₦airaland Forum

i wont say our lifes aspirations arent in sync.we pretty much want the same things out of life.its just the location that kinda spooks me out.iv got no friends no immediate family and stuff so it just makes me think il be like a fish out of water.i know he plans to come home in the fiture as i know he has alot of business ideas he always wants to implement back home.i guess my main problem is the drastic change.

I am a 26 year old lady livin and workin lagos.i have a fairly wellpayin  job and can say there is hope for career progression.My Fiance lives and works in the uk.He is a  cool guy and i can say i love him to bits.The problem is we are
getting married soon and i really do not want to live in the uk.i go there on holidays and i think the place is boring and dreary.My fiance is a british citizen and is really settled over there and i can tell he doesnt want to come home anytime soon.am i selfish  if i  say i dont want to move?why cant he come home?am reaaly used to my life here and i just feel like am going to be uprooted to a new culture.i know our culture says u go wherever ur husband goes but am just realy confused.whaddaya think?