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RedHotChic:
That falls in the category of risk involved in marriages. We cannot stop marrying men and  resort to marrying each other or  male monkeys  because most men are liars and pretenders,  should we?

and dat is why its beta we dont  stress ourselves to know things like who loves more and stuffs like dat,as long as both parties love each other ,then they should take it like dat

RedHotChic:
Love is like mathematical induction, you always find a probable cause to arrive at a conclusion which may not necessarily be beyond reasonable doubt.
That being said, by his fruits, i shall know him.

have u forgotten that some guys are good pretenders(so also them babes) and what u think about them might not be true?especially if they want sthg,they can do anything to deceive and confuse you to proove dat they really love u,while its all lies


no matter what we can never know how much our partners love us or know who loves more,its sthg we can never know

RedHotChic:
Well, one way or the other we must trust somebody someday whether we like it or not. Love makes the world go round and not money, that being said, the magnitude of love I have for him will be the yardstick for forgiveness and the lower the love goes, t[b]he more likely he'll find himself living  under the bridge one winter night.
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but it all depends on if u r d bread winner,cos if u r not,the reverse will be d case

RedHotChic:
Do i need to develop a test statistic so we can estimate love here? Common, we have intuition for a reason and yes, love can be estimated by the 2nd party.

yeah right,u seem to have forgotten dat some estimations might be wrong

anyways wat will a partner have to do for d other to know how much he/she loves him/her so much?

RedHotChic:
You think so? I want me a man I love more than he loves me so i can tolerate his male bullshit during my mood swings and hormonal changes.

then pray d man is understanding,cos some men might take ur love for granted

RedHotChic:
Good logic but inasmuch as we can't quantify love, we can [b]estimate [/b]it.

Estimate it how?

RedHotChic:
What about trying guys that loves you more? If a man has shaky love for you from the get go, there is a high probability that the shaky love will reduce to zero during the marriage but a woman has a higher chance of increasing her love when the man's game is tight and of course tighter in my own case.

because every girl wants guys that love them more,but like i said sometimes there is a turn in event and d love will be more on d girls side


so to cut d long story short,as long as u guys both love each other well,then its ok,u canever measure and know someones love for u,it cannot be done

sistawoman:
I think it is impossible to know how much a person loves you only the amount of love that you have for someone.  The reason i beleive it is impossible to measure this love in others is because men and women are from two different plants, men are from mars women are from venus, and we speak two different languages.  So testing someone can never really prove how much they love you and because you would react or do a certain thing and they don't do the same does not mean that they don't love you like you love them just that they react differently from you.

this really has a tough side,because u might marry a guy that loves u more but during the whole thing u might find out that d love has increased in your side

~Pandora~:
Contestant No 2 

lmao

annboga:
Why are u so concened about wht is totally none of your

bisness. You shuld try n face your own personal posts

some other time.love u sweetie, 

you are very lousy and childish no doubt,tell me did i insult u in my post,where r u manners girl?

michelin89:
Na naija men we dey talk ooo. Even if a girl accepts to date them immediately and doesn't give sex, they won't still call her cheap. Haba ooo! What happened to love at first sight? As for me, if I like you I like you. If you wan play boy then Bleep off or else we can have a nice romance! 

bad girl,see ya mouth like romance  u go die untop romancing one day

who tell u say they wont call her cheap?if na white men no probs them go respect u,but all this naija toutish men will surely call u cheap when they are in d beer parlour wt their friends chilling wt a bottle of beer

michelin89:
1. I was friendly to him: Uhm! Then I am cheap. 
2. I gave him my number. Uhm! I am cheap! 
3. I had a date with him. Never been on a date with a guy who wasn't a friend. Ohhh! It seems I am just 66% cheap. 

when i used d word cheap,my mind was very far from sex,wats my business if a girl makes love to a guy on their first date,u just carry sex from nowhere come put am for where e no suppose dey

naw if a girl says yes to a guy immediately he asks her to be his lover,some of them guys will call her cheap,cheap not as in shagging but cheap for being too easy to get

i was really surprised when i saw your reply about sex ,so teeeee i look d thread to know if u make mistake post am for d wrong place,na when i come read well i know say u know where u post am

michelin89:
See what I mean? You are all obsessed with sex because you think that's the only thing you can eventually offer a guy so if he doesn't suffer to get he won't cherish and value it. Bullshits! A real lady with a good head on her shoulder and the right attitude knows better than to let a man define what she is worth. You are not giving sex to let him know he has won you but because you as well have decided to move your relationship to the next level.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed and not to be seen as a trophy. There is more to you than you body!

what is exciting u?who is talking about sex?did i use d word cheap just to classify sex ? can't a guy still call a girl cheap even wtout them having sex?
does d word cheap always have to go wt sex?haba

and d poor girl no even curse d person monkey,she say d person no bad like monkey she no say d person na monkey,i tire for pple sef

ennyluv_6:
@ poster
u are not bad like Monkey
u're doing ok

smooooooth:
na u ask why Nigeria boy is taking panadol on another man's wahala, but u seem to have swallowed more than a pill in this enny headache o, abi, are u and enny one and the same person, na wa Nairaland and dual-personality,everyone got their own back.

Mr man i did not insult u,so don't face me atalllllllllllllll ,just respect yourself and go elsewhere,y i even started challenging naija boy was when i found out that hes using too ids to glorify himself,so if u say me and enny are d same persons fine ,im not arguing wt u,afterall d peeps on nairaland know me so well,so your observations can't hold a drop of water

by the way u might also be d same as 9jaboi ,everything is possible

smooooooth:
have u been or seen any beauty contest before, the judges are past beauty queens or people in the beauty business, why? because u can't rate what u don't have.

how enny go dey rate, what she know about beauty.

y wouldnt she rate?dis is a forum where pples opinion are required if asked,and i repeat if asked,no matter d beauty of d person


maturity goes a long way in ones life,and i can see dat some nld guys lack it,so many kids here,


im outta here

michelin89:
Sweetheart the guy might eventually lose interest but still continue with his chasing just to satisfy his ego! Besides only women who have nothing except their body to offer play such stupid games. They want to increase their value!  Fools!

dats y too much of everything is bad,it should be done but not to the extreme

atleast d guy wouldnt have to call d babe cheap after d little battle u know

smoooooooooooooth forget that thing abeg,lread what u just typed,d girl enny insulted said we should rate her,and enny rated her in d monkey category,naw enny did not ask 9jaboi to post her pics for rating



comon there r other matured ways to handle things

fulldepth and 9jaboi r d same persons,we know ur scope no be today,we are all nigerians so we understand all dis deceits well

smooooooth:
mama 16 , abi na 26 or 78,how u dey? hey if Nigeria boy crime na because of that pics wey him post, dnt blame him that babe f**ked up, she was insulting a much finer girl than her herself in one thread like that.

sweetheart i read it too ,where d babe call person monkey,but she no curse 9jaboi so wetin be him prob,other pple wey read no open thread na him go drink alabukun for person headache

nubian and mesmerize

i k now 9jaboi well and him childish scopes ,there was one id he was using before ,but i guess seun banned d other one and left 9jaboi because e never come online since,naw d way hes replying wt full depth and Nigeria boi was d same way he replied wt  those id's ,naim they r d same persons ,and yes na me talk am

how r we even sure dat 9jaboi and fulldepth aint d same persons ,abeg forget mata we sabi all dis kain thing

full depth:
@NubianQ
if there one thing im sure of, Nigeria boy na fine boy, im a living witness, i've seen his pics.
You start by placing urs first.
prove to him that all uv been saying has true meaning and that he truly is a jerk.
prove to us now,
place your pics now, so all this would end.

u alone have seen d pics but we have not,so let him post it and lets confirm wat u just said

yes ooo mr poster remove d girls pics from there,how come u aint alking naw sef,cos u see say some pple get bad  mouth pass u abi,smallie


@nubian

babe chill abeg,leave d slowpoke,make him grow up small

origina9ja:
@jekad
i understand u bt if person call me monkey
u no go help me
we dey fight 4 da pooor girl now
lol its kind of stupid bt that is what nairaland do init

help u ke,i go allow make them beat u well well   but seriously d babe no curse 9jaboi naaaaa,she no call am monkey,y him dey drink panadol for another person headache

NubianQ:
yes i agree. don't mind the silly poster. i have no respect for him and i am going to show him unless he apologizes for acting like a 2 year old! i can't believe he is a man. calling him a boy is a description for him. if only we could slap people online i wouldve slapped him hard enough for him to lose his hearing.

the poster is a horrible person and a retard!!!

seriously i agree wt u,if it was d person d girl called a monkey that opened this thread then i wouldnt have complained,but for another person wey story no concern to dey do all this things,e no good naaaa,i tot it was all a joke at first but naw i think its just plain stupidity