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SweetCunt97:
Social media.

What about those of us that are also very introverted online as well?

Edibles20:
We met at work. Honestly we both were ready to settle down, and I think it worked for us.
Now married, both of us run back home soon as we are done with work. We are our own crowd and groove. We both can remain indoors for the entire year without stepping out of the house.

Wow this is so nice. I'm also suspecting that I'll meet mine at work too. Maybe church or school (cos these are the only reason I leave my house) but school is almost over for me sha and nothing don happen.

I'm currently the only one at home right now and is not as if I can't go out if I want to. The problem is I don't want to and this is how I have been most of my life and I like it.

So my question is for the married introverts here, how did you meet your spouse? Did you have to behave outgoing or you where just being yourself when it happened.

For those who don't mind you can also share with us how long it's been now and how you knew he or she was the one.

I'm not actually ready for marriage now but I'm just asking because I want to start preparing myself. I don't want to get to the bridge and realize it's actually not a bridge but a tunnel or elevator.

There is this saying that "if Mohammed does not go to the mountain, the mountain will come to Mohammed." How true is this? Should I wait for her to come to me when it is time?

Please take your time to answer, I like reading so I don't mind if your answer is long.

MODIFIED;
This might take a while, it's like all the introverts are not yet married or have crawled back into their shells.

Okay even if you guys are not yet married, please share your experience.
If your partner or ex was the Introverted one, how did you guys meet?

Geminita:
Sure..I want to be part of it.. It's a nice idea

Okay thanks will reach out to you soon

Geminita:
Jack273

Concerning the book club, I have been in one before and I can tell you how it's been done in that group..

It is a WhatsApp group tho. We will nominate a book then we will divide the chapters (depending on how large the book is) so, we go on to read the allocated chapters (chapter 1-15) for three days and then on the fourth day everyone will drop their review.. The next three days will be for (16-30) . i am just using it for instance.. Shey you get?? Failure to participate means you will be out of the group..

I don't know how you want to do your own tho but you can adopt the style if you don't mind

Salaam

Wow thank you for this. I like the idea of dividing the chapters. I'll like for you to be a part of the team your experience is exactly what we need. what do you say?