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hmmmmmmmm, interesting topic

Also, if she is considering an affair then there must be serious problems in her marriage.

think of the kids, she is risking her marriage and the future of her children. It may seem like fun now, but it will bring about unimaginable pain to all involved later (children, husband, wife, lover).

ok, sry, pt taken

Wow, that was harsh!

I don't think Lafem thought it was a joke, If you read his post you can see that this is his first major project, he was under a big time constraint, and he did this to gain experience. After all that, he decided to help out other nairalanders by posting the lessons he learned. Why do you feel the need to knock someone's work? Your suggestions would have been helpful on their own without having to put down someone else's work.

I liked what he did, as did another poster,

Is talk really cheap??

very cool!

diyobdw:
Some one :
[list]
[li]you can connect with- soulmate kind of who would make sacrifices for you[/li]
[li]Who you can cope with their flaws for the rest of your life[/li]
[/list]

one more
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[li]who would be sincere even if it hurts[/li]
[/list]

I like these. Here are mine:
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[li]Intelligent - doesn't need me to figure everything out and we can communicate on the same level[/li]
[li]Honest - will tell me anything without me having to ask because he likes to share with me, and he feels comfortable enough with me to say anything[/li]
[li]Unselfish - He considers how I feel and takes that into account[/li]
[/list]

List of things I don't want:
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[li]Controlling - always tells me what to do[/li]
[li]No self-confidence - if he doesn't believe in himself I am not there to fix him[/li]
[li]Lazy - I ain't gonna do it all[/li]
[/list]

@OMO_IBO wrote:

"by the way, asking a guy if he love's u is not and has never been the best way to find out if he realy does love u."

So tell us, what is the best way?

The Ring (The original Japanese version)