I have read through everyone's response to your question, And I am not going to counter anyone's advise given to you.
I have been using Solar electricity for several years and I am still using it now and I also did some installation back then before I stopped.
There are facts about Solar electricity you need to know before you venture into it.its left for you to make your choice
What I am about to tell now, no solar electricity engineer would tell you
Firstly, you can't replace THE MAIN GRID with Solar electricity, solar is there for back up.
It's better you do a household solar system, probably a 2.0kva,24V Inverter 1000watts solar panel, 2 TUBULAR BATTERIES system to carry resistive loads of TV, DSTV,one or two fans DURING THE DAY WHEN THERE IS SUNLIGHT and when it's evening, use it for LIGHTING OF BULBS ONLY.
Use your remaining money to buy a standard generator that can power your AC, FREEZER and other inductive loads.
Do not buy china made, buy ORIGINAL INDIAN PRODUCT that will last you, get the once that has SERVICE CENTRE In case of repairs of minor faults
Install a battery balancer on your 24V battery system
Make sure you do EARTHING on your solar system to prevent LIGHTNING damage during rainfall
I wish someone told me all these facts when I first ventured into solar electricity, I wasted a lot of money before I finally got it right
Don't waste your money trying to build solar system that will carry PUMPING MACHINE ,AC,FREEZERS, ITS VERY EXPENSIVE TO BUILD NOW. TRUTH BE TOLD it will work after installation but not sustainable, because these appliances draw lots of current from the batteries, even if you buy 10 batteries at once, it's a matter of time, the moment one of the battery develops a fault( thermal fault, shorted cell, open cell) it will start to affect others.
And lastly, during rainfall, solar electricity is not always effective, you will have to rely more on your battery backup, at this time try to reduce your resistive loads.
I hope you find this helpful.....JSolar, jerryighodalo@gmail.com.

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I know my responses to your message would seem absurd and you will find it difficult to believe what I am about to say.
Why on earth would your mother choose that kind of lady for her dear son, did you think she doesn't know the lady isn't good enough for you. Why did you think your mother threatened to die if you refuse. Of course she would have died if you eventually did not marry her but it won't be by any ailments.
If you are smart, by now you will know exactly where I am headed to....
A promised had been made by your mother to a sect of powerful people which your mother belong to and refusal to fulfill them will lead to consequences and it would definitely affect you. This is beyond the natural.
You need spiritual liberation.God will set you free

Yes it's enough reason to break up with him because he is not a fan but a fanatic, from the way you described his situation,he is only gonna get worse. Also try and find out if he bets on Arsenal matches, losing all the time may be frustrating for him. I too I am a fan of Man United, I have sat down to watch other clubs beat Man United mercilessly but never for once had any impact on my behaviour or relationship with my friends, family and loved ones, we just talk, laugh about it most times and that's all.
This is a really RED FLAG for domestic violence.

Why not, were you not the one who asked her the question in the first place and she was been honest.
Now that you know the answer, deal with it
Some things are better left unknown, there are things you don't wanna know about your partner and it's not all things you tell your partner either.

Although I never had a carry over but I remember having a D grade in one of my course, I wanted to leave the university..Now o think about it and I laugh at myself. Funny enough I am not even working with that certificate...As an adult now, I can't even count how many times I have failed at different things .it's normal to feel bad about a poor grade but it doesn't define who you are.Pit yourself together,you will be fine

Why do you need to wait for 2 to 3 month to see a urologist, see a general doctor, tell him your problem, he will provide you with temporary help and he will refer you to a urologist as soon as possible.
In the meantime, get a ADULT diaper for the night, stop drinking water from 7pm in the evening, stay away from alcohol and carbonated drinks. just like someone said, you can use alarm system to wake and pee.
Prayer to God for help.

Dear guy, I took my time to read your message, from what you narrated, you happen to be her REBOUND guy and she doesn't respect you tall.
There is something she wants that you are not giving her,something is definitely wrong with her. if you end up marrying a lady like this she will eventually go out.

What he did to you really hurts, you could have just forgiven him..... Maybe you should have demanded that he pays back the money by instalments, things wouldn't have gotten out of hands
Now you know you can never trust him with money again.
But you can still fix all this, it's never too late
I wish you all the best

I just thank God you didn't make one of the biggest mistakes of your life.
Firstly, you need to work on your temperaments and manage your anger whenever anyone hurts you, because people will always hurt your feelings in the journey of lifetime.
Young ladies of nowadays are not far from behaving the way she did, maybe you should forgive her, and try to commit less of your emotions into the relationship.
If you are sure you cheated with a guy, maybe you should cheat on her too if you have the guts(Lol) and let's see how things will turn out.
Lastly, never take violence as an option to solve issues of the heart,its not worth it.
I wish you all the best in your next decision.
Have a good life

You live in a single room, it's not advisable to accept a lady, if it were to be a guy, it would have been easy.
You need to think of the uncertainties..... She will feel obliged to offer you sex in return for the favors, the moment you fall or give in, there will be many unknown consequences... pregnancy may set in, you are trapped, you may find it difficult to send her away if any need be, your fiancee or girlfriend will never understand this arrangement and a whole lots.
I personally turned down all these kind of offers when I was staying alone in a 3- bedroom flat before I got married, it's a temptation that's difficult to resist.
But you can try it if you think you are an extraordinary gentle man
Wish you all the best.

Either On-grid or off-grid solar inverter electricity is not the solution to the power problem we have in Nigeria, Solar has some limitations and it depends on sunlight, Solar power is suppose to be a backup and not a main source of power, How will you power your AC, HEATER, FREEZERS at NIGHT when there is no sunlight or Rainy days. If you run these heavy loads on heavy duty inverter and battery backup, I bet you, your battery will not last 6month lifespan.
Just like someone said why is it that our leaders are using MANTRAC, MIKANO etc. The reason is because of its limitations.
The solution is for our government to fix the current power problems we are facing in these country with our rich resources.

I can relate to what you are talking about, ITS CALLED THE HAMMER OF GOD. BACK LUCK, DRY SPELL. You will have many regrets, thinking that you have probably allowed the lady for you to go during your days of adventures(Lol), what I will just say is that you shouldn't be too hard on yourself while trying to have a good relationship, so you don't sink into depression.
You are going to get too many advices here and there. try the good ones.
Go for special prayers and if it's possible change your location.
I wish you the best

My candid advise to you is to seek spiritual intervention, don't wait until someone tells you, you have a spiritual wife. Imagine only you dated 6 girls and must have had sexual intimacy with them, girls are flocking around you right now I guess..... It won't always be like this.... a time will come there will be a DRY SPELL..... and that time is when you want to settle down.... some people call it the HAMMER OF GOD!
Just seek spiritual help, work on yourself, and try not to be a guy who goes for anything under the skirt.
God help you

In my own opinion, I think this sort of thing happens as a result from lack of basic knowledge, why would you take multiple sex enhancer, when you can just take prescription drugs which is been sold in pharmacy, 25mg/50mg of original Pfizer Viagra or 10mg/20mg of tadalafil that has been proven to be safe, effective and with less side effects afterwards. Many herbal enhancers are there to help blood flow for penile erection without side effects, there are also spray that can delay ejaculation, so you can last long enough.
My fellow Nigerians never do research, they will buy drugs that are not approved by NAFDAC from roadside vendors because a pal told them it works, they will get it, then double or triple the dosage, take alcohol on it for quick results, they will work but it causing damages to the body gradually especially the heart.
Let's be guided!

In my own opinion. I think women tend to forgive men because most times they are the ones responsible for making a man cheat by denying them sex at home..... Small misunderstanding, you deny him his conjugal rights for weeks/months, some will even tell their husband if sex is food, especially those who have given birth to their children. In the African context, it's wrong for a woman to cheat and it's almost unforgiven which I don't think is not fair . There many reasons why people cheat, one way or the other we will all cheat, it takes a very strong moral value and Godly inclination not to

Firstly, you shouldn't have given her head's up about her being sacked. However, If I were to be you, I won't give in to any form of BLACKMAIL. If she eventually have the guts to report your sexual escapades with her, you simply defend yourself by telling your uncle you were in a relationship with her and you made some mistakes. Apologies to your uncle. If you really love the girl, why not tell her( after all you have been with her for almost a year now) and find other ways to help her after the sack. bottom line,never give in to blackmail.

You saw all the red flags but you choose to ignore it, you waited for two years to do a simple background check. He only lasted 4mins and doesn't ever get another erection for two years, that alone will make any viable guy to be worried and seek medical attention.
This must be a difficult time for you but just try to get pass this, be thankful to God for this discovery else it would have been more complicated after marriage.

Girls around her age can be dangerous, do a thorough background check about this girl, You really need to be sure she is not with another guy, I am speaking from experience.
And if you are cool about your findings, take the risk and ask her out. Let us know if she agrees or not. Make sure she doesn't friend zone you.
I wish you all the best

Nice one, I commend your effort being your first DIY installation, You saved some cost but it will only be for a short while. As time goes on when you broaden your knowledge on Solar inverter electricity, you will be able to correct certain things..... I will highlight a little for you to research on
Firstly, your Solar inverter is mostly likely not a pure sine inverter and that's why it is cheap, it might even be a square wave form inverter which could damage your electronics in the long run.
A single Mono panel (180watts) won't be able to able to charge your GBM 180Ah battery sufficiently on a daily basis, this will affect the life of your battery
You could have waited a little while to buy a quality battery that hasn't stayed more than 6months, RITAR, GENUS, ADDO, QUANTA. but also know that battery purchase is also luck, it's 50/50 no matter the place or warranty given
For your GBM battery to last longer, you need to charge with a smart charger
Lastly, during raining season, you won't have enough sun, you still need a back up generator
I wish you all the best
For more secrets of solar system that no engineers will give you for free, you can e-mail me jerryighodalo@gmail.com.

Hello, I will like to give my opinion about the question you asked. Guys ask for sex because a guy is a male and male needs sex. Male is given the power of procreation by God, so man/guys are almost always ready for sex just like lower animals.
A guy needs to have lots of morals and Godly inclination for him not to ask for sex. Guys have sexual curiosities and complexities, peer pressure and influences. Guys wanna know if they are sexual active or not and a whole lot.
It's left for you to decide what exactly you want, but hope you know how risky it is to wait till your honeymoon night, for you to now discover that he has sexual(erectile) dysfunction. That's not to say you should compromise on your virginity.
There are guys who also wanna stay celibate till they are married, you sure know where to find those kind of guys.
I wish you best of luck.

If your story is true. .whatsapp me on 08104073757.... I can give you useful advice that will help you.

Power inverters are worth it only if you have at least minimum of 8 to 10hrs electricity supply to charge the inverter batteries, else you may need to add solar panels to charge those batteries. I will recommend u buy an Indian inverter and battery. A 12volt 1.5kva Genus inverter and one 12v 200ah Genus battery will do for the load u mentioned. Get ur batteries from Major distributors to be sure it's not been on ground for too long. Also beware of refurbished batteries... Charge your battery regularly and make sure it's fully charged once a week. Best of luck. Jay Solar. Send me mail for more enquires.jerryighodalo@gmail.com

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