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Sophyrocks:
Are you sure kneeling down is your hobby? have knelt down to apologise to a lady before? how often do u do that?

I've knelt down to apologize to my female principal twice... U see, its my hobby!!!

chimkaire:
Lmao! ityP. He no go do am, make I believe that, for now

OK o... Jus start to dy fast and pray from now ooo... Cos 99.9% men cheat in marriages, only 70% of them are caught tho

mifavour:
you freaking kidding right jealous ko envy ni!

All join... Show us ur guy face, him fine reach that guy half Abegi, the bobo fine... I b guy, I go talk kam... #No_homos tho

cpsw111:
Actually, the question itself is basically asking if the lady has pride carried along with her. There isn't really any issue on kneeling down, It's just really really really dramatic and yes, plain weird.

Some women might think that this isn't a problem and is prepared to do this anytime while some have their pride to think about. Well, u asked if it is proper for a lady to do this am I correct? No. It is absolutely not right, if your talking about weddings and formal occasions then duh, it is normal to do it. But kneeling down to apologise? My view? Yes, it is indeed an humble act and shows how much the lady cherishes and loves her man. However, it is really improper, if you think it is fine then well, it is. Vise versa

Improper to kneel even under extreme circumstances... U never jam, if b ur husband, if u no lie down beg me, call me bastard... And u can't leave the relationship o, it was for better or worse... The only thing u can do is to put poison in my food and urs too ofcos, if not.....? Mtchewwww

mifavour:
seriously motherfucker! with you over bleached face! oh please

Mmmm... Ppl can jealous oooo...

tobymichael:
No need for kneeling sef as long as she's on all fours i'm good....best way to squash a fyt

Na one yeye babe u dy talk about o... If na ur wife, bed things no go solve anything ooo..

EnlightenedSoul:
Fawkes, the word "sorry" in itself requires ridiculous amounts of this thing called 'humility' you speak of

Some situations, madam, sorry isnt enough... Everyday she does wrong, sorry (arrogantly ofcos), she say over her dead body, I go tie her for leather, throw her inside her father dustbin... After all, I paid for her except maybe her father give me free

GlorifiedTunde:


RUN!!!

Its for life o my brother!

Thanks sir... Noted!!!

EnlightenedSoul:
Yes, over my dead body would I ever bow or kneel to anyone! And though I have pride (as everyone should), it's not just about pride but self-respect. Respecting myself =/= disrespecting my man. If it somehow did in his warped mind, I would simply bid him adieu...but that's not the case

Lol @ "pet his wife". How are those two even remotely comparable? Your comment reminded of the pampering thread that was on FP. You guys act like 'petting', pampering, and basic contact isn't absolutely essential for a man just as well as a woman. Stop the lies, we all know the truth. Vampires

Yes petting is absolutely essential to a man like respecting is absolutely essential to a woman to... A man chop d forbidden fruit if my wife, I know about it and I'm angry, yet she 'says' over her dead body for her to 'crawl' and beg Iffa no kii her, know say ma name no be ITORO!!!

GlorifiedTunde:
Eeewo! Ladies like this still exist ?

Then there is hope

As in my bloda, big hope aswear...

GlorifiedTunde:
Instead make u book space bros

Mmm... I thought about tit o... Thing is I don find one yeye woman like that wey I wan marry...

Sophyrocks:
I agree with you on the bolded. But the question is; how many men can do what you mentioned even when they get a good wife?. Very few. Well, unfortunately we are not living in an ideal world. Perhaps if we concentrate more on things that matter than petty stuff as who kneels and who doesnt, relationships and marriages wouldnt be so messed up as they are now. Seriously, whats more important is the person choosing to stop the offence he or she is apologising for as long as the apology is genuine. Not all apologies are genuine. As you can see, a lot of the males here are tearing cloth over the issue. The question is will they also kneel if they were to apologise for grave offences? You dnt ask for things you know you cannot give.

Kneeling downnis our hubbies... We like kam well well... And that explains why we dy vex wen we hear 'our' future wives say them no fit kneel down beg us...

GlorifiedTunde:
Bros I thank God for my life o, I don get the "Best" sef. I cannot wait to marry her and spoil her sef.

I've never had a stress-less relationship before.

Abeg enjoy, let the arrogant ladies be forming "i-can-not-kneel-down"... Mtchewww

munagi:
I will gladly kneel and appologize to my husband. My husband is to me as a father, lord, big brother, adviser, companion, friend, lover and many more. The Bible also asked women to respect their husbands just as Sarah referred to our father Abraham as lord. Of course, I will kneel to apologize to my lord (husband).

Munagi, r u married If not, assemble all the handsome men u know... Are they mad?? Wetin dem dy look for for woman... Abeg, say Amen to this prayer: you will marry guy where go love u pass Jack in Titantic. .

cpsw111:
[b][/b] And what did you say? "I can do this all day". Oh my gosh, I didn't think there would come a day where I would meet such a sucked up hybrid Who is so LAME. Like seriously? Is that all you've got?

And your application of using English vocabulary is soo limited, perhaps you need more tuition.

I don't think your the study pants type, how about I hire a LovePeddler to teach you? That way you can have pleasure and enjoy studying for the first time ever! She gives free tuition, in return she just wants Your body. She gives veeeery good services, her number is 6969696969. Her name is Jacky, the name itself sounds sexy huh? After doing it, tell me all about it!

Ma, if dy leave u, u can speak English My own yaff finish...

GlorifiedTunde:


I wouldn't judge every lady based on kneeling. I would judge based on their mindset, which is obvious by their comments. I wouldn't believe its sarcasm.

This love and feeling people claim to have for their partners is often fake. It starts with ego and pride. Although we have diversities in religion, race, tribe and culture. A white lady who loves a Nigerian man forces herself to learn his culture and vice versa.

All I'm saying is people don't really love as they claim - either they haven't found the right person or they're over-damaged.

When true love is in place, nothing stops a man from washing his wife's undies, doing dishes, cleaning the house, bathing the baby, dressing the kid etc. even while he provides for the home. Likewise, nothing stops the woman from respecting her man, leaving decisions to him (even if she'll contribute), submitting absolutely, kneeling down to serve him food etc...

WE ALL COUNT THESE THINGS AS BIG DEAL BECAUSE THE LOVE IS JUST NOT ENOUGH YET!

If u no marry better woman, call be bastard... Thanks boss... U've said it all... We should watch our pride and ego; both male and female

percyoats:
Well, happened to me once... She had been mean, playing hard to get, even as my gf eventually... she was feeling like she owned me. Twas my first relationship lol... with a female, so i was so in... It gt to points where i'd apologize if we got into an argument for what was obviously her misdoing. Eventually, I snapped out of the Mugu zone when she did something very mean . Ignoring me in front of her friends and all... I just called off the drama... Next thing am on another chics case... though as a friend... for weeks and all we didnt see... when she wld eventually see me, twas with this other chic... she had never seen before... days later, she called for me tru a very close friend... wept her eyes out on her knees apologizing for all the shit she's done... she changed afterwards... we dated for 2 years but aint together any more

Ladies una don hear d story abi...

EnlightenedSoul:
I'm sure they're both mental too. What causes one to kneel before another human being?

Are you saying you like to look stu.pid...

I don't like to look stupid since I wouldnt want my woman to kneel before me like I'm Kabeisi... But when she says over her dead body to kneel down (most ladies here are insinuating that), that's pride and I over hate it... Its just like a man saying over my dead body to pet his wife when she's crying... "Respect is to man what love is to a woman", a wise man here on NL once said

chimkaire:
So says you. Kneeling doesn't define these, for me. I don't need or want being knelt for by anyone. Thanks

Make i hear say ur man go eat forbidden fruit, if u no demand make hin roll for grand for u, make I shit raw egg

swagwu:
pple lyk go even lay down

My bloda, I know her type... Them dy prostrate for mumu bfs walai, afta them go come dy form for NL

EnlightenedSoul:
When I see these images. I don't think "humility", I think "pathetic!".

See the man's face... He's guilty... And he really feels she's sorry for what she's done... If my lady kneel down for me, I'd look stupid... She would be the one to go away with her heads held high...

cpsw111:
Lol what talking you

What talking you Abeg come o, u pass English for Play class?? Talk ur truth and shame the devil!! All liars, .....

sauceny:
Pple like u are d ones holding Africa back.

Pls tell them... I'm on my knees begging... Tell them... Arrogant ppl

vivaciousvivi:
My brother..."Life" would set in soon enough for some of them. Kneeling to apologize to one's partner at any point in a lady's lifetime is not necessarily something I would wish for any one since it means that some level of disharmony came into the relationship. All I would wish is that all ladies take some time to really read and understand some of the responses here and make the "right" decision if and when the time comes for them to make it.

May God thunder uncountable blessings in ur life in JESUS name, say Amen again!!!

mifavour:
you wish you had a wifey. I still maintain I wont kneel cos it would be an act of pretence if I do.

Lol... See this geh fa. . u think say I no get sense Iffa see humble woman-as I don see ofcos- I must marry am naw... And on a more serious note, ask urself why u have stamp out kneeling down while apologizing... Is it so u wouldn'tpretend or so u wouldn't hurt ur ego

mifavour:
i think it has to do with with individuality. I seriously think kneeling is out of it. if I start for how long do I intend doing it. each time he expects me then to kneel and apologize over every single and simple thing. there are other ways to apologise.

Not everytime, this geh!! Sometimes situation DEMANDS u kneel and beg... (U sleep with another man, ur husband find out, u come dy tell lam dat arrogant sorry for hin face... U dy madt)

vivaciousvivi:
Exactly my dear. It wouldn't remove any letter of the alphabet in the lady's name, remove any hair off her head either. And its not even a culture thing. If you are wrong or you just want peace to reign, then what is seriously the big issue there? I have done it before and the response was instantaneously positive. No big deal at all. The man in question may even grow to appreciate and respect the lady the more.

So what's ur advice to other arrogant ladies in the house Abeg give them advice so that man go show

mifavour:
all these cos I said im not kneeling to apologize. Your fucking business dude. and I choose not to answer your question. you'll be shocked

All these cos u're proud!!! I mean I won't want my girl to kneel while apologizing but when she makes it seem like its a taboo, that's pride and then I'd demand she roll down... And pls make those boyfriends of u no deceive u o, cos if u maintain this kind pride, they will be just that for life-BOYfriends!!! Mtchewww #sipsMyTeaDoneByMyHumbleWifey

Nwedy:
yea,thanks for d typo correction but just keep quiet!!!!!!!

U no say quite again Lol...

MadCow1:
You said that not me..


The Question is 'Can you kneel down to apologise'.. Not 'Can you kneel down Everytime you apologise'..

She fail English for play class... Abeg no mind dam

timascious:
Why not? If not?
But, you expect a man to go down on one knee to propose to you. Abeg, answer this question, you be him mama? Or what has he done to make him deserve those few minutes of punishment while you relish the moment? Or better put, what have you done to deserve such an uncommon "go down on one knee moment to propose marriage" scene.

To whom much is given, of him him or her, much is expected.




If you have done something wrong to get him upset then you should be able to apologise properly. When I say properly, I mean on your knees.
Taking him to bed would not and never, I repeat never resolve the issue, you would only succeed in sweeping the whole issue under the carpet.
Going on your knees to apologise, does not make you less of a woman. Call me traditional, oh yes, I get it I am very traditional to the core. And remember "pride comes before fall".
This is Africa! Get your priorities right.
Respect is reciprocal.
Gbam!!!

U go marry better person in JESUS name, say Amen abeg

mifavour:
stfu

Before fa, I tell u say I dy Bleep down?? Na up na... But still I hope say no b u only ur mama geht ooooo... If not, she go cry tire... Reason: No grandchild OR grandchild no papa...