Kapilta:
Trust me Jemiwizzy, help ain't coming soon. You are desperate and they can see it, they'll surely use it against you. Keep begging for funds instead of hoping someone will accomodate you, they will turn you to a s3x slave. Just relax your mind, think of better things, your sister cannot kill you. Life will sort itself. Where are you from though?

thank you if I ask for money they will say it's a scam that is why I want to make sure I meet them in person if not am very scared of staying with guys like you stated up they know am desperately in need of a room so they will use that a a weapon against me.
I just regret exposing my condition since that day I felt worthless and I completely feel no one care about me.

Kapilta:
Time heals everything.

I pray so

FanOfMyself:

Ok but I don't think there's any need for that. I can always find you out if she's fine with it.
Nairaland is full of wonderful people, but we do pretend to be savages because people will always take advantage of a good soul

you are right I read about a boy asking for help that he wants to die and a particular guy comment that nobody should help that that boy is a scammer unfortunately that guy is fond of calling everyone a scam so he was exposed funny enough all his post has history of calling everyone a scammer. so it thought me to always follow my mind when judging people not by them say them say. so don't mind what people say some of them are just jump into conclusions

FanOfMyself:

Please she's my kid sister and I wouldn't want to make her do something she would regret after all. I will tell her all your answers to the questions and I will let her decide

ok it ok I thank you for taking my problem seriously to the point that you seek help for me even offline.
I am very happy to know someone care.
can I follow you on Nairaland?

FanOfMyself:

Yup, my sister and she's single. Gwarimpa, told her about your predicament and she asked me to find out these specific details about you

how can I see her please? religion don't have to break humanity as far as we have the fear of God

FanOfMyself:

Oh ok. Don't know if she could accommodate you because she's a devoted christain

oh ! is she in Abuja?

FanOfMyself:
Are you a christain or muslim woman?

Muslim

FanOfMyself:

pls answer me first. I know you are from the north, but I need to confirm if you are Fulani or not

am not

I live a very sorrowful life.

it keeps me loney.

it's hard to understand why ?

some have food but they cannot eat.

some have money but are not happy.

some have leg but have no shoes.

some have house but have no family.

but here we are from one place to another.

who did we offend?

are we even supposed to be born ?

but it is a shame for me to have big families here but lack few help.

#jemi

FanOfMyself:
Curiosity

is it cause I don't have place to stay?

FanOfMyself:
Are you Fulani?

why did you ask?

mrdharkchild:
How do we know that u ain't fake?
Upload a pics, or do a zoom call with @least 6 verified members of this forum...

U seem to me to b d ambitious and insultive type.

Theres a saying: It's not every dying dog u feed out of pity, do not feed d dog that'll grow fat and later eat u.

You've got this compelling pride.
May God help u find a helper.
You must find 1 in Jesus name. Amen

just tell any of your friend in Abuja let's me

FanOfMyself:
Hey, have you gotten a place to stay already?

yes I went to stay with me friend in Maraba for few days

Lordswazz:


Lie give who no get sense you hear? You were sounding completely disoriented, now now you don begin dey post advice. Na you Sabi.

I bet you are a kid

Lordswazz:
Are you not the lady that has been ranting for the past few days that your sister threw you out and you had no place to go?

Now now, na "8 advice for those who want to marry" naim you don dey write so. The way some jobless kids dey use old people for this forum catch cruise ehmmm!

The funny thing is that, people were genuinely worked up and were trying to proffer solutions to a made-up story. Chaiii!

grow up are you a clown? just because am in a difficult situation I can't post about advice ?

Uyi168:
.
Your wahala plenty nor be small..

have you solved any or tried to Bros ?

Bouz:
I feel you are trying to manipulate innocent citizens of thier hard earned money, money to flex this december, this is a cheap scam.

another one ! we know your type just judge yourself anyhow not me. lemme ask you where did you start your conclusion from ?
typical

Bola146:
I love these

nice ma

Darlingme:
It's a bad habit for a lady to make herself vulnerable and always seek for help from men.
Keep updating, work on yourself. Don't always live yourself at a point where it's only men that can help you.

This is the same advice I always give to myself.

that's a nice piece of advice. am learning

1) Marry someone you love with your whole heart.
Someone who excites you emotionally, intellectually
and sexually. Someone who "gets" you and isn't out
to change you. Nothing good will ever come of not
being true to yourself.


2) Marry your best friend. Find a woman you want to
share things with -- from the smallest detail of your
day to the biggest plans for your life. Marry a woman
you want to be with at the end of each day and until
the end of your days.



3) Never get married because you think it's time; get married because you've found the right person -- no
matter how much time that takes.




4) Find a woman who shares your dreams, but also
has dreams of her own. Respect and support her
dreams in earnest. Be prepared to make
compromises, but don't let your dreams get lost in the
process.




5) Does she think you're funny? Does she make you
laugh? Life can be chaotic -- and relationships can
be trying -- but a little humor can go a long way in a
long life.




6) Marry a woman with a beautiful soul. A woman
who isn't afraid to show love or be loved. An
independent woman who will accompany you on
life's journey in equal parts as your wingman and
guide.



7) Find the woman who encourages you to be your best self. When you do, be good to her. Express your
gratitude and love daily to this woman who is giving
you the precious gift of sharing her life with you.



8 Strive every day to be a husband and father you
can
be proud of being. Remember, your children will be watching.

Depressed101:
honey sometimes we can't, because life has thought us otherwise really... Pray you find help tho

ameen I pray so

J111333:
Some shameless men do that but atimes, chances of it happening also depend on the lady involved.

A slay queen who offers her body on social has higher chances of being a victim when she begs for favor from these shameless dudes than other ladies and do I blame the men in this situation, yes but maybe not too much.

you know I begged for help as and support as a family and a friend if it has to be because of offering sex in exchange seriously I shouldn't be here. but I believe all men are not the same and I believe we women help each other too because I know how kind I am to people in need

Depressed101:
you have someone who you've been having casual sex with right ? Try contacting that person.. This life is about mutual benefit.. Stop making post about stuffs like this

why are you guys all about sex sex sex. sex for grade sex for money sex for promotion can't we help the helpless one ?

I wish I see a way to get a loan all this would have ended

mumumugu:
You help her for free,she calls you mugu.
Some will feel entitled to it. Some women are ungrateful.

at least not all. not this type of condition that made me to beg for favour publicly.

Depressed101:
i can speak for the boys don't know about girls...

If he helps you now without demanding for anything,yoy and your friends will call him mumu, ode.. They've prolly done that to them countless of times...

And also the probability that the girl in question will give pussy to another guy who is not helping her is high, they will even rob it in the helping guy's face that they are fucking another guy....

If you can give a non helping guy pussy, how about giving the one that is helping you too??

So why help a girl when you are not fucking her and end up being called a fool.

its condition that brought all of this to me

madampresident:
If you like to stay in Lagos babe. I can accommodate you FOC for 3 months to find your feet.

I hate to see anyone exploited. Let me know

that is very kind of you how can I reach you

soulstalker:
Op, only God knows what u want, cus i believed i told u stop seeking for help, not everyone who call u are ready to help u. And moreover, i told u what to do already. I dnt knw why u keep opening threads asking for assistance, only if there's more 2 ur story.
However, just do the needful, and i promise u will be fine.

you need to understand it's very hard staying with friends who lives with family. I mean where I am now am not free at all. I have made up my mind like you told me already

twosquare:
I still don't know the type of help you need. I happened to stumble on your thread yesterday. It has all been whining about family and then not getting the needed help. And for a newcomer like me, I wonder, what does she really want? What help do you need? Can you be verified?

I need money to rent a room . you can verify me from soulstalker and others who reached out to me, I need at least 20k to rent it.
you can verify me 100 percent.
am getting depressed already

JidennaJason:
Women are not left out as well...

I remember when I had some issues at the office, I went to meet our Area secretary who I thought was a "God-fearing" married woman to help me clear the financial mess up, she smiled and said; "It's a little challenge Jason, I can help you reconcile the account but I want us to make love"


I thought she was joking, but the lady was serious.

I had to explain to my boss the error I made and wait for my punishment instead of furcking a married woman.

quite weird though

CalliDora1:
The earlier you stop looking up to men for he'll the better

very true!