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100Cents:
If he is talking to you about her, then they are not dating.

The secret here is, there is one thing about her he admires..

Ask him this straight question, " Darlene, what do you admire in this lady " ? It might be her hard work or diligence.

Ask him to introduce her to you. If you haven't met her. ( make friend with your enemy, then tackle her reasonably ).

Tell the lady your husband talks about her often, what is their relationship like seeing you are his wife ? . Be friendly about this.

FLAWLES:
Sit him down and talk to him...if he dosnt heed...Divorce him(u know i must tok)

bunmioguns:
Let us make a deal


You will bring me home as man friend to scare your husband


Tit for tat



Don't forget that you will pay me for service rendered


Deal or no deal
No Deal

Hawlahscho:
You too discuss me in your conversation one day to make him jealous. Even if he starts cheating on you, together we can cheat on him too.

#JustTryingToHelp

xtervaganza:
Dear poster, how about making yourself clear?


You said he brings his girlfriend into your conversation, but from your later post it appears like you meant to say female friends.


Maybe you should edit your topic and make it a but more comprehensive




thanks.

Cholls:
my sister what do you want let me help you.

daryoor:
this is why feminist wont let us rest. im 100% sure your husband is the bread winner and he is just to comfortable that he knows that you'll go nowhere no matter what he does. the nigga has no regards for you, you are trapped and a little close to his slave, youve lost your dignity and respect. sorry

Truth24:
Ur post is confusing....
Ur husband has a girlfriend?

Bamz:
Um I guess y'll need a lot of talking to do then. You guys need to set the rules straight. If it's a marriage, what's the talk of him having girlfriends? Is there something else I'm missing?

Bamz:
Did you say your husband?

MudRaker:
Who made this old fool judge?

Obasonjo go and settle your home and make peace with your children

Jakeattah:
Studied biochemistry, a very difficult course with tough lecturers and not over much appreciated. people take it as biology and chemistry joined, very annoying.


I wanted to study English

babestell:
I disagree with you. I don't know about you but not all cross gender friendships result in sleeping together or cheating. That is why guys complain about the friend zone.

I work in a male dominated office sha so am very comfortable with them. You have no other choice than to be friendly with them and in the process you discover that you guys share things in common, but those that mean you will start dating them...of course not. Just that you get to know them better. When we go for lunch we all sit and eat and sometimes the gist get personal...some are married, some are not.

My future hubby will be allowed to have female friends. If he chooses to be all mushy with them, that is his business. Since I plan to marry someone who is my friend, I won't be bothered by that

peggykorol:
Madam when a man's ways are not straight they act silly
Like your hubby just did.trying to be defensive,saying you are mental and wants divorce(see him mouth)
He is cheating with her and loves the attention
If you don't have a job,now it's time to get one and try to ignore his phone
When you ask too many questions they begin to feel too important
It's not easy sha cos your marriage is still young
Am yet to see a man who has not cheated on his wife at one time or the other

Daresh:
Me I've reached realization that I cannot kill myself for any man. If he wants to follow mistress, odabo, good luck to him.

iamrealdeji:
So that's your motive? You're not thinking about correcting the way they govern,you're thinking about stealing public fund too? Shame on you,and you expect the nation to be like UAE and America,when you have such a negative mindset

onome710:
There are a lot of women that do not cheat on their partners. If they are happy with their partner and secure in their relationship, it is unlikely that most women will stray.

That being said, some women do cheat and there are some specific occasions where they are more likely to do it.

Read below to see when she might stray and how you can prevent as her partner.

,. @OP,pls add she is nt happy been boss



A survey conducted by Durex, in which 29,000 people in 36 countries were interviewed has ranked Nigerian women as one of the most unfaithful in the world. But what are the reasons?

1. Age trigger
Decade and half-decade birthdays can be a hard time for a ladies. Women clocking such ages as 30, 35, 40, 50, etc might think about their life and its directions, and if it is not going the way they wants, she might want to correct this by having an affair.

Advice for men: be there for her. According to the statistics, there are two dates when any straight Nigerian woman wants a men in her bed: her birthday and the New Year’s Eve. Don’t leave her solo and don’t forget about the presents.

2. She got a promotion

Women, as much as men, love to achieve their goals.. And when she is able to conquer one of her job-related challenges, she might focus on another – her relationship. She might want to take some risk with her relationship, or might want to find excitement in the arms of another man. Also women who have big salaries are more likely to cheat. 

Advice for men: be with your girl. Celebrate all her accomplishments, even those ones which you consider to be unimportant. When she feels like you admire and respect her, she will feel valued at home as much as she does at work.

3. You start to live together
Things change when you start to live together. When you share all the boring routine moments of your life, she can subconsciously think that you consider her to be boring too. And if there’s someone else around who finds her attractive and intriguing-and shows it-she might go for him instead. One survey found that 41 percent of women who’ve cheated did it with a coworker. Also, after moving in, women start dreaming about engagement or marriage.

Advice: Talk with her about the future and make it clear that you want her in your future.

4. She thinks you have cheated

Affair as a revenge is very common. Women sometimes do this to restore their self-esteem and feel attractive and desirable again. 

Advice: If you cheated or are cheating, confess. Try to apologize. If you were not cheating you have got a paranoid girlfriend. Maybe she has low self-confidence. So you should try to compliment her sincerely and often. Make her feel better about herself.

5. She wants to break up with you

One more reason on why woman might cheat – She is about to dump you. So she may cheat to have a reason to do so.

Advice: Let her go. She is not your woman.

Sepp360:
How would you expect Nigeria to get better with this mentality of yours.

laurel03:
many people are in UCH & other hospitals nationwide dt need small money 2 survive.... nobody donate 4 dem. rubbish