Nonexisting1:
You are seeking validation to fucck that young man you've been seeing lately but the God your husband serves will expose you. Nigga is out there slaving away his life for you to have a better life but all you can think of is dirty wild sex most with another man. Go ahead, DNA test will always seek you olosho wives out.

You guys just write anyhow, nawa.
What in my post suggests I want fuuckh some guy?

It’s human to have urges.

Starz825:
Anyway..your urge is normal....there are abnormal urges actually...(like the frequent urge for porn and masturbation I wrote about)

Yours is normal...

However, it's so wrong for partners to part way for long ..it's not healthy at all....it leaves one partner vulnerable...even your husband is feeling it hard where he is rn

I tell people..... financial frustration is better than sexual frustration...

.if you are frustrated financially...you can find a way through it... get a loan, or even beg online just like people do here....

Once you are sexually frustrated...you won't able to think or do anything else for long...to cap it : nobody will be able to help you solve it ..since you are married...this leaves you vulnerable (one of the reasons why people cheat)
Infact it's so crazy for women even crazier for men....

Ok now my advice:
*you will have to talk to your hubby about it ...tell him how you feel...ask about how he feels (he should be feeling hot too)...share your sexual hassle together....it makes you feel strong and that you are not alone.

*If your husband is at a location where you can reach him no matter the expenses, try as much as possible to visit him...

*If you are a Christian, you can pray and fast... listen to gospel music regularly...

* Try as much as possible to stay away from any sex videos...it will only add to your already brimmed urge..and that could knock you off..

* Pls don't cheat.... keep holding up...

Good luck and God help you

Glad someone understands this bold.

I honestly don’t see cheating as an option, though I am very afraid cos I never knew a day would come that I would touch myself but unfortunately I did last night reason I couldn’t hold it again and decided to seek others opinion anonymously. I can’t even discuss it with my people around.

Blessedmercy8:
Do you go to weekly church programs?
I doubt because if you do, your flesh will be kept under as your spirit is being lifted at such programs but it's obvious the only things you feed your soul with are thoughts of sex and wild imaginations of sex.
Watching sexual videos and all sorts.

If you want to get your mind off it, think and dwell more on spiritual things like the word of God. Gospel songs and if possible, fasting and prayers asking the holy spirit to help ( he can help you). That is if you're even a christian.

Thanks for this.
I am not exactly one that goes to church, not even on Sundays.
I used to work with a firm that allowed me leave home daily but I am now mostly home cos I work remotely.
You are right on the adult contents, I do watch once in a while, softcore basically, i only leave my mind to describe the rest.
Maybe if I have a distinct religion, I would consider words of Gods.

Hi
To those that have probably been there or have an idea about it.
How do you handle sexual urges especially if your partner is not available.

It happens that hubby has been away for quite some time, eight month precisely and he isn’t coming back any moment.

These days has just been messy for me as I am always Hot and wet as fhhuckk, whenever I get up from bed, my pant is always soaked. I have tried to suppress the pressure to touch myself or use objects but it seems the pressure is overcoming me, damn I hardly even concentrate on any other thing, my mind is just fhhhuccked up right now, all my thoughts are bordered on dirty wild sex almost all day.

Are there therapists or some kinda experts one can talk to, I really fear for myself.