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beknown:
Jaychand,

Your relationship with her will not be the same as you are not in Nigeria now. Your telephone calls are useful if you will be away for less than a week.

As you know, many Boss in Nigeria tend to take their female employees for a 'ride'. I will not be surprise if your supposed girl is enjoying the game now because she is thinking about not losing the job. She may have got the Oil and Gas job through the influence of the Boss. The Boss may or may not be serious with her for long term relationship, do not dwell on that.

Do not cry over spilt milk. Although she will come back after the game, you may not be interested then.

Move on with your life and avoid distant relationship.

Forget that your family and her own are beginning to get familiar. The fact remains that you are not married to her now.

Thanx, buh its not about money and keeping the Job, I got her the job(Well Payin),


Hi all, i seem to have a joker buh it sounds awkward, I've always known her to be a Virgin and once i get home and she ain't one no more then shes gone with the mind

Ekpoma1:
I'd advise you look for another gal and stop chasing a lost sheep. The guy don fcukkk am turn turn aready. Imagine she was with him all thru d nite and her phone was switched off.

Yeah, i'm making up my mind buh she ddnt spend the night there, she went to the guy's house in the morning only for her phone to be available when she got back home in the night,

Odunnu:
Errm Poster, I dont get the part about saturday. Did she spend saturday night with the guy?
Gurls can sabi fall hand sha, why should she switch off her phone nah?mcheeew

She spent the whole day there , but that doesnt change anyfin sef. what can happen in the night is bound to happen during the day too. The painful thing is that she made a joke someday that if she hasn't been in any relationship she wudda accepted the guy and all that.

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=658076.msg8241994#msg8241994 date=1304290893]FILE!~~ Dont TOSH IT!!!

ehn. You want to copy Nigerian movies abi? You'll just be complicating matters!

My Advice for you is; catch her Red-handed first. Have a tangible case of infidelity at hand!

Then the rest is up to you! [/quote]Thanks Babe, but i'm not in Nigeria so i cant catch her red handed

[quote author=Shy-One link=topic=658076.msg8242032#msg8242032 date=1304291334]@ OP

You already know enough about the guy to set him up with a well endowed, attractive female relative of yours.

Instead of wondering what is going on - occasion an "accidental meeting" between him and one of your attractive female relatives and or attractive female friends.

Disinterest the guy in your girl and then see how/if she changes her availability/access to you.[/quote]I used that one on her to introduce her female friend to this guy, of which she did and her friend got laid by this same guy, yet she knows all these

Hi all,   I honestly need some serious advice from you guys. I'll also try to make my story as short as I can.

I am in relationship with this babe and i love her sooooooo much and i honestly want to marry her soonest (both families have known each other)  buh recent developments has been scary or prolly i have been thinkin too much. She started her work with a oil n Gas firm in Naija almost the same month i left Nigeria for an official assignment , its been fun all the way, communication wasn't a problem, we chat, make trunk calls almost everyday.

The Dilemma

She 's got this boss who is also single and he is ready to marry and all that. Dude has been buggin her which she keeps telling me BUT i discovered that each time, everyday, we talk on phone or chat, she keeps telling me dis n dat about the guy, we can talk for 20 mins and she can take 15mins out of it to talk about this same guy. This dude calls her every-night when she's about to sleep even after leaving same office. We've fought over this  over and over but she keeps saying she knows what she's doing and she knows the guy's girl friends and all that.

i recently notice she's always on guard to anything i say, always trying to cover up something with the way she talks, i mean she's not free again. This dude was planning to get a new property early this year and of all peeps, he sent her to go pay for him which i know she wudn't do for just any guy. Only for her to tell me later that she s going to spend one saturday last month at this guy's place to help him pack his stuffs to the new property, Imagine that, i tried her number all through that day buh it was switched off only to give me some excuses later in the night.

INTENTIONS
I do trust her buh m having a serious doubt these daiz. Now I'm thinking of getting a very close girlfriend here just to spite her so she can think twice as she doesn't sense any harm in what she s up to. I'm also thinking of totally reducing the calls, I hope this is fair and any suggestion