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brosom:
Because is build on lies, sex and benefits.

One thing y'all should know is that majority of persons that goes in to a relationship have personal motive/interest if not all.

Only few have real love and understanding for u which is hard to come by.

There's no real love out there, we build the love ourselves to our standard
There's different btw affection (feeling's) and love. Emotional feeling's can be created easily when u like something special abt someone (talent or beauty)
Love can't be created easily cus it got to do with commitment and self desire frm both partner's
I Don't wanna go too deep into this lol

Lilsameey:
Everyone is just f*cked this days,from lust to insecurities to being toxic.... Different nonsense.

Our everyday life affect every~thing about our relationship, insecurities u say depend on the enviroment we build our foundation from .
NOTE: Wealthy background makes most relationship last

yuping:
Don't mean to derail or to be mean towards the ladies girls only cry and claim love when the man is wealthy, you will shock the lady might be lying.

I understand ur point , but this particular lady is of a wealthy background, so i don't think money is the problem here. And i can tell when a lady is in love like madly in love !

A young lady in her middle 20's came crying to me that her 3 yrs of marriage is collasping, crying so hard that i got to take a break and return when she had calm down a lil bit.
Then she started crying again and was explaining herself to me saying her husband does'nt pass a nyt in their martimonial hus anymore always finding a reason to bring up a fight wit her and ending beating her merciessly in front of their 2 yrs old child .
Not dropping money 4 feeding and the warfare of their child and many more i could'nt remember
Wat baffled me the most was when she begged me to hook her up wit any single dude out there that does'nt mind her relationship statue. i was mouth pouring like 4 real ! ?
She was even ready to pay any amount it will cost her to be hooked up wit any man i could link her up with .
Life just weak me today mehn

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram real matters. WTF MAN

Lol real matter's oo
Na BaBa JAH go save from different heart~break we dey face for this life mehn

MrBrownJay1:
to be happy in a r/ship, we 1st need to enter in it for the right reasons....sadly, today the majority are dating for flimsy reasons thus they have no issuess with bailing out of that same r/ship in a sec...also, with all the online dating apps available, the value of a r/ship has diminished greatly....just get Tinder, match a with a babe, meet this stranger and fukc, then repeat tomorrow. why bother to get stuck with someone?! the effort is not there any longer, so something you get easy, you dont really value. remember that when there is too many options, people will be quick say:"fukc it" and go for the grass that is greener on the other side.

last but not least, times have changed, people dont have the same desire for a r/ship as back in the days. people today wanna have FUUUUUUUN, and think about being serious with someone much later.

Yea true but not every one is down 4 playing game's anymore (speaking 4rm experience)

yuping:
Can't relate but I do feel your pain. But who do you this kind thing now ehn.

No body bro just pouring out my point of view
I'm a cousellor therapist mostly on relationship, i settle a 2 month's old relationship today but to my greatest suprise i came back home feeling so emotional and remorseful about the whole issue today.
I hate seeing young ladies crying over a guy who does'nt care about her emotional feeling's or warfare it really hurt tho.

Bennysam:
Check yourself very well

Asin ?

But like seriously
Why can't we just be happier in a relationship ?
What do we seriously need to do that can make a relationship have a happy ending, even if we need to separate must we end it in sorrow and hatred all the time ?
I do imagine all this question and most times i get over it but telling myself maybe she's not the right one 4 me but NO ! damn fucking no bro.
we most times don't find d right word's to decribe what really cuz breakup's in most relationship's we do create wit our partner's, we get older everyday by day, and yet we do jump into relationship to another relationship within some month's or yrs. but wat really causes it, is it lack of money,understand,not satisfying each other on sexual needs or any of the above wat jus it the damn fucking problem to our early breakup's ? is this how we gonna train ourselves for marriage becuz no relationship no fucking marriage !! u can't just jump into marriage conclusion without understanding if ur partner is really down 4 it . JAH BLESS 4 NOW.

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