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michelin89:
Sorry I hate being passive. I also like challenges.  Now that I am young and have so much energy, why should I waste it? 

If a see a fyne guy worth my time, I'll sure make my way! 

even wen d fine guy is inlove and engaged to someone else 

origina9ja:
@ jekad
omo na angryness

sweetie no be angryness jare,no mind me   no vex na just d poster wey post d girl pics e no good naaa,no be him d babe curse so y is he acting like a child?

michelin89:
If i senior you then you be real spoilt child! Cheiiiiiiii! *holds body Nollywood style when person die*

spoilt child all because i challenged ur toasting men on dis forum   y not cool down and let them do d toasting  

origina9ja:
abeg now
no try act say your papa na pastor
waitin sweet about person way call another person monkey
atleast u go see your self well well 4 mirro before u start on another person

listen do i know u,i tot this was all a joke until d poster took it serious,i did not direct my post to u or your family,so let my papa be

if d babe call person monkey no be d poster she call monkey ,make d person wey she call monkey open thread for her

michelin u fit call me old woman,cos im married but no forget say u fit senior me

seriously nubian u r right,afterall d babe did not insult d poster ,y should he just paste her pics like dis

michelin89:
You seek and hide is over. Jenny, u nor fit hide! 

Tope thank you for telling me who she is. 

David is amore mio muyen muyen. You are powerless! 

im a diff jenny see ya head  david is meine liebe dass ich so viel liebe,d earlier u back out d berra for u

davidylan:
its better than being abused for a change. 

no be the same jekad wey yab me yesterday be this? abeg i come in peace today o.

Michelin tyre . . . i'm all for you. 

may morenike hear this,and u berra tell that michelintyre d truth about us

come toocute seh ur talent for dis forum na to bring up old threads abi

michelin89:
Tell me tell me! Who you be? I am sure u are one of those sugar mummies who won't stay off my David- I swear I go cut ya breast comot when I see ya! 

see your head boys snatcher like u,u berra leave david or did u not hear that we r getting married,fiance and husband snatcher like u

_{babe how far i don miss u}

tope2000:
lol, u see the girl 2 get big mouth, see wetin she talk

sabi u go look @ yaself before u curse other people na

yes i read it,but dat one no mean say 9jaboi go dey yab d sweet babe na her lycra top,deeper-life hair,mgbeke glasses and okirika skirt naim dey make me laff for hiaaaa

michelin89:
David, u always said u never mind a lady opening her heart to you but once I did, u disappeared. Not even a call. To make matters worse, I keep hearring of your numerous affairs even with married Nairaland members. Awwwwww! Am I so ugly? 

mcihelin sharaaaaaaaaaaaaappppppppppppppp diaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa u boys snatcher

na waooo u pple should leave d babe alone,haba,how person go just go smone profile come dey use her pics dey do yeye for here,haba

i don't see any sin in it,its good sometimes to play hard to get

onyinye2:
alright i see what you are saying. i guess i should rephrase and had said "most" instead of "all"

now u r talking sweetie

onyinye2:
oka let me put it this way. lets say you are starting a new relationship with a guy oka. and you just so happen to be HIV positive. oka that kind of secret needs to be told from the start. not tucked underneath the rug. but some secrets that have no business being brought up to the surface need to stay done in gutter. those kind of secrets just need to stay with you personally.

onyinye u r still contradicting urself,if so y did u not say that most secrets should be told and not all,u specifically said dat u'll tell ur guy EVERYTHING


anyways lets forget it

it depends on where and how u posted it

onyinye2:
yeah i don't hide things that potentially will be found out. things that truly are important to the relationship. but there exceptions to some secrets. some need to stay in your closet, locked up. where no one can find them.

sweetie u r still contradicting urself

onyinye2:
im not the kind who tells a guy "EVERYTHING" but that is for security reasons. you don't have to tell him everything. he has to know a relationship is give and take. you can't keep giving him info and allowing him to take it. just tell him the surface of your secrets and leave the core ALONE!!!

onyinye but in d other thread u said you're not d type that  hides things from your boyfriend and u will tell him everything,this was your post

onyinye2:
personally im not the kind who would keep secrets from the guy im with. from the start, if i have something tell him, then i will tell him right then and there. if he excepts it cool, i guess the relationship can go forward. but he has a problem, see you later. because if you can't except me for who i am then, you don't need to be in my life. but i really don't that bad of secrets.

i must say dat the subject of dis thread is quite diff from the story

girlsoswit:
Then y do guys prefer to be on the hearing side when it comes to secret and leave d girl to do the talking? Why do they always expect you to say everything and then keep theirs to themselves. Isn't that true or can sme1 prove me wrong? For instance, a guy would ask if u ar a virgin and yet would't tell u if he is or not. If he finds out you're nt he feels bad yet he has had it to d brim wth oda girls before u bt would't say anything n rather says u are a cheap commodity an a dog,  dnt understand y guys are smehw difficult.

dont mind them,they think say na only them get sense

Nigeria boi:
@topic
You guys shld stop dissing d poor man, He is jst nt photogenic,
bt truly sha d gai is nt fine, bt i no say en ugly o.

NO WORRY IF D GUY CHOP SMALL MONEY, You GO SEE SAY EN GO FINE PASS DIS!

money no fit change wowo,if u think im lying asK OBJ

sistawoman:
And this is why you should never ask your partner a question unless you are prepared to hear something you don't like.  I don't beleive in lieing to my husband but i don't believe everything I have done in my past needs to be reviled to him.  I believe that there are certain things that can effect us as a couple that need to be told but not everything.

Does he really need to know how many times today i went to the bathroom or how i picked my bush this am?  No but does he need to know that i took $200.00 out the joint account or a bill is due yes.  You have to pick and choose your battles and yes there will be secerts but not ones that will harm the relationship and no lies if he asks I will tell the truth and he should never hold that against me because he asked.

that is my point exactly,y should i tell him everything

tope2000:
i actually think its the other way around. i think she got married quickly because she was pregnant

my point naaaaa,she married because she was pregnant,im not sure she would have married d guy if she wasnt pregnant

tope2000:
u know the girl is pregnant so maybe her hormones all over the place na

y did she even take in before marriage?

beauteous:
jekad,nor go work u hear?come begin dey answer ques 4 nland.love doctor .abeg i mizz u jo

sweetheart no mind me jare,i dey shift today,i don work for morning

smooooooth:
i meant both parties shld let their secrets out, not just ladies,how wil he find out? the world is a small global village,  remenber? and they say nothing is hidden under the sun, and lies can travel for a 100years but truth will catch up with it in a day.
and if people took their secrets to the grave,,,,then how did any one know they had a secret?

back to square 1,i said have u not heard dat pple go to their graves wt their secrets unknown?


tell a man my secret and let him use it against me ,wat is in d past should be left in d past,cos wen d wound of d past is opened it might affect the present,dat is why it is called past

tope2000:
C'mon u guys are newlywed, u are suppose to be enjoying each other. whatever happen btn you to should be settled btn you to. it is 2 early to having third party in your marriage.

dat is why marriage should be between two matured minds

na waooooo if person marry na wahala,if person no marry another wahala cos dat foolish ololomu go dey curse like mumu

smooooooth:
he will find out one day, and that can be the end of the relationship,no matter what it is just let hi know you so when he loves u, u can be rest assured that u are loved for who u are.  besides there's suppose to be transparency in a true relationship

wrong ,d relationship can also end when i know his own secrets

u guys should give us a break abeg,u want us to tell u our secrets like we r some senseless creature?


how will he know?or have u not heard that people even go to grave wt their secrets unknown?

if hes a doctor he should learn how to save,except hes no longer working