Phones › Re: NCC Might Block Your Phone In 30 Days by iykololo(m): 1:20pm On Oct 10 |
Don't spam the forum by advertising in the wrong places or posting the same content many times.
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Arsenal Vs Leeds United (2 - 1) On 10th October 2026 by iykololo(m): 1:17pm On Oct 10 |
Assanal.
Please Observe The Following Rules |
Politics › Re: 2027: Tinubu Will Commence Campaign In Kaduna – Yari by iykololo(m): 1:15pm On Oct 10 |
What is the fool coming to campaign on exactly? |
Business › Re: Kano Traders Chase Chinese Phone Sellers Away From The Market (Video) by iykololo(m): 1:08pm On Oct 10 |
Watch how people drag igbos into this without even watching the evidence. |
Politics › Re: Can Wike Survive Lulu-briggs & Peter Obi In 2027?. by iykololo(m): 6:28pm On Oct 09*. Modified: 7:57am On Oct 11 |
Nawao. So na wike de determine elections outcome for nigeria? What a nation! |
Politics › Re: Elderly Citizens Queueing To Receive APC Branded Loaves Of Bread In Lagos Island by iykololo(m): 4:38pm On Oct 08 |
deolu2000: Poverty and suffering are hobbies to these one. Watch how they will like out to still vote for their oppressors. Don't mind them, Stockholm syndrome don pin their conscience. Slaves to their political captors. See as their parents and grandparents dey embarass themselves up and down. |
Politics › Re: Elderly Citizens Queueing To Receive APC Branded Loaves Of Bread In Lagos Island by iykololo(m): 4:29pm On Oct 08 |
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Business › Re: 18 Nigerian Cities In The 2026 Global Cities Index by iykololo(m): 3:39pm On Oct 08 |
SonOfDSoil01: 😂😂😂😂😂
Pain is that you? Now that have hit you with the fact and you can now take a back sit and thanks for your attention on this matter……Una go continue play catch up mgeke feeling funky😂😂😂 You just said rubbish, no facts but tribal sentiment fueled your every unfounded claims. You can't trump the statistics. No need to entertain your delusion. |
Science/Technology › Re: NESREA To Honour Lagos Community Leader Who Saved A Giant Endangered Sea Turtle by iykololo(m): 2:55pm On Oct 08 |
Nice!
Save the turtle and butcher the cow. |
Business › Re: 18 Nigerian Cities In The 2026 Global Cities Index by iykololo(m): 2:53pm On Oct 08 |
SonOfDSoil01: 😂😂😂😂
Human capital development? You must be kidding me, pls give us the data that place your region above yorubaland? Ibadan the city of many first was the point of early civilisation the Yorubas are well know for.
We have the human capital resources which is evident in our control of the formal sector of the economy eg, financial institutions, insurance, manufacturing, construction, real estate, education, medicine, media, entertainment etc which why Sw is the choice of economic migrants across the country
Even skilled labour, na we Dey run am, eg bricklayer, plumber, mechanic, tailor etc I did my camp in ummuna bende Abia state and served in owerri and while I was there, I saw Yorubas skilled worker who are usual contracted by your people to work for them on their build project because you lack the skills and here you are talking about human development, even education, we don’t have a rival…..Biko give us the data to your human index and leave Cho Cho Cho…..una go cry tire 😂😂😂 Keep drowning yourself in your delusion, and enjoy your suffering. |
Politics › Re: One Million-man March: Jigawa Youths Mobilise Support For Tinubu, Namadi by iykololo(m): 2:51pm On Oct 08 |
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Business › Re: 18 Nigerian Cities In The 2026 Global Cities Index by iykololo(m): 2:12pm On Oct 08 |
SonOfDSoil01: 😂😂😂😂
See delusion…..Aba is just like a local govt in Ibadan, non of your 5plot of potopoto landlocked land is more developed and economically viable as oyo state….numbers don’t lies NwOSU  This is not Statisense statistics. Keep deceiving yourself, and don't hold your leaders accountable. The Human Capital Development Index is nothing to write home about. You continue to celebrate mediocre governance and push tribal representation instead of demanding accountability and the dividends of good governance. At long last, na your children's children go suffer am. Abegistanian. |
Celebrities › Re: Reaction As Nigerian Lady Flaunts Business Built From “hookup” Earnings (Photos) by iykololo(m): 1:30am On Oct 08 |
No comment. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Cristiano Ronaldo Is Not Retiring From Portugal, Apologises To Teammates by iykololo(m): 6:43pm On Oct 07 |
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Romance › Re: You Reject Someone Broke, But Want To Be Accepted Broke? by iykololo(m): 3:54pm On Oct 07 |
Samantha125: It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌 It is your duty to satisfy us, whenever and however. Serve us and make us happy. |
Politics › Re: NDC Chieftain Brandishing A Gun At Kano Rally by iykololo(m): 3:33pm On Oct 07 |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Nidal Hasan To Be Executed On 3rd December In Texas (Photo) by iykololo(m): 2:07pm On Oct 07 |
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Health › Re: Twin Medical Sisters Die In Yobe (Photos) by iykololo(m): 12:35pm On Oct 06 |
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un |
Foreign Affairs › Re: American Congresswoman, Nancy Mace Campaigns With Photo Of Nigeria by iykololo(m): 12:27pm On Oct 06 |
boxypane: OP, how e take be photo of or from Nigeria? Na only Nigeria dey use yellow buses? Na denial go kee u |
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Foreign Affairs › Re: Russia Is Sending Spies To Defecate In The Toilets Of Finland’s Politicians by iykololo(m): 7:49am On Oct 06 |
Enough DNA evidence right there. |
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Politics › Re: Eedris Abdulkareem To Seyi Tinubu: Your Papa Na The Worst President by iykololo(m): 11:31am On Oct 05 |
Watianoengineer: All I know is that peter Obi can never lace Tinubu's shoes.
Tinubu is miles ahead of Obi the social media president Poor man and boasting. Keep suffering |
TV/Movies › Re: Temi Nkem Wins Big Brother Naija (bbnaija) 2026 'show Ya Sef' by iykololo(m): 11:26am On Oct 05 |
Cherrybae: Because she is ibo. Big brother is bias.
I regret watching this show. I will never in my life watch this show again. Your tribalism will take you no where. |
Celebrities › Re: Sabinus Warns Geh Geh: “if You Want To Die, Come To Me” (Photos/Video) by iykololo(m): 11:35pm On Oct 03 |
Anything to distract the masses from the current issues troubling the country.
Bread and circuses. |
Business › Re: Maryam Abacha Secures Interim Receivership Order Over Victoria Island Property by iykololo(m): 3:27pm On Oct 03 |
Leave her property joor, the ones wey tinubu and obasanjo don loot, how many una don recover? |
Family › Re: Your Money Is Yours And His Is Ours, What Exactly Are You Marrying Him For? by iykololo(m): 11:54am On Oct 03 |
Kalatium: IF YOUR MONEY IS YOURS AND HIS MONEY IS OURS, WHAT EXACTLY ARE YOU MARRYING HIM FOR?
There is nothing wrong with a woman having money. In fact, every woman should have the capacity to earn, save, invest and build something for herself.
Financial independence is valuable. The problem begins when financial independence is interpreted as “my resources belong exclusively to me, but your resources become a responsibility I am entitled to share.”
Imagine a woman earning ₦2 million every month while her husband earns ₦500,000. She says, “My money is my money. I worked for it.” Fine. But if the same woman expects the man to pay rent, school fees, provide food, handle emergencies, maintain the car, support both families and still prove that he is “a responsible man,” we should at least be honest about the arrangement. She is not asking for equality. She is asking to retain her income while assigning the traditional financial burden to him.
Now reverse the situation. Imagine the man earns ₦2 million while she earns ₦500,000. Suddenly, many people will say, “A man should take care of his family. Her money is her contribution, not her obligation.”
Why should the principle change simply because the gender changed?
A woman earning more than her husband is not a problem. A husband earning more than his wife is not a problem. The problem is when one person's financial strength is treated as personal property while the other person's financial strength is treated as a marital obligation.
Marriage is also too unpredictable for this mentality. A man can be wealthy when you marry him and lose his business five years later. He can lose his job, suffer a financial setback, make a bad investment or simply experience circumstances nobody anticipated.
The same thing can happen to a woman. If your commitment disappears the moment your partner's bank balance does, then perhaps what you were committed to was the lifestyle rather than the person.
There are countless marriages where women contributed significantly to their husbands' success. They supported businesses, sacrificed personal comfort, invested their own money, managed the home during difficult periods and encouraged their husbands when things were going badly. They did not see their husband's success as competition. They saw it as the family's success.
Men should be capable of doing the same for their wives.
If my wife becomes the bigger earner tomorrow, I should not feel threatened. If I become the bigger earner, she should not feel entitled to everything I make simply because I am the man.
The sensible question in marriage is not “Who earns more?”
It is “Are we building together?”
Because marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a financial arrangement where one person keeps the benefits of independence while the other person carries the obligations of tradition.
Bring your money. I will bring mine. Let us decide together how to build our family, protect our future, invest, support each other and survive difficult seasons.
Money should be a tool for building a life together. It should never become a weapon for one spouse to establish superiority over the other.
If you genuinely want a partner rather than a provider, marry with the mentality of a partner too. Poor woman mentality. God forbid a man tries to enjoy his wife's money too. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Government Shuts Otuocha Market Over Aguleri & Umuoba Anam War by iykololo(m): 11:33am On Oct 03 |
Aguleri and war. |
Politics › Re: Anambra Government Shuts Otuocha Market Over Aguleri & Umuoba Anam War by iykololo(m): 11:32am On Oct 03 |
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Politics › Re: Nigeria Was Like Cancer Patient On Morphine, Until We Came — Tinubu by iykololo(m): 11:27am On Oct 01 |
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Events › Re: Lagos All White Party: It Was Nothing But A BBL Summit by iykololo(m): 10:12am On Sep 27 |
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