You cant apply all you read or watch in movies. Remember that different strokes for different folks. Even if you go see a marriage counselor you dont follow what you are told hook line and sinker you need to know what applies to you and what doesnt. Beside you may have gotten over you pass argument he may still be processing the whole thing and still trying to let go. If you know him well and understand him there are ways to convince him to do what you want rather than throwing it at him just to know if he loves you or if you bond well.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.
So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" 
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.