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@Shentz

Jesqueen:
wow,seriously , i never thought that there 's still sum ppl out there would pay attention to the topic which i posted 2yrs ago, WOW!!!

Well here's sum updates, we broke up at the beginning of 2008, he went back home and as far as i know he married with a nigerian gal few months ago this yr,

dejiariyo:
jesqueen, why do chinnese ladies make funny noise when they having sex, are they really good insinging?

What a funny question, !! I am a chinese but i cant represent all the chinese chicks,.how do i even know what kind of noise do those chinese ladies make when they are having sex?You shoulda go ask each of them, funny

@OgaMadam

Hey girl, u r in toronto right?we should meet up when im there

wow,seriously , i never thought that there 's still sum ppl out there would pay attention to the topic which i posted 2yrs ago, WOW!!!

Well here's sum updates, we broke up at the beginning of 2008, he went back home and as far as i know he married with a nigerian gal few months ago this yr,

samparian:
@jesqueen
you're english is too good for a Chinese.


2. He has plans to go home and marry a good looking naija babe with nicely shaped ass and full boobs(unlike chinese girls)

Yo man ,not all the chinese chicks have no shapes , PERIOD, u just never met one when u were here,

edatika:
i've enjoyed the thread so far,

All i have to do now is to wait n see n do my own thing,cool off him a little bit

@ccaramel

        THAX lol
         im going to Toronto oooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo, ~~~~~

@ ccaramel

hey girl,is that ur pic in ur profile?i mean,u r HOT lol

deor03:
@ Jesqueen

werin dey. why you kon dey play play odede wey dey here say you be chinco. i fit trace your IP address to make you sabi say i sabi the lungu wey you dey write from

anyway sha i hail you because you don create thread of about 4 pages of reply.

take am easy oh later,

if i understand it right,do u mean that u dont think that im a chinese according to my IP address?
i dont know whether u wrote it in this way on purpose or what.

doe:
If u are Chinese, then my mama is from Mars.

Ah ah,thatz not funny! ! for what u said that?

@salsera

      Yea i understand your words.thax 4ur advice

@OgaMadam

Sometimes i just suspect him abt sth,how am i suppose to find out the truth?

OgaMadam:
First things first.

This is a pidgin website so that him no go yap you small small abi?

http://www.ngex.com/personalities/babawilly/dictionary/pidginb.htm

ehenh.

My daughter when i said "your future is bright and its even orange" i was worried.

You know in naija custom when a woman thinx she is going to receive bad news, she has to tie a cloth around her chest. So if people tell her "mama, we have news for you" she will ask "O, should i tie a cloth around my chest"?

Jesqueen,
tie a cloth around your chest. are you ready?

Nne, have you met his family.

And also, if its truely yours, you don't have to fight for it. relax and live your life your own way. and when a relationship is for you, you don't have to put too much effort.

i would say cool off him a little enh? and do your thing, if he is your man, you wont need to be worried about anything abi?

ppl say that if i love someone,i should not doubt at him,bcoz love is everythin
what do u think of it?

@Ogamadam

"Girl if You's really chinese, your future is bright - infact its orange"

why do u say that?

@Ogamadam

thank you so much
i appreciate that

OgaMadam:
Ok Jess,

we cool. Girl if You's really chinese, your future is bright - infact its orange.

Soon you will be going to the market, cleaning your compound, and cooking pounded yam with egusi soup for your husband.

You go girl

Its bright.

Thax 4supporting me ooooooooo lolololololo
hey do u know any website to learn how to cool african food??i love those food u kn,

OgaMadam:
What Jesqueen have you picked up other habits?

Dont hate ok, im just trying to help you.

hey sista relax,i didnt say that i hate it

OgaMadam:
dakmanzero, word.


It is possible she is chinese you know. its not only nigerians that talk that way. maybe she been around the guy for long, now she picked up his habits - namely language.

Habit huh, hmm, funny

dakmanzero:
Bottom line- treat him like you would any other guy, but get to know his family and what they think of you for real. They are the only people besides him that matter.

congrats to ur frnd!
but how am i supposed to know whether the family accept me or not?i dont even have the chance to get close to them

Vieira:
It is not an insult if you are actually chinese but if you are nigerian then it is an insult.

I just find it perplexing that your phrasing of english sounds exactly like what I would expect of certain nigerians.

Even the your reply and the use of "better mind your words" is so typically nigerian.

BUT if I am wrong I will hold up my hands and apologise!!

I am currently trying to learn Chinese and hence have a layman's idea of how Chinese is structured grammatically and coupled with the few chinese I know has led me to doubt your id.

I have been to your myspace and it seems genuine.

Do you speak English yourself or does someone write it on your behalf?

I will be in Hong Kong and Shanghai in September maybe we can hook and you can point me in the right directions for the great sights.

Any tips for my visit, like places to go or see?

Apology accepted. but i still dont like the phrase " poorly educated",no matter im a chinese or a nigerian.
of course i speak english myself,who do u expect to represent me?
well,u should goto BeiJing,ShangHai,and ShenZhen to visit

raphy:
hi jesqueen,
how are u doin, am readin your post today just feel like replyin.
so u date a nigerian guy, it doest matter u need to study him that well.
because nigerian guys are not that bad as some people may say.
if he tells u that he is goin bck home tell him wether u should come wit him,
just try n know if he is hidin somtin from u k good lock girl

Hey im doing great.thax, hope u r doing well~
the fact is he never asked me whther i should go with him or not, besides i dont even know when will he go back

WesleyanA:
if you've been dating him for two years, that's a long time to know what his plans are or at least have a clue.
are you sure he's going back to naija? if he's staying in China then i guess he's might probably be staying with you. i don't know

are you afraid to ask him these questions?

we don't know him personally so we really can't guess what he's thinking. just because we're all nigerians doesn't mean we share the same brain. everyone is different.

you can't get a correct answer here on nairaland. You'll have to ask your boyfriend or one of his friends that knows all his plans to find out the answer.

im not sure whether he will go back or not,we never talk abt this,everytime i start this topic,he said that i should do my own thing first,and then when time comes,he will let me know.but the thing is.when will that be?!

I MUST SAY YOUR QUITE AGGRESSIVE FOR A CHINESE. YOU HOLD YOUR GROUND QUITE WELL. TOO WELL.
[quote][/quote]Why did u say that?

@dakmanzero

Thax for ur advice,i appreciate that!

Kaliyat:
jesqueen sorry to say this but i think you are claiming to be a chinese girl and by all standards i will say you are not. I have not seen a chinese girl that has not been to Nigeria and is speaking "ah ah" which is typical of people from the western part of the country. If you don't have anything to write about, why not just relax rather than looking for attention.

I don't mean to be acusing but that is just how i feel.

Im not trying to be impolite here,but some of u r really pissed me off.

1. " i think you are claiming to be a chinese girl and by all standards i will say you are not"
What standards make u think that im not a chinese?did u ever deal with defferent types of chinese ppl b4?if u didnt,plz be quiet.
2."I have not seen a chinese girl that has not been to Nigeria and is speaking "ah ah" which is typical of people from the western part of the country"
Is it only nigerian ppl that speak"ah ah"?plz dont make me laugh.
3. "If you don't have anything to write about, why not just relax rather than looking for attention. "
Sister plz,do i really have to do sth then i can get the attention from ppl?cmon.be reasonable

dejia:
Jasqueen, its seems some of us don't beleive u are chinese. i have checked your website, i have been going to china for 2yrs .infact i have stayed for upto 3months
i havent seen a chinese type this good. i have checked through all your post, i look through all your abbreviations, i am sorry i don't beleive you.

If u have truly dated this guy for 2yrs. then what else do u need to know about him? There are alot of Igbo guys in China especially in Shengzhen ( your location),Guangzhou & Beijing, u should know them by now.

I might not be wrong but, I am sorry your your english doesnt sound "chinese", if u understand what i mean by that.

Please. don't take offense,

1.did u expect to meet all the chinese ladies here within 2yrs?cmon,
2.well it's true that there is ton of nigerians resist in those cities which u just mentioned,but the thing is,my bf keeps me away from those nigerians,except his frnds i kn,he doesnt even want me to get close to the others.
P.S Black ppl in sz are not that much as in gz.
3."i havent seen a chinese type this good"
-----i take that as a compliment, thax

Vieira:
Her phrasing is like a poorly educated nigerian.

Whatz that supposed to mean?
u'd better mind ur words.
thanks

ijogbon:
@jesqueen
I sincerely apologise for not taking a lady's word as her bond. I thought you were some sort of imposter.
I looked up your myspace and you two do look good together. Best of luck girl.

Apology accepted and thax4ur blessing

ijeoma obi:
hi,igbo guys are quite hard to predict.am an igbo girl,i never went out with one.
he might want to marry u to show off (they love that).am sure for him to stick with u,this long,he is serious.igbos are naturally rude by nature.so being submissive is out of the question.(the girls i mean)
so start planning your move to canada.next time look for a yoruba guy ,they are the best of the nigerians.if the guy wants u ,he should come looking for u.
HOW DID U GET THIS WEBSITE?I DONT BELIEVE U ARE WHITE.

GOODLUCK SHA

hey thax sis~
im not white,but yellow haha,u can check out my page:
http://www.myspace.com/jesqueen

OgaMadam:
But for how long have these marriages gone on jesqueen?

you need to test the track record before you can say anything.

if you have naija and chinese friends married for like 5 years, and have loads of kids, have settled down, and been to each other house, then you can talk.

Hell yea,i do have frnds like that as u said.
Besides,dont tell me that ppl in ur country never divorce

cuju:
Igbo men marry from other tribes and nationality. Like most men, they want someone that will make them happy. BUT most mums want their sons to marry igbo girls. so it all depends on how much he loves u and is able to resist the pressure that will definitely be mounted and i'm yet to see an igbo guy with a chinese wife.

As far as i know,some of my bf's frnds already married with chinese ladies,it's not a strange thing up here.
Yall,This is the 21century.

well,as i said b4,he's definately not a tradional igbo guy,n he left his family n began to do business when he was my age,even younger,besides,he already told me that his family dont mind where his gf or wife come from.
Another thing is,why black sisters are soooooooo jeaous?

temmyabby:
i wonder when these people r so negative

Since i post a topic here,i already got ready to be a listener here,whether they are giving me negative advice or a optimistic one.
anyway,i agree with u

dejia:
Jasqueen,
Have u travelled out of China before? Where are you in China?.
I will advice after u response to these questions.

Yea i did travelled out of china b4.
i live in ShenZhen where close to HK.
so whatz the advice that u wanna give me?