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[quote author=Charmin']Observed it for more one hour and couldn't make anything out of it.[/quote]it pleases him.

geogino: Rest after a week's job

job that pays for your living

Obiada, which part of awka are you from.

geogino: Assignment with consequences.

consequences of our actions.

greatgod2012: The person who gives ultimatum in relationships is looking for an excuse from the other partner to break/cut the relationship. Shikena.

i have given a lady an ultimatum before because we were in a r/ship and every time, i stay around her,she manages to anger me,i wasn't deriving any joy, happiness or fulfillment from the association and it was making me very unhappy ,after talking at length many times to no avail,i have to throw an ultimatum to her ,i knew very well ,she will not adhere to it,but i wanted out and needed her to be the cause of the break up,i never looked back.

vivian chinaza: Ok. Thank you.

Permit me to rephrase, may I?
What is someone, let's say your babe tells you "Joe, if you don't do this, its over between us." How would you react to that?

i will call your bluff.

Brb, let me bring my bottle of alomo from PPA.

[quote author=Mazi_Omenuko]Wassup?[/quote]wassup is waiting for mazi's upload at the place of promiscious assignment.

barag: friend of mine hasten to me

me is very hor.n.y this friday evening!

Comments from interested nairalanders

daik: Khernie-Kay is an acronym of Kehinde and Kayode

kayode and kehinde both are yoruba names

kaylonda: neighbourhood love has to be the 'gangstarest' of all kinds of love.

love makes some men foolish,some even to bow and kneel for their lovers

flow1759: Nation where national cake is divided amongst Political office holders. Thats why i always say; Vote for FLOW in the forthcoming election. FLOW is the man.

man of the people.

repogirl: Equal fingers, I have never seen.

seen better days

repogirl: Help is needed for some people urgently!

urgently,i need a damsel to practice all mazi has been teaching me.

HotNaijaBabe: Kkk..but I bet u would quickly go on ur knees at the sight of the nuzzle of a pump action staring down ur throat ri.

and you will not!

Vivian,my father tells me that him, that saw his father has seen the spirits. My father is still very much alive. How i would handle my family,my wife and my life as a man, a husband and a father ,i learnt from the example,he and others has set before me ,that i recon as good and worthy of emulation. It is something called male influence or something like that. I had to bring parents into it because where else will i learn from. My father will not kneel for my mother,yet he loves her,cares,provides and have protected her for the past 37 years of their marriage . I doubt that your father has ever knelt for your mother. Nor the bible ever admonished any man to kneel for his wife.it tells a man respect your wife,kneeling down for my wife is not respecting her. The husband is the head of the woman.i can and will respect my woman and yet not kneel to her.that woman that will not love me and respect me because i wouldn't kneel for her doesn't respect me and wants to make mockery of me. Baby,i will love you,care for you,fight and protect you but kneel and bow for you, never! You can as well castrate me.

vivian chinaza: @ Izu, yea isn't this sweet? Learning that you would hit me shouldn't scare me huh? But learning that if you do, I'm gonna make sure you get hit 10 times over should scare you?

There is a thin line between pride and arrogance. We just need to watch it. Pride is good, everyone has it, I know I do. But if you don't watch this pride, it turns to arrogance.

And how did u know the kinda kneeling the poster was talking about? Its a picture, for all we know he could be a bf or husband or fiance begging for forgiveness.

You did not understand my posts and you blew things outta proportion. I never justified unnecessary kneeling down, both for a man or a woman, read my posts again.

Isn't it hilarious how you guys undermine ladies and make them feel worthless with your utterances? And cry when we do same to you? You see I don't know for other ladies out there, but as for me, the only man that gets to see how sweet I I am? The only man I will submit to? Is that man who recognises that I'm a woman in the real sense of a woman. Is that man who is willing to let his pride go. Come when we are inside, there will be no man or woman, we would just be lovers. But when we go outside? HE IS THE MAN!

Cabbage in cabbage out (processed), what you put in is what you get. If you want love and submission? They don't just happen, you have to earn them.
If a man derogates me, either by words or deeds? He would be derogated. Simples.

you haven't answered my questions? What am i kneeling down for?

Sapphire86: Being such a lady, I am not interested in male whores

whores and runsgirls ,what is the difference

vivian chinaza: Let me drive home my point.

You see, I forbid a man hitting me. In as much as I do, I won't tempt him to, I won't push him to the wall. I won't challenge him to, especially when he is mad at me.

But when for no just cause, he feels he is high on crack and touches me? I won't go to police, yet. I'd gather my brothers and they inflict as much pains as he inflicted on me on him, then we would go to the police.

am not arrogant but i have pride and ego and that's why there are situations that i can't put myself. I have not hit any of my gf's before and am not planning to ,but to be told that you will gather your bros and mend me tomorrow if i try ,asks me ,do you want such a woman .

vivian chinaza: You see your mindset?

Now, let's take this one by one. But before I start, I want to make it clear that I do not support violence.
Now you said this lady was ur friend? Right? For you to call her a friend that means you must have known her a little? Did you see her as the violent type? Now let me make this personal. I have a bf and we love each other, sometimes when we are talking he would tell me, if you cheat on me I would kill that man, and kill you. I know he doesn't mean it cos I know him too well, I will just tell him "oh baby, you see those guys running around me? They are not good enough. You own me, spirit soul and body." And this would make him so happy. Then sometimes I would tell him, "I'm gonna buy a cane for you and those you kurukere babes and I'm gonna flog the hell outta of you guys the day I'd catch you." He would tell me "my love, there are no other ladies. Even if there were, I will chase them away before you get to my house." And we would just laugh about it.
Trust me what that girl needed was a re-assurance from you.

Then secondly, must you need a reason to kneel down for your woman? What if it is to tell her that "oh sweetheart, I'm your prisoner" (figuratively). Let me make this personal too. You see me? I'm my own lord, ok. Naturally, I don't like being bossed around and I do not believe I need a man. So I have always been, this is who I am, if you don't like it, move your azz. But sometimes I kneel that to feed my boyfriend. Sometimes I call him "my lord." I hardly pay the damsel in distress card but sometimes I do and let him rescue me. And there is this smile on his face whenever I do and I just love it. Him on the other hand kneels down for me, combs my hair, carries my handbag, etc. We do not see it as being less of a man or less of a woman, we just want to make each other happy.

Now I love ur question, why would you intentionally hurt someone you love? Izu, I cannot intentionally hurt a man I love, whatever he doesn't like I would not do. If I unintentionally hurt him, I will apologise from the debt of my heart. If a man knows that he won't intentionally hurt me, so why bother?

Izu, I hate pride and arrogance. And I can't stand men that possess such attributes.

i doubt whether it is this type of kneeling down the poster means and by the way ,i have combed my gf's hair many times ,have washed her clothes when she was sick but didn't need to kneel to do either ,these are showing that i care and i do, the only times we knelt down figuratively is when doing the do especially canine style ,you still have not answered my question kneel down so that what happens. If you are in a relationship with me,i don't leave you in the dark concerning your place in my heart,i bombard you with messages,calls and spend time with you ,look you in the eyes and say all the romantic nonsense running around in my head waiting to be released. I prevent rather than cure,it was not just what this said lady said then as the emotions and strength in them and them ,her friends,i ran because i feel she could be violent in the future and i want a happy home and to prevent stories that touch.

Am also interested in your findings,when you find out come and tell me also.

vivian chinaza: Yea, its unlike me cos I told you if one hurts me intentionally, I will hurt the right back.

Oh God, you guys must have had a very very wrong impression about me.

Izu, I repeat if you see kneeling down for a woman as a big deal, then, well, I don't know what to say to you.

And if you blacklisted a girl cos she said if you cheat on her, she would break you (I don't support the violence part) when all she needed was a re-assurance from you that you would never cheat on her, then I don't understand you.

reassurance that i won't cheat on her, and i ,reassurance that in the heat of arguement one day,that she wouldn't break my head with pestle. I don't need violence around me, much less domestic own. If am in a relationship and i intentionally hurt you,you will return the favour and if you intentionally hurt me,i will also return the favour. I don't want that type of r/ship. If i hurt you intentionally tell me,we will talk through it but why will i intentionally hurt my loved one. I don't do that. Instead of doing back to sender with my lover,i would rather end the r/ship. Kneeling down for a woman for what exactly has been my question? For what offence? For my wife or for a woman that i just met? So that what will happen? So that she will give me punny ? So that she will date me ? Or so that she will agree to marry me ?count me out abeg !

vivian chinaza: You know one thing I have found out about most NL readers is they don't digest what they read before they make comments. Their hands do most of the thinking and typing.

I'm a huge fan of submissiveness, I'm not just a huge fan of guys treating ladies like dirt. I also believe a woman should be a woman.

I'm not a feminist. I'm my own woman, I have my own beliefs and I stand by them irrespective of who approves or dis-approves.
When women are going over board, I caution them. That has always been my stand and honestly I don't give a rat's azz about who fights with me or not.
So maybe you never really understood my posts, just the way a lot of you never did.

so you are saying,we don't comprehend english language again,i agree with him, you changed . What changed you. In some of your posts today,you said ,you will be ready to bring the man down,if he so misbehaves and i was very uncomfortable wit h that or else i don't understand what you meant by bringing him down. Is it not fire for fire.

CAMEROONPRIDE: never mind if you don't remember, but you were submissive, were against rug shoulders with men, etc I remember back then a lot of females used to attack you the like of Ileke etc, I forgot the threadd but It's all right.

You used to have a lot of e-fights with women, today you sound so bitter and disgusted by them etc etc ..yi bet something happened .

I miss reading the old chinaza
Cheer

bro, you are very correct ,i also followed those threads. Vivy, some of your comments on this thread are very much unlike you. What happened!

Any woman that feels she is doing me a favour by being with me, by my books is not worth me. Relationship is not by force,if a lady feels am not good enough for her ,fine and good,kneel down and beg to be enough.god forbid. I have always been a gentle man and will always be. I treat my women right and to me,it does not include kneeling down before them. I will not set ultimatum for my woman yet the good book says can two work together except they be in agreement. But i will head my family and expect my wife to fall in line,and i will not kneel for her unless . . . . ,much less a strange woman

HotNaijaBabe: U have said all there's to say already, u don't need to explain further..Most of these guys here have to save face online, hence, they claim that they can't kneel before a woman(when in reality, most, if not all of them have done the same)..
Btw, what kind of love do u guys(or ladies) profess to have if u can't do something as easy as kneeling before someone u claim to love...oh well!

kneel down for you or grovel if you like but for what exactly and unto what end.