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biaka1994:
Please I just need your advice or advices which ever of them. I met my husband in 2013 things were going on well and sweet. We normally make love almost every minute of the day so much dat I got used to it. When we got married and I got pregnant my husband became so cold towards sex I thought maybe he was scared of my pregnancy. Some times i'll have to beg him to make love to me. After much begging he'll reluctantly do it. I gave birth and I thought things would change but it's all the same. I keep begging and begging I have just decided to be myself and take my mind of it. The only person I talk to is his cousin and have become so close to him that am beginning to lust after him he is married tho but he lives close to us. Just this evening I nearly kissed him and I felt so embarrassed. Please guys help me it's Getting out of hand. What do I do? Please no bashing we all are humans and we do silly things atimes.




Cc: Lalasticlala

ah detest it wen people are so obsessed with desires of the flesh

boboLIL:
Thank G0d fr yhur life.... Buh ah d0nt understand dis,,, uu had accident and started snappin pix t0 upl0ad 0n nairaland instead 0f gettin urcef treated? Na internet maDness 0h....be seri0us wid yhur life 0h

I swear

Airforce1:
Who killed the swagg?

badoo

swaggzo:
THE WORLD WOULD BE A BETTER PLACE FOR ALL OF US IF ALL THE LADIES EMBRACE SUCH MEASURES TO KEEP THEIR BODIES HEALTHY AND IN GOOD SHAPE

INSTEAD OF SHOWING OFF THEIR BUTT FULL OF EXCESS FAT AND THEIR UNTONED THIGHS. . AND THEIR CONCRETE FILLED POT BELLIES , ON THE INTERNET

u can yab sha

multicast:
I am a fervent reader on Nairaland and i dont miss this forum in 1 day, i have seen people share their concerns here and a lot of people have contributed through their comments, though some are hillarious while others are on point. i will appreciate matured responses.

I did not marry a stranger to start with and its why i am very pained cuz i come here on nairaland and see how people get frustrated about their marriage based on cogent reasons but mine is different.

first of all, I got married in february and am already very tired of my wife, not because she isnt very sexy or good in bed as other may experienced but because my wife starts arguments from little things as little as why did u miss my call, even if its a BBM call thats dependent of network, after hours of begging i have to end up with uncountable "am sorry".

secondly, my wife find it very easy to engage in malice for days without bothering to reconcile, and i have to talk to her over again and make her see reason why such act is not good in marriage, for which she will later apologize and the next day or same day she is back again in another episode.

thirdly, every man love to be respected, when my wife starts her drama about missed call or other flimsy excuses, she starts talking to me like am her junior brother, calling me names and after noticing how mad i am with her, she will apologize but always repeat such act.

i feel the amount of love and attention she gets from me is too much and i am beginning to think i should make her understand what it feels like to have a frustrated marriage. though am yet to do that.

i honestly am not perfect but i have never used any harsh word while addressing her even when she is obviously wrong, i dont do so because i know the feeling when she use them for me. i wish i could anyway.

i grew up in a place where women are highly regarded and well treated and maybe its affecting me because i also help her do chores and i dont push all the house work to her as most men do.

i noticed i am always very unhappy and depressed the moment she comes up with this episodes and it may be because i love her so much and this is beginning to affect how i study and i might be forced to push her away first by not giving her attention as i used to.

My fellow Nairalanders, i respect ur opinion, hillarious ones and reasonable ones, marriage is not a bed of roses, i love my wife and i am not cheating on her, i am 100% married to her alone but her attitude is frustrating and i might have to leave her in the end. i hope i get lucky and this make FP so i can learn from experienced members before i take a decision, as we speak she has began the malice episode with me and if i dont apologize to her in 3 days, she is ready to go that far too.

Be prayerful maybe she has a spiritual husband ....she doesn't actually knows when she does all that...

flymom flyson

lovelyronke20:
Maybe you have been wondering why your ex hasn't moved on since you guys broke up. Well here are 6 signs that will surely give you the answer your looking for.

Display of sadness- since you broke up, your ex has been updating sad statuses on face book and uploading sad picture quotes on their instagram. If he or she has been doing this, chances are, they are striving to show you how sad your break up left them.

Frequent calls- if your ex wants you back, they’ll call you more often than their regular friends. Not necessarily do they often call to say something special but only to listen to your voice and know how your day is ,or is going.

Memories of the good times- exes who are having a hard time moving on always talk about their emotions and keep reminding you of the good times you spent together with hopes that maybe the tides will change.

Maintained singlehood- since you two broke up, your ex has kept off from dating again. Chances are that they are still hurting or they are keeping themselves free in case you choose to come back to them.

Their friends tell you he/she still loves you- if an ex misses you, chances are that you are going to encounter one of their friends telling you how much your ex still loves you and would want to have you back in their life.

Drunk dialing- booze is a liquid courage and therefore your ex may call you occasionally to speak their mind and heart to you. This is a clear sign that they still have feelings for you.

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http://www.temisblog.com/2015/01/here-are-6-signs-your-ex-wants-you-back.html

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