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What could a child of 6 years must have committed to deny him forgiveness? I have been seeking for explanation for over 20 years but all I get is silence from him

MarkNsukkaBread:
For your father to take such a hard stance against you means you were a very wayward child who caused him great pains

Can you enlighten me on this

dmjinc:
Sins of the mother...

I have experienced the same pains. For the past 30 years ive been on that lane. What's so painful is that I have gone to beg for forgiveness for countless times yet no response. I have sent siblings nothing, sent other extended family members yet no result. Up till now, I can't really say what went wrong becos the issue started very very early in my childhood. The most annoying aspect is that the same man is the one going about demarketing me, his son. I have since decided to hand over everything to God.

But commercial banks are giving excuses not to reverse their interest rates. It still benefits the rich but not the poor.

Please beware of lairaplus loan app. I requested for 17,000 instead they sent 114,100 which I returned immediately. Their agents don't pick calls , they don't reply text messages nor wappsapp chats and emails. They keep updating their default charges on daily basis even when I returned the money to them within minutes. Be ware of them.

But it wasn't what I requested for and I believed returning immediately wont attract anything like interest

Imalwayshorny:
Na you Bleep up why will you refund them back you'll pay the interest if you like it or not

Hello Fellow Nairalanders,
Please I need professional avice from you people. I know help might be here to help me handle an issue im having at the moment.
I applied for a #17,000 loan from one of the Fintech loan app. Surprisingly I was sent #114,100 instead of the #17,000. I returned the money immediately. The refund reflected on my dashboard but the interest was still there. I immediately looke up their email and phone number on the app. I sent email, no reply. I called the phone number, it has not been reachable till today.
Immediately after the initial expiration of the loan period, they started calling me with a different number. But whenever I tried to explain to them, they cut the call...and if I call back, the don't pick my calls. My dashboard is now showing am owing them and they keep adding further interest on daily basis

Please I need advice on how to handle this issue.
Thank you all

Exactly how mine was and still is

spiceadole:
No, I did not and I still do not have a good relationship with them.

My father was tough , abusive and extremely malicious.. made it clear he wasn't my friend or mate. The only time I could stay even 1 minute close to him was either he was beating me or verbally abusing me.

My mother was excessively judgemental and annoyingly over religious. She also believed I was a child and never had a say.

I left home as a teenager to university and stayed away for 3 years.. didn't visit and they didn't bother.
They didn't attend my matriculation, induction and convocation.
I learnt how to celebrate my wins alone.
First picture I took with my parents was during my wedding.
My siblings and I never had one family picture with them.

Today, I just send money when I want to. We still don't relate.
I don't know how to talk to/gist with them especially my father. My children do not know them.

I haven't spoken to my mum in 3 months and my dad in 11 months. I try not to pick his calls because we have nothing to discuss.
It's too late to begin building a relationship.

Which PDP group gave him the certificate. Was it wike group or Turaki group? Asking for a friend

That's exactly what is going to happen. Loyalty is exclusively to the state governors.

Juliette5803:
My problem is with the State Governments, they might turn them to personal services

I do agree that its both, but one side is suffering ( being affected) . Again have you asked yourself the cost of building those roads

KennethOkonkwo:
Its both!

Swear with your life that you have never complain about the state of. NIGERIAN ROADS or terminus before?

Do you think Nigerians will fare well with poor infrastructure?

When you people dont fancy who did a project that is when you come up with this whatabout-ism.Alex Otti didnt even do 1/10 of this before you declared him greater than lee kuan ooo

I do pity people that think development only relates to building highly inflated fancy things.....my dear development encompasses the wellbeing of the people who are citizens. Ask yourself....how are Nigerians faring?

I have had a similar experience. I have given someone a huge money for her business after begging me to help her for close to one year....only for her to block me the next day.

And the country is as calm as if nothing happened..... politics going on up and down. Chaiii my beloved country

Please what do we do next

1x2x3:
No one show be suprised. People the Army prefer to rehabilitate than eliminate.

Have you forgotten that they are our brothers

God1000:
Hmm, isn't this blasphemy and against God's commandment that says You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain

This man keeps proving me right everyday, I don't know why people even call me bad names for saying the truth about him

It is actually blasphemy but we christians don't fight for God, we allow God fight for Himself unlike other religions.

This is long over due. Fg should take immediate action to address this

I didn't inherit anything o but doing just fine to the glory of God

To collect tax

Brendaniel:
What exactly did Tinubu become president for?

It later sailed through

You are wicked. Lolz

BlocksNG:
Hahahahahahaha, is this a president or ojuju calabar?

You won't understand the stress you are saving yourself from.....in future you will understand

Nobody feeds any school pupils in this country..All na audio. Imagine feeding school pupils during d lock down when all schools were closed.

Shebi una don Sergio una life? They can't pay ASUU and asup arrears that is not even upto 50b but imagine how much is allotted to ordinary generator. Who did we offend in this country

Please fans can I register a Debit card on PayPal account and how can I go about it. Thanks