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I have fear of God in me, I pray and I believe in God but they so many things am passing through that it becoming unbearable and tempting.

for example I have been praying and looking for room and work up and down but no help and the only people who truly wanted to help either demand love or sex from me, I am helpless and tired am just in a condition that can make someone do anything to get problem solved.

my question is will God still write it a sin for me if I have sex to get money?

please don't get me wrong am just asking.

name of comedy please?

FanOfMyself:
But you have been broke shaming nairaland men upandan. Your fellow ladies won't help you now.
I hope you have learnt something from your experience.
Some men that you ladies insult here can really change your lives for good!!

I am not rude by nature but the condition am passing through can make someone lose temper at any slight mistake

but I apologise to anyone I might have hurt
it not my doing am just under pressure now

BabbanBura:
Send me a PM let's talk pls. Merry Christmas

ok

BabbanBura:
Since no one will tell u the truth, I will.
You need to search deep about your attitude and behaviours, right your wrongs, people will be willing to help u. Stop blaming people for what u created yourself. This generation of kids and youths have some deep sense of entitlement that your brother's or sister's things are yours and so they must give u irrespective of your attitude. Believe me, apart from your parents, no one owed u anything in this world. Be at your best behaviours and see how does will open yo you.

I have siblings acting like u just because I refused to help them because they are exhibiting terrible attitudes, including being so stubborn and disrespectful and at thesame time want me to keep sponsoring their rebeous lives, no way. One even refused to answer my calls 2 days ago.

Attitude is everything. This applies to many people I see on nairalabd seeking help. I have tried to help about 5 ladies here and I discovered they have same attitude.

The way up is the way down. In other words, u need to stoop low to counter. I mean u have to humble yasef and respect your seniors even if you differ with them. Even Bible talk am say "Humble yourself and you will be uplifted".

ok thank you may God lift am inspire your life the way you are to me

BabbanBura:
Since no one will tell u the truth, I will.
You need to search deep about your attitude and behaviours, right your wrongs, people will be willing to help u. Stop blaming people for what u created yourself. This generation of kids and youths have some deep sense of entitlement that your brother's or sister's things are yours and so they must give u irrespective of your attitude. Believe me, apart from your parents, no one owed u anything in this world. Be at your best behaviours and see how does will open yo you.

I have siblings acting like u just because I refused to help them because they are exhibiting terrible attitudes, including being so stubborn and disrespectful and at thesame time want me to keep sponsoring their rebeous lives, no way. One even refused to answer my calls 2 days ago.

Attitude is everything. This applies to many people I see on nairalabd seeking help. I have tried to help about 5 ladies here and I discovered they have same attitude.

The way up is the way down. In other words, u need to stoop low to counter. I mean u have to humble yasef and respect your seniors even if you differ with them. Even Bible talk am say "Humble yourself and you will be uplifted".

my life is simple no one will be in pressure and be cool especially someone judging you . but I will stick to your advice merry Xmas

hgnbello:
Thats D Truth.

thank you. I know someone will relate to my story everything is against me

BusinessCity:
If you are willing to be mentored. I will mentor you and after 12 months you will have 1 Million Naira


If you are willing and open hearted.

it will be my pleasure

Newman20:
Nihilism is a dangerous trait ma'am

I know sir

I was led to have that believe

in time of need you get to discover people for who they really are.

everyone doubt you.

everyone judge for no reason.

some even judge ignorantly.

reality becomes real, you become your own your problem is yours.

people become fake.

GOD save me please
story of my life

Whitecoal711:
Girl this na festive season,people full village now, go there select your own husband and sponsor, Naija no dey smile this period

I beg your pardon please don't let me be rude to you

Go5DY:
you be real man, I feel your swag Bross I no lie at all, I love to be like you.
God bless you

he did nothing

Molahnelson:
Verify yourself then I will help you immediately

you can't help me if you do you would have seen I have done every possible verification the only people doubting me are guys who wants me to come over to their house to use me

egopersonified:
So the only option you came up with is to stay with men you don't know. Of all the one million options, that is your first line of action. Whatever the story is, your sister is not wicked, you are the problem here.

you see all you people can do is quick conclusions. I am scared to stay with guys saying they want to help that I should come over and that is why they us scam as excuse.

MikeMicheal:
I would have helped, but if your blood could refuse to help you, then as a stranger helping you is a bad idea.

I get it if my sister could do that I don't blame anyone calling me scammer because no one care

bigjackass:
Many people have offered you their place to stay. You didn't try to follow up with them which makes you look like a scammer. Somebody asked how to contact you but you didn't respond. If you know it is money you want just explain the real situation instead of using homelessness as front

I hate quick conclusions but do you reason before you judge ? am just coming online though please if you can't help me don't judge me

Samakus:
Nobody is giving you one naira from here. Find new format, BOY!

I wonder the kind of people we live with these days

mikeywise:
Where in Abuja are you?

am in jahi currently what next ? see I hate calling me a scammer never you jump in to conclusions for no reason with me again o

mikeywise:
Where in Abuja are you?

why asking as if you care ? where you not the same person calling me a scammer?

mikeywise:
Am I? Anyway I stay in Abuja and I think a male is behind that handle. Can't y'all see that the op is a scam?

what is wrong with you ? says who ? how did you confirm that ?

devlishGINGER:
how come you are the only person confirming location in Abuja.
The same with that other Wazobia thread

I don't understand what is going on here

Collegelove:
OK. Are u a graduate?

am still in schooling

Collegelove:
Which state are you right now?

Abuja

this is the most embarrassing time in my entire life I feel bad and shy exposing my conditions to everyone like this but I think it's better than suicide

RisenPhoenix1:
Go back to your parents' home. All this drama is what is going to lead to where you will not like.

the only option I have is going back to the village and if I do my dream will just die down it will be no more school.

DukeJoe17:
What?

I am moving from place to place now she's just wicked but God will find a way for me she will be surprised

I followed the instructions and advise of most people on Nairaland to go back and apologize to my sister to let me stay but she gladly refused. I don't know what to do anymore I don't want to fall into trap all in the name of finding where to stay I think it will be better to get my own room and start working to take care of myself since school is closed yet. I really need financial assistance to get a room. it will be very odd to stay in a man I don't know about house. especially I may get treated like a trash.
I really believe genuine people are among people willing to help but likewise some try to take opportunity on me. save me from self destruction, save me from falling into danger.

JONSYN7154:
can you stay in gishiri? at least its close to jahi

yes

JONSYN7154:
which part of abuja are you?

jahi

Trustme2:
I can share mine with you. You mind?

yes I will appreciate

Trustme2:
I can share mine with you. You mind?

yes I will appreciate

SGANIVA:
which state are you?abi na money you want

Abuja I will appreciate your efforts in anyway