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skultrick:
My landlord has increased my rent by 108%. So instead of paying 1.2m I will now pay 2.5m for a 2bed.

That's above my budget. So I am moving out.

I wanted ask, is it okay to inform the landlord a month before rent expires that I am not renewing or is a month too short?

Rent expires July ending, so it okay to inform in May or June?

Thank you.

Where is it located, maybe I will pay for it for myself.

MONEY247:
You don't know what you are saying.... You think it's all fun and jokes...

Hell is real
Heaven is real...

I know this world looks real too... but I have touched a bit of heaven... You are not going to feel human... I remember the day it happened.... even if you slap me I nor go vex... I was just happy like so happy...

Well you if you want to go to hell.... Ire ooo nobody gonna stop you

Concerning that happiness (I call it joy) I know what you're talking about.

Sooooooooo, what's the point of this thread

Duduyankee1:
My mistake is marrying to change her but unknowingly she doesn't need change. Guys be wiser than me when choosing your partner

Explain more

I very much agree with you

Dpsychologist:
First, remove emotion and look at facts.
You are not dealing with a “strong woman” problem. You are dealing with a poorly socialized adult who was never corrected, never held accountable, and never taught how to disagree without disrespect.
Upbringing matters a lot o. So when a child grows up in a home where rudeness is tolerated, disrespect has no consequences, one parent is resented or undermined, emotional outbursts end conversation eh that child does not magically become respectful in romantic relationships.

She simply transfers that behavior to the nearest authority figure or intimate partner.
This isn’t about being a “strong woman” or you needing to be more patient. It’s about character and boundaries.

You can’t outgrow, outlove, or “understand” disrespect out of someone. When rudeness, shutdowns like “I’ll be fine,” or contempt for dialogue show up early, that’s not strength or maturity it is avoidance and control.

Being the peace lover with someone who lacks basic respect doesn’t create peace. It teaches them that you don't have boundaries.

Men make this mistake a lot. They confuse tolerance with maturity. In reality, tolerance without limits just erodes self-respect and escalates bad behavior.

The rule is simple. Address disrespect once, calmly and clearly. If it repeats, that’s your answer. You’re not her therapist, parent, or reform project.
Peace is not silence, love is not endurance and walking away early is not weakness. It’s clear judgment earned from experience.

Do the needful.

What that guy wrote is the same issue as mine.

Anyways, I have done the needful. Because to correct her is another issue.

Adeoye11:
So how do I cope with a girl from a family where they allow her to be rude to all the family members since when she was young without anyone taming her till she becomes an adult.
Although the mother is the bread winner of the family, this so called girl does not even like her father at all.
And now such a girl would expect to live with a total stranger (a guy) who has gotten his feet up in life.
And now she is in a relationship with a guy and she is so rude to the person and always quick to end a discussion with "see don't worry I will be fine".

In this case who should be the winner or the peace lover?



See families should do well in upbringing their children so that they stop causing problems to the world

It's like we are dating the same girl.

Update147:
I have been married for 6 months, and if I where to take back the hands of time, I would never use the word marriage in my mouth.

That regular quote that people say "women change after marriage" that quote is very correct.

Today I am still in marriage because if I leave, what will people say ?

Expantiate, how did she change?

Porn is also illegal in some states in America.

There is nothing classy about that lady.

An Ex of mine knew my own pin and I didn't know hers. And she used my card constantly.

Its not by that one o.

Exousiang01:
LoL.
I am an Eagle.
One of the craziest ones at that.
Everything this young man has complained about made me what I am today.

Anyone who can be crazy and still survive CU is a real nigga.
This young man is a weakling.

I started using my phone from my 200level in Paul Hall, even student council members knew I used phone.
There was a time I didn't attend chapel service for an entire session, NOT SEMESTER OHH.

Yet me and my crew made it out.
Today I will would be one of the greatest drug dealers in this country if I chose to follow that path because I had it on the lock.
I would be a great politician if I wanted cos I had many Revo, Student council and Student affairs in my pocket.

The unfortunate thing is in their attempt to create Holly and robotic students, they helps us discover our potentials in the most negative ways.....

The young man was a weakling.
CU is for the strong.


E wan be bad guy for CU and e no get mind, e no wise.

All these new generation CU students.

Na we be th men wer give Fadugba headache.
Oyinloye, Mario hunted me.

I remember Mario told me one day at the basketball court after taking my iTouch and returning it, He said. "Whatever you are doing to get away, one day we will get you" The joke is forever on him.

My fellow Eagle.

You just reminded of Revo, Mario and Fadugba regime.

I remember when Fadugba told my hall Daniel hall to write the whole book of Luke as punishment.

If you can survive there, you will be very sharp.

DeGLORIOUS:
How do you do that?

There is a settings button like a wheel when you watch a video. When you click it, select "Quality" then you can choose your resolution.

DeGLORIOUS:
what do you mean by 144p and 240p?

Video resolution.

Mirasteel:
How do you enjoy low quality videos?

It depends in the kind of video I am watching. Most of the time it's just the information from the videos I need not the graphics.

Instagram for me is number 1.

I can easily watch my YouTube videos on 144p or 240p to reduce Data consumption.

Karleb:
That's the girl in one battle after another.

Now I know where I know her from.

Can you mention the flaws you discovered in most city girls.

This number 9 is important to me.

My babe is bitter towards men and is hot headed.

I will like this thread to hit Frontpage. I need more opinions on something.

I knew this statistic was rubbish when I didn't see Kano or Kaduna.

There are many people who aren't normal in this present world.

I pray I find a normal person to marry.

dominique:
The days of Pacman, dangerous Dave and shadow, games we played on PC before getting the super mario game console. The days of diskette (3½ floppy A). Indomie shidren will never relate

I am very happy to see my people here. Pac-Man and Dangerous Dave, even chips challenge.

Dangerous Dave had a comic book to. Many people didn't know about that.

gasparpisciotta:
I recall when these guys started advertising Malaysia to the world on CNN

Malaysia truly asia.......

Many who went there late 90s and early 2000s are millionaires today,especially if you are able to strategically marry their native women.

If you know you know 💃

You took me back

danvon:
I don't believe this kind of stories...

Besides, if it was true why wluld you share your invention on the internet where other people can steal your idea and claim it?

The smart thing to do is to patent it then go to tech companies and pitch.

But i'm sure its false advert though, electricity cannot be transmitted through air.

The electricity isn't transferred through air.

I have a wireless power bank.

WrriterNg:
Colombia also threatened to slap 50% tariff on US goods.

That's why the US folded.

Oga! That is not what happened.

Colombia is the one that actually folded.

efemena5050:
I can tell from ur write up a lot about u......now sit down let me tell u about u...
1. Ur argue blindly without proper reasoning u argue alot ...and alwys claim to know
2. Ur still in the growing up stage with no much experience in life but act as though uve come of age
3.u like girls and alwys try to impress.....
4.u alwys want to belong to group of people that don't even welcome ur opinion or friendship they only pretend
5.u argue with eithr of ur mom or dad

6.ur irrational in ur decision most times
7.u don't value spiritual issues ....



DISCLAIMER......Am no soothsayer but I was able to know u from the contractions in ur write up which is only perculier to someone who don't take time to process but hastily want to talk........I meant no insult

Lol...I like the way you professionally scrutinized that dude.

Lostchild:
I have learnt a lot about life, and about human beings, no matter who they are.

1. Women feed their soul via the attention of men. They will hate you if you don't give them attention.

2. Age is just a number. Age does not make person fully mature.

3. Genuine human beings are only known through their suffering and love.

4. People who are truly serving God are very small in numbers.

5. Trust only what you know about a person.

6. No matter how good you are to people, they will surely crucify and sacrifice you. The moment you stop them from using you, they will start hating you and tag you a bad person.

7. Our life troubles comes from those around us.

8. Help many any strangers. It pays a lot. You won't regret it.

I always think of this your number 4. After lots of observations over the years.

JOemmy:
So Hollywood have been right all this while? One of my friend claimed he sighted a UFO at night while in a boarding school in niger state years ago but I doubted him he might be saying the truth after all.

I almost taught I was your friend. Cause I saw the same when I was in boarding school though I schooled in Lagos.

Novaxerxes:
Archie and Jughead double digest
Diary of a wimpy kid...

Those were the days

Archie and Goosebumps were my favourite. Also Tintin.

One week one trouble, all books about willy tagbo
All of eze's books
Diary of a wimpy kid
Jughead double digest (comic)
Archie (comic)
Dizzy angel ( a surprisingly well written nigerian literature)
The secret garden
Journey to the center of the earth
A wrinkle in time
The time machine
Great expectations by charles dickens
Little women, pride and prejudice, lost books of nostradamus

You impressed me at Archie comics and Secret Garden.

I will add...Goosebumps

Hardy boys
Famous five
Nancy Drew
Babysitters club
Peter and Jane
Tintin