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Your puna tight so let him be.

From my observation as king of single moms, the man take a good decision by considering the woman because of his past mistake, he has now cure his guiltyness.
It is left for the woman, she is a winner today but in time to come she will regret her action.

Madam the man was just trying to correct a mistake he did 4years ago, the man deserve an accolade.
Make the girl no regret later because her action is not a good one to me

Samantha124:
But she was a single mom because of him...

So what do you mean men should be careful of single moms when they keep on making their own beds to lie on?

Is it that most of you are u are kids or na sense una no get, i believe most of you leave your parents house at the tender age to go and do hookup so you lack home training 100%.

ahnie:
Leave bad thing,make bad thing leave you.
Our prayers are with you.
It's well with your soul!


I would strongly recommend you go for therapy,you never heal finish.

If ever you want to talk in other to seek closure,I would gladly listen to you....from your utterances you really must have gone thru alot.

May whatever that's causing you to be toxic like those,be flushed out from your life in Jesus name....Amen.

The brother is looking for the impossible, imagine for this social media age.

talented321:
You can go to heaven ask god for one female angel, no nigerian woman get those qualities you write there.

After that deadly mission he will still give the cash to one olosho.

Op we are all listening to the same music, but one thing in life is change is constant so just prepare yourself for the worst. All the leaders are just fighting for their own selfish interest, i don't believe nigeria will get any better.

I started the business 2013, he don tey i no fit count again, i can't even know some of the girls i don bleeb again. God pls forgive me o.

I don't reply fools because your mumumumumumumumumumumumumu is too much

Mindlog:
Na fish brain you chop, grow and turned out, dysfunctional!

Your face show, but many of them will come back with complain, while you as a man will cope with her mother with no problem attached

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Isoright

Like I will always say

Before I marry any woman I must ensure my mom and her live together for nine months in a rented apartment
Totally different from my own apartment

If they can cope together

Then boom I wll go ahead and do the marriage thing

Fish brain, you can't understand small explaination

Mindlog:
Na person whey dey depersonalized , na im dey comfortable with impregnating a stranger, pikins come be 23 chromosomes of you and 23 chromosomes of the stranger, then you con allow the stranger to take care of those vulnerable children.....na you be the mental person.

No ogbanje is allowed to disturb my mother. When i am living with your mother in peace

Sir, why are you wasting your time that fish brain. Thanks for ignoring that fool.

talented321:
I believe that psychiatric patient is you, since you have mental problem i don't think you will get the message. But no matter the matter men will always Bleep una, add pregnancy join. And i don't think i will still waste my time with a mental person.

Why it is so hard to leave any football club once you support them. Upon all the trust issue in nigeria, i supported man utd since 2006 and don't think anything will make me leave man utd the same apply to my friends and i have seen many people this way.

To your question, any meaningful thing i want to do for my wife i will first do it for my mother, unless my mother don't need it. At least any time i go to my mother 's house i have that home feeling especially the one i build for her, unlike your wife 's own when you inlaws go put fire for where. I will believe my mother 95% but my wife is 50%.

Mumu the question is for men not your bleeding gender

Sandralight:
All this childish question
So you were brought up with the mindset you can't love 2 people at once nawa.
Your mother will always be your mother and your wife is your wife.
You guys are just trying to set up mother and wife, can't everyone just live happily together, must there be a competition.
Another thread will come " if I have a car, who will sit in the front, my mother or my wife" " another will come bla bla bla"
Sometimes I feel it's even the men that is causing unnecessary problem between wife and mother in law, once you marry your wife she becomes part of the family and ur mother is now her mother and everyone should learn to love and respect each other and live happily ever after because at the end of the day Life is short.

frozen70:
I never knew that you weren't intelligent and now that I know, I will end this talk

Small girl, me and u no be talk mate, but i have to tell u the truth. (Don't quote me) for ur own good

Nazgul:
Possibly...cos labour would definitely be cheaper than Lagos.

kk

Single mom. God pls no matter how life i still want to be a man if it is possible, imagine woman raising her daughter alone is a big trauma.

He pass like that, abeg

Keep a boundary with your friends, girlfriends and love ones, just focus on your life.

But i believe 4m fit work for bayelsa here.

Nazgul:
Depending on you location. If it's somewhere like Lagos, you should have at least 5m.

KingAzubuike:
Out of 10 nigerian homes, 6 don't have father's anymore. They've been dead a long time ago. It's the women that live long to 80s and 90s because they have little or no responsibility. Respect any father you see out there.

but some of your genders are fighting for equality

Nazgul:
Thank God you understand what I'm trying to say.

The truth is you can never make any reasonable profit from the bank. It's literally impossible. Their fixed deposit is just a means to get high profile people to make huge deposits for them to trade with, and you're even right no bank would give you an interest rate of 12%.

As for the fintechs, I can't even advice anyone to fix 5m there regardless of how high their rate is, reason being that CBN can easily withdraw their license, or bring up a new policy that can permanently restrict them from operations, or a corrupt manager can defraud them and abscond with the money.

If you happen to have fixed your money there, and of the following happens, what next, most of them don't even have a physical address, how do you recover back your money?

What I use most of them for is to pay bills...I don't keep huge sums of money there cos it's not safe.

thanks for this information

Kingsize0001:
Let me book this space to read comments

so you don't have any observation or experience

There are some truth behind your write up, because when i observe the weird things some white women do because of konji you will just wonder. Also their was a thread i think it is either hear or facebook where am africa women use her office to sleep with over 200 men by promising them job. But nigeria here i think the women are still timid, so all of them want to die with vibrators, but very soon them too will show their face.

talented321:
Between men and women who konji affect most?
From my observation and experience, konji affect womem most but just that they are afraid of rejection and shame to make the move, while many men in the other hand don't have that feeling so it's look like men are always more desperate for it. My opinion sha.

Mother's day, father take the family out. Children's day, father take the family out.
Father's day, he is still the one to take the family out. And one ogbanje said we are equal.

Confusion everywhere

Madam too fast, she can't stay for one place

We learn everyday

KingAzubuike:
It's unfortunate many people dont know how fixed deposits works. That's how one was preaching to me if I invest so so amount I'll get bla bla in just 3 months. Let's say you invest 1M. 12% per annum of 1 million will give you 120k. If you decide to fix for 3 months that'll be 120÷12 × 3. That's 30k for 3 months. It doesn't make sense if you ask me. If you invest 5M that's 150k in 3 months. Fixed deposit na rubbish. Many banks won't even give you up to 12%. The highest is access and its about 8-9% or so. Its the fintechs like fairmoney or renmoney that gives up to 20% .

It is a good idea op but i prefer the bar and restaurant, just add small thing and open am average one plus your farming you will enjoy it.

them still dey sponsor woman, abi they no get siblings