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Romance / Re: The 16 DEADLY Women by IykBaba(m): 11:01am On Jul 30, 2013
Nice1
philfearon: INTRODUCTION:: Let me introduce you to some deadly women...These women are toxic,and are not good for you..They may look good on the outside,and make you feel good,but the bottomline is that they will end up frustrating you in ur life's Journey..forget about that sex drive,Women are emotionally more mature than most us guys/men,and they use this skill to get what they want in a relationship with men....If you are already in a relationship with any of these women,i will sugest u come out of it...It is definitely gonna be unproductive..Save yourself....
Men are moved by Sight,so they easily fall into hands of deadly women,I warned You o.....Now,to the Main Issues:

1)THE TROUBLED WOMAN:
She may look great,beautiful and succesful on the outside,but deep inside,she is really troubled.She has a history of Pain.She carries a lot of emotional baggage which she has refused to let go of.She is facing or has faced rejection in her life..We all face rejection in one way or the other in our daily interactions with others,but the mark of a Mature person is the ability to deal with rejection and put it in proper perspective..Rejection is just the personal Opinion of the person who rejected u,it is not how God thinks about you...
The troubled Woman takes on more than she can handle in life,so she gets overwhelmed by her issues..A troubled woman usualy blames everybody but herself for her problems in life..She neva gets down to the roots of her issues..
She is driven to find solutions to her problems thinking that they exist in a place outside herself..She is alwaz trying out a new preacher,new religion or new doctrine..She is emotionally unstable..She is also very argumentative and quarellsome..She tries to Prove that she knows about subjects/topics which she has litle or no knowledge about...She may win u over with her charm,but if u discover she is a troubled woman,just let her go........

2)THE CAREER WOMAN:
The career woman is focused on developing her career..Highly competitive,she is determined to rise to the top of her profession..She invests her energy,resources and time climbing the career ladder..
She has litle or no time for relationships..She may dabble a bit into romance,but she soon loses interest when her job is challenged..The career woman may act very warm one day,and turn around and become cold the next day if she feels the r/ship is threatening her career..
She does not give enough time to her intimate relationships to grow..She has not developed skills to nurture her relationships,so they naturally will wilt and die..She has history of broken relationships and offended partners..She may contract a relationship in her company or place of work,if she thinks it will help her ascend the corporate ladder faster,and may hand on as far as the relationship favours her career..Avoid her..

3)THE CONFUSED WOMAN:
She doesnt know who she is or what she wants in in life or in a relationship..She is totally undecided,and is alwaz quick to start a relationship..It is dificult to start a relationship with such a person cuz u neva know what she wants from you..You neva know the direction in which she is going in her own life...
You neva know her true feelings for u cuz they keep changing..Becuz she is never quite sure of her feelings for her partner;she is the one who usually gets dumped by her more serious minded partner..She keeps saying she is thinking about the relationship,but she is not really sure about her partner or she is processing her feelings ..But,she is never certain about her feelings,so what on earth does she process or think through?
She hardly comes to terms with her confusion..If u hold unto her,you may also begin to experience her confusion in ur own life..
She is not sure if she wants you or wants to return to her ex..She cant be sure if she is happy with u or happy with someone else..She is alwaz uncertain..She puts the relationship in a constant flux of confusion..The truth is that u will neva be happy with such a woman no matter how good ur intentions are...A basic fact or Relationships is that you cannot control another human being...Therefore,unless someone really wants to be with you in a relationship,u cannot sucexfuly force that person to be with u..The best Thing for both of u is to let go of that Confused Woman...

To be continued..........

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Romance / Re: You Come Back Early From Work, You Find Him In Bed With Your Wife/girlfriend(pic by IykBaba(m): 12:28pm On Jul 27, 2013
I'd kill him at the spot with my bare hands
DonalĂ° Genes: what do you do?

1. RUN
2. FIGHT HIM
3. CALL THE COPS
4. APOLOGIES FOR BEING EARLY lmao!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
5. Ask him if you can help run go buy condom for him............
6.specify yours
Culture / Re: Why Do Nigerian Hate Homosexual So Much? by IykBaba(m): 5:35pm On Jul 26, 2013
Why haven't u imagined why God destroyed sodom and gomorrah?
Juell: Is it normal for a man to be sticking his joystick in another man's shit hole?
Its just too disgusting to imagine.
Romance / Re: 23 Ways To Make A Girl Smile by IykBaba(m): 5:21pm On Jul 26, 2013
Ur the real ladies' man!
Z4M4eva: 1. Tell her she is beautiful or gorgeous(not fine, or sexy)

2 . Hold her hand at any moment . . even if its just for a second.

3 . Kiss her on the forehead/ neck.

4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.

5 . When she is upset, hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.

6 . Recognize the small things . . . they usually mean the most.

7 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.

8 . Write her notes. (she loves them)

9 . Introduce her to family and friends . . . as your girlfriend.

10 . Play with her hair..cheesy.

11 . Pick her up, tickle her, and play-wrestle with her.

12 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.

13 . Tell her funny jokes, tell her stupid jokes, or just tell her jokes.

14 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.

15 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.

16 . Give her piggyback rides.

17 . Bring her flowers

18 . Treat her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.

19 . Look her in the eyes and smile.

20 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

21 . Kiss her in the rain.

22 . If your in love with her . . . tell her.

23. Play a song for her most likely on a guitar.
Romance / Re: How Do You Know That A Girl or Boy Really Loves You? by IykBaba(m): 2:41pm On Jul 26, 2013
To know whether a girl or a boy loves you is the easiest thing on Earth! Listen attentively and i'll tell u.The words "i love u" might count but they do not really count in the long run,what counts are the deeds behind the words so u hv to watch out and take note of some hidden or subtle signs that tells u that he or she truly and truly loves u:1. He/she smiles at u,even from afar,and sometimes,when there's not anything necessarily to smile for.2. He/she calls u,even at odd hours to ask about ur welfare and most times,to just hear ur voice.3. He/she feels good whenever he/she sees u or whenever u are around and he/she hates to see u leave.4. "The most subtle sign". He or she averts ur gaze whenever u stare or look her in the eyes subconsciously and when u are not looking,he/she steals a glance at u. Damn! I could go on and on and never stop.I might even write a book on the topic! Ciao! [color990000][/color]

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Romance / Re: Toast A Girl/boy In 10 Words. by IykBaba(m): 2:19pm On Jul 26, 2013
Hello angel,I'm single and ready to mingle.
Romance / Re: "I haven't had sex in 10 Years" - Genevieve Nnaji by IykBaba(m): 2:12pm On Jul 26, 2013
What about the hot and steamy blue film I watched featuring our screen goddess? That is barely a year old.So who's fooling who?

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