a happy new year, but I am not a hypocrite. I am not happy and nobody in Benue is happy today, because many of our citizens did not have a happy new 2018. Genocide on citizens of Nigeria has escalated in earnest in Benue State. This genocide has turned their happiness to nightmare and death. Let me also apologize for making this letter public. It is not in my character. In this case there is an emergency and urgency, which cannot wait. I am pained that you ignored my advice in my private memorandum to you dated 30th July 2016. I had warned you of the possibility of a horrendous genocide in Benue, Plateau, Taraba, Southern Kaduna, and Southern Adamawa States. I asked you to be proactive and stop the genocide that has been ongoing but which would burst out in the open and shock the world within 18 months. Your office replied my letter on September, 28th 2016, and the reply was couriered to me in the United States, thanking me “immensely” and giving me the assurances that the advice would be heeded. With the current situation on ground, I regret to now inform you that it is seventeen months since my warning and prediction and your government did nothing to pre-empt or prevent the genocide. The nomadic terrorists have finally accelerated the ethnic cleansing in Benue State. They have strategically moved against the Tiv, the largest minority ethnicity in northern Nigeria. These perpetrators believe that if they can ethnic cleanse the Tiv, then nobody can stand in their way to possess the land and carve a new geo-polity and demography for the middle-belt. 1. Now that you have allowed the genocide in the Middle Belt to go on unimpeded you have betrayed your campaign promise to Nigerians that your government ‘‘will always act in time and not allow problems to irresponsibly fester’’. In allowing the Benue genocide to take place your government has acted irresponsibly and has allowed problems to fester and failed to act on time. You have also failed to lead from the front; giving the impression that centrifugal forces around you are dictating vicious anti-people agenda! 2. Mr. President, the protection of lives and property of the citizens is more important than your war against corruption! The protection of lives of citizens is the most sacred responsibility of the state and your presidency. Your government has failed woefully in this regard. Mr President there is no greater corruption than the government looking the other way while the strong bullies and kills the weak with impunity and pleasure! 3. Your Excellency, in your passion (monomania, I think!) to rid the country of corruption, you have totally ignored nation building and ended up with a very divided country. You have failed your immediate Northern constituency by your inability, failure or lack of the political will to end northern poverty through measures that enhance school enrolment, promote girl-child education, and revive dead industries. You became Nigeria’s president on the altar of northern unity when the northern minorities abandoned President Goodluck Jonathan to vote for you. You have now desecrated that altar. By refusing to arrest those that brutally butchered defenseless innocent Benue women and children, you have imperiled northern unity and taken sides with evil. 4. Many Nigerians think you have failed the country by the lack of a clear vision and a lack of capacity to provide needed infrastructure and a composite holistic development; more significantly, they think you have failed to institute a political culture of integrity. You are often compared with the lone King Sisyphus of Ephyra who was punished by the gods to roll an immense border up the hill, only to watch it roll back down, then condemned to repeat the same rolling action forever. This is the picture people have in mind of your war against endemic corruption. You honestly deserve pity and prayers, but certainly not support for a second term. 5. Nobody can deny that you still have a horde of admirers, which still look up to you with great admiration; however, the Benue genocide seriously questions your integrity, and your capacity to lead a plural modern state. Is there a rule of law in this country? Why does the Miyetti Allah act with so much impunity? Is this because this terrorist group claims you as their life patron? Do not accept the clamor of those who for their personal political reasons urge you to contest in the 2019 election to be a second term president! Mr. President, please rise above the impression being given that you are just another power obsessed and hungry politician! 6. Step aside and open the political space for another person to continue your war against corruption with a more comprehensive development program that Nigeria needs and deserves. For now, modernize infrastructure and try to banish poverty. And while your party campaigns for 2019, take a sabbatical from partisanship and build national unity, good governance and concentrate on getting rid of Boko Haram and the Herdsmen Terrorists. After all, great people are not great for winning elections; rather they are known to be great by the legacy they leave behind. With what legacy do you wish the country to remember you for? It is unfortunate that family members of those that were hacked to death will remember you as the genocide president! Your Excellency Mr. President, I remain respectfully Sir, Prof. Iyorwuese Hagher. Ph.D. OON. FSONTA, FIMC, CMC. President African Leadership Institute USA. Former High Commissioner to Canada Former Ambassador to Mexico Former Minister (2 times) Former Constitutional Conference member and 2nd Republic Senator Iyorwuese Hagher
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there is a conspiracy against Benue people the consequence is great, Nigeria is sitting on a time bomb, food shortage will hit Nigeria hard in the face very soon, there will be hunger and food scarcity. Benue state that is the food basket of the nation can't farm again because of Fulani herdsmen's, people are afraid to go to the farm because of fear of being killed, raped, or molested by the Almighty Fulani's. �����
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pregnant women were killed and their stomach were opened and the innocent children were slaughtered like goat's. peaceful protesters that were shot and killed at wurukum by the Nigerian Airforce in makurdi.
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this is our new year gift from buhari and Nigeria
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Our ever peaceful Makurdi has now become a danger hub where the neighborhood is no longer safe. Gunshots everywhere. Sporadic shootings by men of the Military and Police Forces. This is now more of a FG conspiracy against the state. Everyone is now indoors for the fear of stray bullets. But what is the essence when we are been slaughtered even in our own homes. If the law can no longer save the people, let the people save the law. In a city where we were once woken up by the chirpings of birds and laughter of children playing the streets or those watching cartoons in the parlour, it is still unexplainable how we are now been woken up by sounds gunshots, both from the enemies and our supposed protectors, today we are been woken up by loud heart pulses of our brothers, that is if at all they managed to catch some sleep. The streets are quiet, the children have scampered away into their burrows called homes to pray before the end finally comes. We can no longer watch cartoons for fear that the enemy might easily locate us if they hear the sound of the TV. Refugees in our own homes we have become. It now sounds like a fluke when our history is read or narrated. We look different from the people who crushed the jihadists in 1804-1808. How do you still expect the world to believe we were the last ethnic group to be conquered by the British troops in 1897? If Col Joseph Akaahan were to be alive, will he still be proud of his kinsmen? Even if Akaahan would still be proud, what of Col. Philemon Shande, Gen. Victor Malu, Gen. Gabriel Kpamber and Major Gideon Orkar. Will they still be proud to say they are Tiv people? If even our own cannot understand our cries, I doubt if another Fulani man in uniform will. Yes, I know that somewhere in a wheelchair, Lance Corporal Kenneth Kulugh is currently weeping for us his kinsmen. He is currently regretting why he put up his life for the lives of the Northerners when every other soldier ran away in Adamawa in the fight against Boko Haram. The highest he was awarded was a Purple Heart Medal by President Buhari. That was how they started killing us, they killed us emotionally before proceeding to physical terms.
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LIST OF MINIMUM WAGES BY COUNTRIES OF THE WORLD.1. Nigeria - $38 (N18,000).2. Algeria - $175 (N83,000).3. Belgium - $1,738 (N810,000).4. Cameroon - 36, 270CFA ($75) N38,000.5. Chad - $120 (N60,000).6. Denmark - $1,820 (N900,000).7. Libya - $430 (N190,000).8. Japan - $1000 (N450,000).9. Cote D'ivoire -36,607CFA $72.10. New Zealand -$3,187 (N1.4m).11. Luxemburg - $2,500 (N1.1m).12. Spain - $760. (N300,000).13. Switzerland - $5,620 - N2.5m.14. USA - $11 per hour.Ironically, Nigeria politicians earn the highest salaries the whole world.In Luxemburg where minimum wage is $2,500, their lawmakers are paid $7,400. In Libya where minimum wage is $430, lawmakers earn $3000.In Nigeria where minimum wage is $38 (N18,000), lawmakers earn $65,000 (N29m).How long will this continue Don't stop sharing!!!Nigerian president earns about 150m deputy president earns 130, Senate president earns 100m and deputy earns 90million |
this new year I am not wishing anybody anything: - If you want health, see the Doctor; - If you want money, go to work; - If you want a lover, be honest and sincere in your relationships; - If you want success, be patient and perseverant; - If you want happiness, make your neighbours happy. Please I am sorry my friends, excuse me. Let each and everyone be responsible in 2018. that's me.
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Oga ayodeledy please come and continue this story oo |
ayodeledy:waiting for part 4 pleas hurry up sir the suspence is killing me. the story is wonderful |
hahaha I thought it was Dino malaye. kogi people are useless their problem is that they don't want a Christian to rule, the injustice they did to James is what APC and that state will never know any peace in kogi |
My wife took my phone and deleted jane's number and saved her number as Jane. You see, someone had tipped my wife off about my side chick, jane. I then got an SMS from jane asking for #5,000 airtime. I rushed out to the mall, bought the airtime, and sent it to jane, She did not acknowledge receipt of the airtime. When I was relaxing at home after work, I kept wondering if jane had received the airtime. So I sent her an SMS to find out if she had received the airtime. Her response was, "Call me now". I got out of the house to make the call. You can imagine my horror when my wife answered the call! ....... Well to cut the long story short, I'm still standing outside.....�� Should I go inside or go back to work ? |
no wonder south Africa(Lesotho, Botswana & Zimbabwe) are the world headquarters of HIV and rape, 95% of there ladies have children out of wedlock��� Zulu, Tsonga ndebele, shona and Basotho are so sexually addicted they can do anything for sex and beer. |
What If there was no Black People ( The Afrikans) This is a story of a little boy named Theo, who woke up one morning and asked his Grandfather, "What if there were no Black people in the world?" Well,Grandfather about that for a moment and then said, "Son, follow me around today and let's just see what it would be like if there were no Black people in the world. Get dressed and we will get started." Theo ran to his room to put on his clothes and shoes. But there were no shoes, and his clothes were all wrinkled. He looked for the iron, but when he reached for the ironing board, it was no longer there. You see Sarah Boone, a Black woman, invented the ironing board and Jan E. Matzelinger, a Black man invented the shoe lasting machine. Theo ran to internet for chat with a friend ,the internet was not working .. Dr Mark Dean-An African American Invented Many Of The Programming For The Internet Experiences We Enjoy Today http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/37500151-dr-mark-dean-an-african-american-invented-many-of-the-programming-for-the-internet-experiences-we-enjoy-today He looked for his mobile phone ,but it was not there because ,The inventor of the Cellular phone is Black man Henry Sampson .. http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/18504293-the-inventor-of-the-cellular-phone-is-henry-sampson "Oh well,"Grandfather said, "Go and do your hair." Theo ran in his room to comb his hair, but the comb was not there. You see, Walter Sammons, a Black man, invented the comb. Theo decided to just brush his hair, but the brush was gone. You see Lydia O. Newman, a Black female invented the brush. Well, he was a sight, no shoes, wrinkled clothes, hair a mess without the hair care inventions of Madam C. J. Walker, -- well, you get the picture.Grandfather told Theo, "Let's do the chores around the house and then take a trip to the grocery store." Theo's job was to sweep the floor. He swept and swept and swept. When he reached for the dustpan, it was not there. You see, Lloyd P. Ray, a Black man, invented the dustpan. So he swept his pile of dirt over in the corner and left it there. He then decided to mop the floor, but the mop was gone. You see, Thomas W. Stewart, a Black man, invented the mop. Theo thought to himself, "I'm not having any luck." "Well, son," Grandfather said. "We should wash the clothes and prepare a list for the grocery store." When he was finished, Theo went to place the clothes in the dryer, but it was not there. You see, George T. Samon, a Black man, invented the clothes dryer. Theo got a pencil and some paper to prepare the list for the market, but noticed that the pencil lead was broken, as well he was out of luck because John Love, a black man, invented the pencil sharpener. He reached for a pen, but it was not there because William Purvis, a Black man, invented the fountain pen. As a matter of fact, Lee Burridge invented the type writing machine, and W. A. Lavette, the printing press. So they decided to head out to the market. Well, when Theo opened the door, he noticed the grass was as high as he was tall. You see the lawnmower was invented by John Burr, a Black man. They made their way over to the car and found that it just wouldn't go. You see, Robert Spikes, a Black man, invented the automatic gear shift and Joseph Gammel invented the supercharge system for internal combustion engines. They noticed that the few cars that were moving were running into each other and having wrecks because there were no traffic signals. You see, Garrett A. Morgan, a Black man invented the traffic light. ELIJAH J. MCCOY Africa-America Inventor 57 U.S. Patents Lubrication Steam Engines http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/11978809-elijah-j-mccoy-africa-america-inventor-57-u-s-patents-lubrication-steam-engines Well, it was getting late, so they walked to the market, got their groceries and returned home. Just when they were about to put away the milk, eggs and butter, they noticed the refrigerator was gone. You see, John Standard, a Black man, invented the refrigerator. So they put the food on the counter. http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/…/42599240-lloyd-hall-inv…- By this time, they noticed it was getting mighty cold. Theo went to turn up the heat and what do you know, Alive Parker, a Black female, invented the heating furnace. Even in the summer time they would have been out of luck because Frederick Jones, a Black man, invented the air conditioner. It was almost time for Theo's father to arrive home. He usually took the bus, but there was no bus because its precursor was the electric trolley, invented by another Black man, Elbert T. Robinson. He usually took the elevator from his office on the 20th floor, but there was no elevator because Alexander Miles, a Black man, invented the elevator. He usually dropped off the office mail at a nearby mailbox, but it was no longer there because Phillip Downing, a Black man, invented the letter drop mailbox and William Barry invented the postmarking and canceling machine. Theo sat at the kitchen table with his head in his hands. When his father arrived he asked, " Why are you sitting in the dark?" Why?? Because Lewis Howard Latimer, a Black man, invented the filament within the light bulb. Africa America George Carruthers developed ways to use ultraviolet imaging in order to view images in deep space that were previously impossible to see. In 1972, Carruthers invented the "Far Ultraviolet Camera/Spectograph," the first moon-based observatory. It was used in the Apollo 16 mission. Then, in 1986, one of his inventions captured an image of Hailey's Comet—the first time a comet had ever been pictured from space. http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/14309317-physicist-and-africa-america-inventor-george-carruthers-built-his-first-telescope-at-age-10- Benjamin Montgomery - born into slavery in 1819 in Loudon County, Virginia. Benjamin invented a special propeller which allowed steamboats to navigate in shallow water. http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/12696454-benjamin-montgomery-born-into-slavery-in-1819-in-loudon-county-virginia-benjamin-invented-a-special-propeller-which-allowed-steamboats-to-navigate-in-shallow-water- A Slave Bradley Helped Set Up Scientific Experiments.In The 1840s He Developed a Steam Engine For a War Ship. http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/12696309-a-slave-bradley-helped-set-up-scientific-experiments-in-the-1840s-he-developed-a-steam-engine-for-a-war-ship- Theo quickly learned what it would be like if there were no Black people in the world. Not to mention if he were ever sick and needed blood. Charles Drew, a Black scientist, found a way to preserve and store blood which led to his starting the world's first blood bank. And what if a family member had to have surgery. This would not have been possible without Dr. Daniel Hale Williams, a Black doctor, who performed the first open heart surgery. http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/12625711-daniel-hale-williams-was-a-pioneer-surgeon-best-known-for-performing-one-of-the-first-successful-open-heart-surgeries-in-1893 So if you ever wonder, like Theo, where we would be without Blacks? Well, it's pretty plain to see, we could very well still be in the dark!!! http://www.reunionblackfamily.com/apps/blog/show/43181706-what-if-there-was-no-black-people-the-afrikans- |
Adebanji1950:it seems you're a pastor too. rubbish |
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lalasticlala please help move this tread to FP thanks |
Hi good evening Romancelanders this is my first time to seek for help or advice here, I need your advice on this issue, my mother may die before her time, she's suffering, and not happy in her marriage with my dad, she's just enduring and not enjoying her marriage, she is enduring it because she grew up in a broken home under a single parent and she knew what she passed through and according to her she don't want her children to experience the same thing so She'll rather die for and with her children. she's always abused physically and emotionally by my Dad, hurt and disrespected severely by her so-called pastor husband, my dad is a pastor for nearly 30 years with a global church, the problem here is that my mother is not educated, but she had 10 children with my dad, but my dad feels like she's not worthy to be his wife now both of them are in their 50's. my mother is very intelligent, she can read the bible very well in our local language, and can speak little pidgin English, she's a fast learner, if my dad want to train her it will be easy but he's not just interested in that, note that when they both got married my dad too was not educated, it was years later that he went back to school and did his PhD and still further on to a theological seminary, sometimes he do wish that my mother should die so that he can get free and marry a woman of his class. please I need your advice here, I suggested to my mum that he should live him but could not convinced her, she's too religious, always saying that the Bible does not encouraged divorce, and my dad was the first man and only man she knew in her entire life, my father does not know the value of children, sometimes I do question God that "God they said that everything you do is perfect but why did you allowed this to happened?? giving 10 good children to someone who don't care or know the value or worth of a child, wife and family??" this has physically, mentally or psychologically effect on us his children especially we the 3 boys, none of us see value, happiness or joy in marriage, I personally see marriage as a prison or bondage, same with my 2 brothers any time I speak with them concerning marriage none of them seems to be interested or ready for that shit. marriage was meant to be enjoyed and not to be endured, getting married to the right person makes and keep one happy and it affects your lifespan positively, you live longer and healthier. guys help me with your ideals and plans, I can't sit my father down or report him to the Church, he may curse and disowned us all since I'm the first son. my dad can be so violent. please don't insult my father remember he's a pastor, pastors too are human. |
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first good attempt from this pastor governor. |
I don't believe this report no south Africa, Botswana, Lesotho, Swaziland, Zimbabwe, Kenya, Ghana and Cameroon.... mstcheeew |
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