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ednut1:
But when you reach abroad, she can enter lucrative fields like nursing and tech. Starts earning good money and contributing to the bills. With her workload, child care . Many Nigerian men refuse to adjust to the realities and demand she cooks, does all the chores like in Nigeria. You still carry cheating come abroad. With time she begins to see there is no need for you and sends you packing. Many times its payback for patriarchy in Nigeria. Marriages where the man was a good man in Nigeria mostly still waxing strong abroad.

Gbam, for this your quote right here eh 👆, wisdom will never depart from you.

This is the crux of the matter. If you treat your wife like crap in the name of Patriarchy, better remain in that Naija. No be curse oh but as soon as you touch down in the Abroad, your wife will be planning how to treat your f up. Women have very long memories, can bear grudges and hardly forget even if they tell you they’ve forgiven you.

Having said that, all those sweet good men like my own husband have nothing to fear in the abroad as women like me will ride and die with them, both home and abroad even if our money long pass Atlantic Ocean.

This lady has only gone back to factory reset. Polyandry was widely practised in Africa before the continent was corrupted by the main religions. People need to read up on the African history long before the advent of colonisation..

Africans need to spend less time on sex topics and refocus their time/energy on other value adding engagements. Their mates in the west are busy inventing everything while we just dey carry jiggy jiggy matter for head like gala, chai!

My simple advice for you is as follows:

1) Pursue the Canada travel as this is the best time to go based on your stated age of 22. You get a lot of points for express entry if you are within the age bracket of 21 to 29, have a degree and work experience in Canada so now is the time to go.

2) Once you have full residency in Canada, if you like you can come back to invest in your Naija poultry business with all your Canadian dollars you may have saved for this goal.

I am doing something similar - based in the UK and running property business in Naija.

So with good planning, patience and timing you can achieve both goals.

airprince:
Evening everyone, I’m a young guy of about 22 and i graduated in 2021 from Delsu, after which I traveled to Cape Town last year and got a 3 years residency permit but I’m currently in Nigeria because the rent was too high and I wasn’t doing anything other than staying at home daily and money wasn’t coming in anymore like it used to so I went back to Nigeria.

Now I’m trying to figure out if it’s best I travel to Canada to further my studies basically work and study or stay back home here in Nigeria and start an extensive agricultural project; livestock’s & poultry(I’ve lands for that already)

Guys pls help me out I’m just so confused I just sit at home everyday doing nothing while I’m waiting for this Nysc letter it’s so boring.

This man of God is banned from the UK for fraud after being investigated by the UK Charities commission. See attached. Criminals will always prefer to stay and thrive in Nigeria because we don’t have functional law enforcement due to corruption plus the people are also very gullible.