₦airaland Forum

kodylicky:
Interesting debate abt preggy women and visas. I will like to share my own transcript. I'm 24 weeks pregnant, with a very big tommy. I got my visa in Lagos on Friday 9th Dec. I didn't go with hubby cos he got his visa at our earlier scheduled interview. I had to reschedule mine cos of ds-160 bar code ish. So here is my transcript.

I applied for a B2 visa.

Vo. .. passport Plsss.
Me... gave it to him with a good morning

Vo.... y re u going to the United States
Me... vacation with my husband and we plan to have our baby there
Vo... come again?? Please repeat what you said. . (He sounded kinda suprised. Dunno y . Cos at this point he stopped typing to look at me)
Me... I said I plan to have a vacation withe my husband and we also plan to have our son there.
Vo... oww. What do you do
Me... I'm an engineer, I work for....
Vo.... what type of engineer are u
Me.. chemical Engraved.
Vo.. tell me abt a Chem.. Engr
Me... *I babbled everything I could think of while he types.
Vo... have u travelled B4
Me .. yup been to uk,France, abu dhabi. ,... With my husband.
Vo.... does ur hubby have a visa
Me .., yes
Vo... can I see a copy
I passed it across and he studies it and types. My ppt has my maiden name x different from hubby.
Vo.. when did you get married
Me.. I told him
Vo.. y didn't u change the name on ur passport. .
Lol I hurriedly renewed my passport in October after I couldn't do my first interview..
Me.. I told hi abt d sudden renewal
Vo.. but you ve been married for xx yrs dats enough time to change ur name
At this point I realised he was trying to prove or convince himself dat we re actually married. So I decided to nudge him in d right direction lol.
Me.,. Well, it's really not compulsory dat I do a change of name especially at work as long as I have my marriage certificate to prove it. (I wanted him to ask for marriage certificate and he did)
I passed him d very original cert when he asked. He studies it and compares names.lol
Vo.. Madam at dis moment your visa ha s been approved blah blah blah (I didn't hear d rest of what he said) and I got d white paper... daz all..

LadyGuinivere:
Nothing to be confused about. Nigerians have been telling the ' I got ma visa for vacation but didn't use it because yady yady so I'm writing letter of intent' story since ninteen kpirigidim.
So now that letter is being treated as crap (nd rightly so cos we abused it)
Ma. No time is too early to get a hospital. I got one before pregnancy sef. If you intend to birth in the US, do the needful. Go to the right thread. Read. Research. Prove your ability to pay.
If you just want to go for a vacation , sorry. You wil
l suffer the plight where our Sisters have put us.

KaptainAfrika:
I am even more confused. My advice, even if you don't plan on giving birth, say yes if asked if you will use this visa for something else apart from vacation as you will most likely asked if you're preggy. I hear change of intent is as useful as 50 kobo. It's sad to assume all pregnant women in interviews, wish to have their kids in the US...Its guilty until proven innocent for applicants.
MY OPINION

KaptainAfrika:
New unspoken rule in US Embassy, Abuja.

1. If your wife is pregnant and you guys applied for a tourist visa, you will be asked if you want to use this visa for any other purpose, please say yes, because as soon as you say no, your wife will be asked if she's pregnant (if she says yes, your visa will be denied; if she says no, say bye bye to applying for a visa for a year). The new logic is that all pregnant women (with or without husband) applying for a tourist visa, will send a change of intent letter and use the visa for childbirth; so according to the US Embassy, pregnant women can't
go on vacation in the US.

2. If you want to give birth in the US, just go for the medical visa jeje (without your husband except he is the director in his company or in a position where his presence is needed, or earns a high salary)
MY OPINION FROM EXPERIENCE AND RESEARCH.

DMeanMan:
Apply with your family. Disclosing to the VO at the time of interview is just about the ideal thing to do. There's no need dragging your feet on something you already made up your mind about.

I really don't know if that answered your question.

LadyGuinivere:
What you plan to. Do is musrepresentation and can earn u a deportation. Fyi that letter is worth nothing now.
Go to the birthing thread. Read. Preparem do the needful. And don't join those giving nigeria a bad name.


@gbany the question is not whether an investigation will be conducted, rather 'is a marrige under islamic law recognized?'
The answer is yes.
You can go with a few pictures. However , remember

these are rarely asked for. Your ds 160 and body language is the key here.

AyaAremu:
Just send me a pm i will respond.

AyaAremu:
My pple,

Can anyone help with info on apartment to share or any cheap one arnd 24th Dec to 25th Jan 2017 in Dallas.

Pls its very urgent....any info will be appreciated.

Ejoor o

Onechancearmy:
Just to be clear is it the same dogs who ate your father's balls that will eat mine? Or is it the dog who regularly services your mother? Which one is it.

Onechancearmy:
Sad. She was just another illiterate afonja yoruba nolly actress, but she'll be missed all the same.

bettercreature:
She should have left this for the press or other family members

She should be mourning not ranting online

Rip to the dead


Useless mother

POSTING ONLINE 2 DAYS AFTER YOUR DAUGHTERS DEATH



IS WRONG

placebo:
Hi Pinky2016, I am due in May 2017 and considering el paso. I hope we hook up if you dont mind. Email is mrsjirikap@gmail.com

pinky2016:
Hello mamas,
Ive been reading this thread for a long time but stopped but now I'm back.

May/June 2017 seems far but i'd like to get your opinion on whether to get a hospital now and sort everything out before may 2017 or wait till around that period.
Also when is the best time to buy the travel ticket (close to departure date or months before)
(intend using hospital in new york or el paso).

maxism2:
Free food? what!!! What if she washed her private part and used the water to cook it?
what if she used mortuary water?
What if it's for ritual or witchcraft?

So many questions.

She may have good intentions though. But, this is no for me.

hardbody:
That culture is neither igbo, yourba or hausa. Infact it is not Nigerian, it is borrowed from the English so anyone that chooses to add that to his white wedding could as well do.

You are proud to be a Yoruba just because you see what you think is Igbo culture. The lady having her garter snapped is Yoruba too, so what exactly are you saying.

Grow some sense first before going tribalistic

Festivalofholi:
Women r sex objects, so i'm not surprised.