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I am an eighteen year old straight male. I haven't really had real reltationships with girls. I have had a couple girls in the last few years call me "cute", but to be honest they were all very unattractive. I look young for my age, but it's safe to say I am not ugly. So I'm wondering, is this really sad for a guy like me? I obviously interact with girls every day and don't have any troubles, just never had a neutral attraction for somebody and have them like me back. I haven't really done ANYTHING with a girl (french kiss, hug, sex, etc).

The more time that passes, the more crappy I feel about this. I know I could go out have sex with some desperate girl, but I don't want to look back on my first memories like that for my whole life. I'm afraid that I'm already going to be a terrible amateur when all the girls I meet in the future well have dated around. I dunno, maybe I'm just weird,

Has anyone been there lately? Are they still tough on Naija Students? I got denied 4 times in a row, I plan to be back soon.

Men, American Embassy 4 Naija, I just dont know. I am going for my 5th interview soon after 4 denials. Can anyone tell how they are now- I think students can walk-in under their revalidation program

Thanx to everyone who has contributed. I'll Go with God.

Can someone give me heads on or tit bits on what to do, if you've had past xperiences. I plan to go back for an f-1 visa interview soon. I went there for my first time in April. I got denied - they said "I didnt have my original WAEC and I was immigration risk". I went back in June, I got all they needed, but still denied, this time around they didnt give an explanation, X28,000 gone.Just like dat. I dont know what the problem is, I got admission, and scholarship though the remaining part was paid by a sponsor over there, I dont know if dats the problem. I didnt give up, My sponsors contacted a US congressman office to write on my behalf, but yet still in June, I got denied. I've been there in July, August, September (in Abuja), Still denied, in total they've consumed X500 from me. Thats fraud. I've got everything but I dont know whats their probs, On one of the interview I was told" you've been here the 3rd time now, why dont you stay back". On my last interview this time at the abuja embassy, they asked me some question, I responded and provided the proof they required, but after staring at the screen, she went inside to speak with a colleague and when she came out, "sorry I you do not qualify for a US visa".
Now, I've missed first sems, and the school has given me new papers for the second sems. I want to go back maybe in December. Someone please tell me what to do.