nairavsdollars:
Empty threat

Been a while lady.
How are you doing?

shortgun:

What village do you all crawl out from for fuks sake. DJ's are not always used during celebrations, or for playing loud music
who will do the lighting? Who will provide generator?
Who will bring microphones and speakers for the gathering.
Better shut it you don't have any sensible contribution to this thread

The more senseless defense you make for your thoughtless plan, the more exposure you make of your insensitive mind.

Where is pantami who forced Nigerians to queue up during the corona virus pandemic and register for NIN in under the stop insecurity?

Worm wey dey chop kola dey inside kola.

And people wey never kick ball before dey open mouth waaaa talk say Messi no suppose win am.

KANTE - Davido ft. Fave

When will Lai Mohammed tell Tinubu to clarify his indictment and cash forfeiture in the US for his involvement in drug trafficking?

oka4ugoo:
In another news...

I will hit the ground running don leave us run go abroad

Na you no understand bala blu well. The guy don hit the ground running to the abroad 😆😆😆

uchwar1:
Married when and where?

As per say dem need your permission abi?

Dreal1247:
Do we believe them?

E be like say them wan tell us another story againi o.

-Tuface

Are you trying to say the town hall meeting was different from bala blu, blu blu, bulaba?

Anyways, it would have been close to convincing if you had the balls to post a video instead of this hogwash PR.

Somebody should go and paste this news at the entrance of Aso Rock please.

What APC and people like you are doing to Nigeria at home is worse.

[I have come to understand that most times 'necessity' is a matter of selfishness.

Not tha I don't get your point or seek to dispute it, only that I now realize that the currency of life is a many sided coin.

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Is it rational?? Nope but it freaking necessary.[/quote]

All the exceptional ingenuity and humongous expenditure that went into this development is for the purpose of killing fellow human beings while whole populations of our planet go without potable water and the most basic of amenities.

I am wont to think, a lot of times, that the mind of man is the greatest enemy of mankind.

I just heard a man who exposed his stupidity while attempting to demonstrate his wisdom.

And I refrain from giving a thought to those that applaud him. They are proof that Nigeria is more sick than it appears.

Reno who claims to be a buhari tormentor by organizing rallies against him abroad should come back home now and organize rallies for his candidate (or is it candidate? ) and stop disturbing us. We have made up our minds for Peter Obi.

I agree with you that it is stupid of the man to share the woman's message him online.
The incident is not even worth a social media post in the first place. But I must say that your view of men seems to be suddenly shifting to extreme. I've followed you here for a while and I didn't know you to sound this way.
Peace.

MadamVanessa:



Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know? probably he's among men that do say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across.

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.

So where is the throne?

Malory:
Nice decision. Too many people speaking their minds and attributing it to Obi. Now we know who is responsible for any statement about Obi even though others can speak at times.

I would have preferred Dele Momodu.

God1000:
It serves him right, he committed a lot of infractions while in office.

His illegality and unconstitutional behaviour cannot be overlooked

nlfpmod

So 'His illegality and unconstitutional behavior' justifies the illegality and unconstitutional behavior of the FBI? Okay o, but thought it is sad that two wrongs don't make a right

Beat a pregnant woman because she didn't do house chores and make arrangement for your dinner? Now prison will serve you the taste of life that men like you deserve.

With the way the NYSC office looks does the advertiser really deserve much blame?

That is just how Nigeria is happening to the people of Gombe.

This makes a lot of sense.

So I took a guess that Grace Ihotu is your name and went to search it out on Facebook book. It so happens that you have a number of namesakes.

If and when you can, I'd like us to talk please.
I am Jefferson Ovie

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

I have come to realize that what is reported about an incident or the way it is reported is usually way different from what actually happened. And curiously it is the report that the public feast on and fight over.

In this case, an unverified altercation is already said to include a HOT and DIRTY slap.

Abeg ehn, make we face road leave bird wey dey sky.

The major problem in this situation is that YOU are the one trying to make him stop this addiction because YOU see it as bad for him.

If HE was the one who sees it as bad the He will be making every effort to stop it and your role will be to help him.

You think he wants to stop it but he really doesn't. He only understands that giving you the impression that he wants to stop will make you not leave him. He knows that you are bound by the maternal burden to save a soul and will be guilt ridden if you leave him now.

Additionally, men don't generally end up with women who were their "therapists" or "guardians". Iam a man and I tell you this mostly from experience.

I do not say it would necessarily be so in your case neither do I say you should leave him; I just present you with the facts so you can make a rational decision.

He claims that Jesus Christ is a messenger of God?

So where is God that sent Jesus Christ and from where did He send him?

Over wisdom na foolishness o.

You write well and your story made a very interesting read.

I think you are too rational to take the kind of heartlessly drastic measure that ending this kind of entanglement requires.

But end it will, I believe; from her own side.
At the point of saturation she will notice your dilemma and because she is not the type to play the second fiddle, she will ease you out, in her own way, at her own pace.

You want to be very careful of the possibilityof a blackmail though. Her kind are either totally benevolent or absolutely otherwise. And there isnoway of knowing before they begin acting.

Good luck

SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

The sayings of King Lemuel his mother taught him:

"O my son, O son of my womb, O son of my vows,

do not spend your strength on women, your vigor on those who ruin kings.

Baawaa:

Something leads to something

NOTHING should lead to rape.

There is nobody righteous enough to guarantee their own salvation.

Rather He made Him who knew no sin to become sin that we might become the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus.

Our righteousness is imputed.

As a teenager I knew a set of twins who were already in their 30s and still single at the time.
They vowed to remain unmarried for life if they didn't find a man who would marry both of them.
Some situations are only understood by those involved.