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An ex is an ex for a reason. The only time I would even entertain such an idea is if we broke up due to external forces like family pressure. Even then, you'd have to be sure the issues have been resolved otherwise it's the same ish, different day.

Leave her be or you will be going back and forth with a time waster and missing out on the girl that will be true to you and your relationship. Be cordial with her but in the end, do you really want to be with a woman that is sloppy enough to triple date while she works with a boyfriend?

OP, I'm so sorry to read your ex-girlfriend one of THOSE girls. It's hard but move on; your education will help your future and if she truly loves you, she wouldn't put demands on your time when an exam is coming up.

Nancia Kay: @ jay bee. Don't u think, ur phone/pc is facing downward?
Please turn it upward and read again!

Nancia...Nancia...Nancia!!! You're complaining about your brother's girlfriend being arrogant but look at what you just typed? Not all rich girls are arrogant and maybe you should check your own attitude for faults when it comes to dealing with the girl because from what you displayed here...I'm leaning towards you also adding your own wahala to the matter.

Calm down and try to get to know the girl; if she's still acting out, then you can just be polite and avoid her dramatics.

vizkiz: so ur tellinq me 2 believe all this
Wt are u, a machine without feelinqs?
u shuldnt say ''i do it bcuz m HIS FRIEND'' u shuld do it cuz u quys r datinq n u cnt jst look away when he's makinq it...believe me bby u cnt

Let's think about it for a second...she's right about all relationships not leading to marriage; just because you were there from the beginning, doesn't mean you will be there in the end. However, I'm so happy to see men (I'm assuming you are also male ) having such strong feelings on this matter. There are some men and women that want a starter partner that will struggle with them, drink garri for every meal and see them at their very lowest only to get some funds and ditch the one that was there from day one because they feel they deserve a flashier/more glamorous partner to match their new status. THOSE people are wicked and will get their just desserts in the end. The person that has been dumped will feel pain and question themselves but they will eventually see that they are better off without such a person in their lives.