I have a friend that has a beautiful girlfriend but the guy isn't really all that in looks department. i have noticed that whenever anyone tells the girl she look beautiful or if guys looks or admire her while she is with my friend he makes him feel uneasy, its like he doesn't want people to tell his girlfriend that she is beautiful, even though he hardly say it to her. I have told my friend several times that he will loose the girl if he isn't careful, The girl is def the best look girl he has ever dated and most importantly most well mannered and also a good girl. She doesn't play him around, even if we go her house unannounced she is always at home.She is a very decent girl and my friend knows this to but i really don't know whats wrong with the guy, cuz whenever someone tells her GF she is beautiful and he also comes up with some random stories about how some girls think he looks cute and how all her EX GF can never let go of him.

wtz ur point

Is he insecure or does he have low self esteem? As a guy i wouldnt want to be with a girl another guy doesnt want or admire!!!

ever_green:

Is he insecure or does he have low self esteem?

And still the qestion is??

eldee:

And still the qestion is??

sum guys are just born stupid, they never realise wat they have until they lose it.

thats called inferiority complex and its a very big problem with most people but they dont know

shylladear:

thats called inferiority complex and its a very big problem with most people but they don't know

You get it.

shylladear:

thats called inferiority complex and its a very big problem with most people but they don't know

i co-sign am 2

My ex had the guts to tell me his friends considered him to be too much for me! Oh gosh! I am yet to see those girls who were tripping for him!

Useless guy, he even had the gut to say that. i hope you have kicked his balls before u dumped his arrogant ass

tope2000:

Useless guy, he even had the gut to say that. i hope you have kicked his balls before u dumped his arrogant ass

Nor mind the boy oo. Well me i nor need to kick his balls. My new boo is extra cool. When he see am he go know who too much for who.

@poster

I agree he will loose her if he is not careful.  Nothing makes a woman feel better than to hear her man tell her she is beautiful and nothing pisses a woman off more than to feel like he has to one up her.  I used to date a guy who was like that, no matter what the story or what was going on he had a one up me story.  I did not want to compete with him but he wanted to with me.  Some people just need all the spot light on them.  I am sure he does this to everyone not just her but he will loose her because he is prob. lying and that shit will make a woman run as fast as her feet can carry her.

sistawoman:

@poster

I agree he will loose her if he is not careful. Nothing makes a woman feel better than to hear her man tell her she is beautiful and nothing pisses a woman off more than to feel like he has to one up her. I used to date a guy who was like that, no matter what the story or what was going on he had a one up me story. I did not want to compete with him but he wanted to with me. Some people just need all the spot light on them. I am sure he does this to everyone not just her but he will loose her because he is prob. lying and that shit will make a woman run as fast as her feet can carry her.

We nor need to investigate before we know he is lying. That kind boy is just compensating his woworness with invented stories!

@topic

tell you friend to man up. oka so if he does have low esteem, who cares. he should build a bridge and get over it because we all have our insecureities but we dont let them rule our lives. if he keeps acting like a pre-pubescent teen then, he will lose the one thing good in his life.

abi oo

i must say dat the subject of dis thread is quite diff from the story

jekad:

i must say that the subject of this thread is quite diff from the story

U never retire?

tope2000:

abi oo

y r u always in d romance section?

@ topic

u dont need to advice him, he will only tink u r jealous.
He will naturally loose her and have a sober reflection, that way he will bcom a better person

noetic:

y r u always in d romance section?

@ topic

u don't need to advice him, he will only think you're jealous.
He will naturally loose her and have a sober reflection, that way he will bcom a better person

Unfortunately these type of guys never learn. they just keep over exaggerating everything in their lives and never are honest with themselves or others. He will just keep loosing g/f and male friends and have to keep replacing them.

sistawoman:

Unfortunately these type of guys never learn. they just keep over exaggerating everything in their lives and never are honest with themselves or others. He will just keep loosing g/f and male friends and have to keep replacing them.

in order words he will live his life in a circle.

it is better to just watch him than get involved.

he is just been a coward ,a sucker and he will definately be a loser