kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

WriteBoy:
I don't see how that was a simple request. I would turn it down because I wouldn't want to hurt you.

Shaving oneself is hard how much more another person. Before I shave my pubes, I go to extra lengths to prepare myself -- both mentally and physically. Mentally includes tricking my mind into believing it will be an enjoyable experience when I know the reverse is the case. Physically, I prepare my clipper, scissors, shaving stick, dusting powder, and soothing gel for my crotch when I am done. So you can see that it is not an easy nor simple task. I wouldn't do for it anyone because I don't know how sensitive their skin is.

Please try not to apply everything you read online to your life. I may be mistaken, but the woman advising you is probably from a Western culture where their men are open to trying a whole lot of things. You should factor in the wide gulf between our cultures to see if such advise is applicable to your situation.


You sound very petty -- this censure is not based on your whole personality which I do not know, but rather on the contents of this post. I know that as a woman you want grand romantic gestures to be assured of your man's love. But believe me, it is not about you alone. You must also learn to love him within the confines of what he defines as love.

That being said, have you shaved?

truthsayer007:


You this gey, you are just too confused. Infact, Your confusion is hilarious to me. I had follow you again so i could continue to read stupid posts from you which makes me laugh

If you having problems with little things as him saying NO to shaving you. Then what will happen when you marry

Please continue with stupid posts like this, so you can get me entertained continuously.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

GodsLastBorn:
Op you should ask him to kiss and lick your feet and axx every morning too it will help you in knowing if the relationship will last, its a relationship rule. I don't mind doing it with my boo boo but don't think every guy is down for it or that if he can't he loves you less, you seem selfish but I'm not surprised. why not be the one to introduce the shaving thing by offering to shave him first when you guys are bathing that is if he got little something that needs shaving after you're done then tell him you would like him to do the same to you not because you shaved him first but because you find it kinky, romantic or whatnot? instead you went "he I BAE, here's a cutlass get this bushes shaved!" come on. One thing I've learned in life is that you can get anyone to do something you want for you but you have to use the right words, time, person and situation.

jonaifame22:
Since u've been on NL, u dnt even know that I'm a barber, contact me lemme shave it for u, so far it's the one down below, it's not his job! It's something I can do

Oyind17:
Stop talking trash

Lawlahdey:
Hahaha.. And you just had to ask her that??
You sound pretty much like a flirt.

Lawlahdey:
Hmm... Not every guy would wanna do that but you could have done it for him first and he might have been obliged to reciprocate, out of love and respect.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand"
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.

WriteBoy:


Well, since it's no longer a private matter(on account of her bringing it to a public forum)I feel we deserve to know if the issue has been resolved.

DESNAT: