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gwkid:thanks. God if only i can see into the future. I dont know whether to remain in Unilorin since i am not in their catchment area. But with 28* what are my chances of entering |
gwkid:please if i do purchase this change of institution form will there be any form of discrimination from the school favouring those who chose them in jamb than those who chose in change of institution |
falconey:so quick.... Happy sunday |
Heard this decided to share. 1-The Baby husband/ wife. He/ she is married but not matured. Such person can do nothing without first consulting with the mum 2.- Acidic husband /wife these set of people are arrogant and cannot communicate. The family is wary of his or her homecoming. Quite controlling and manipulative. 3- Panadol Husband/wife these set use their spouse for material advantage. They shower their spouse with praise and compliments just to collect something from them. 4- Dry husband/wife they do not keep the commandments ie love of God, love of self and love of neighbour. Poor communication=poor relationship 5- General Husband they are married but still keep extramarital affairs 6- Visionless Husband/Wife these set dont think of the future but want immediate satisfaction. Your monthly allowance reduced because he is handling a project but you dont want to hear of it 7- Lazy Husband /wife he or she does not contribute to the financial growth of the family but places all the burden on the spouse. 8- Visiting Husband/wife family only see you once a year. 9-caring husband / wife. They love God, themselves and eachother. They share, complement and understand eachothers strenght and ambition. Hence they begin to think alike, look alike, do things in common and there is peace. |
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Nicky058:pls would appreciate putme sent |
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chykmoni:lol. unilorin but thinking of porting to unilag |
osram:. thanks. ...na putme dey my mind now jahre |
zleemshaddy:thanks |
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itoghor0007:i did not really get the question. You want to go out with an ex girlfriend of your brother. And the girl in question is now dating someone else? If no pls re explain but if yes read on. Is your brother over her? If no, you might want to re consider and get your own girlfriend but if yes or you dont case either way start talking to her like a bf would. Ask about her day making use of hook points as explained in previous pages. Avoid talk of her bfs....what you want is a picture of you not some other guy better still visit xxxteddyxxx thread (improve your dating game here |
ThePrekky:let me introduce you to xxxteddyxxx's thread (improve your dating game here) you would probably find it more instructive |
jetworldpee:i think i wrote how to make conversations both phone and facial in the previous pages. But since the girl has no idea whom you are , you might want to meet her directly or through your friend and collect the number directly from her. Pls read through the thread for conversation on the road. Or as you rightly suggested visit teddyxxx's thread |
itoghor0007:then stop talking the love and start acting as her bf. Stop being all mushy around her since it seems she is playing hard to get. Obviously, she has some level of attraction for you and is using the hard to get act as a shield. So, start taking to her as you would a friend who are girls. make cordial relationships with other girls which will cause jealousy in her but i did not say you should totally ignore her oh. A better advice is to visit this thread by xxxteddyxxx (improve your dating game here) |
This thread was basically dormant and closed.... How did it resurrect? |
Shit.... Should have said this at the beginning Xxxteddyxxx kudos |
ejones144:good.... Why not start by answering the relational questions on this thread? |
ThePrekky:pride could be a good thing when it shows confidence, but disastrous when its turned to snubby. Are you one of those who join fellow guys to insult other girls eg look at her she no even get backyard etc and other vulgar things which are funny but painful to the intended? If yes.... You might want to stop but if not read on ill suggest you try initiating conversation with people whom you are not necessarily interested in it could be sisters,relations, course mates or in the bus, when involved in group work etc till you overcome that shyness. Might i add that live your life with fun. Mix with friends, if you've got an opinion-voice it, be free minded the fact that you fail doesnt mean you should quit it means LAUGH LEARN LIVE ON |
Kodext:there are different types of girls hence different ways. She could be giving you preferential treatment. At times it could be more subtle like she just stares at you when she believes you arent looking. Quickly responds your chats etc All in all there is no fool proof formula. You just know. Most importantly do you like the girl? If yes start the techniques already |
Good thing you said this thread was open to criticism. Go through your post again and read slowly. If you still see nothing wrong well bravo.... You just exhibited a funnily shallow way of thinking. The post is filled with using sex to turn your girl friend into a submissive slave. Her pride, open minded way of thinking and talking attracted you to her.....so why try to clip her? I dont really know how to put my thoughts into words but really though you probably dont care... this is disappointing |
Tosyne..... Tosyne.... Tosyne. How many times i call your name? Why you dey find trouble this fyn afternoon. Wetin dem give you chop...haba |
DANCES THAT TREND Have you seen the songs that trend? Silly dances which need amend? Let me take you a few steps down memory lane. I remember "Makosa" Reigning with the imaginary hit "Gbosa" Making Musa,Nnena &Bola Dance like kids with ebola Dance like children with knock-kneed. Like a wind driven reed. Dont get me started on "Why me", "Yahooze"& "Kako bi Chicken" Inspirations from chickens? I was stricken. Then came "Azonto & Etigi" which had all genders of all ages twerking like an octogenarian with waist pain. Like an old man with stroke.... Can it get any worse Thought that was bad? Then you have not seen "Alanta" Ha....alanta lorita meta" what a laugh i had as a kid tried to teach me! One leg up ....eh! Both shoulders raised... Eh! Then fingers strumming the tummy while twerking. Ok....what could have inspired such ....damn?! Only for the artiste to reply..... A MADMAN. Has the world gone mad? Unknown to me, it was still in its early stages. I was in for a shock with..... Shoki! Hmmm.... Kabiyesi must hear this i rest my case...for now |
um...new to this but here goes nothing MY LIFE My life is mine I have the patent right Do not try to copy me I have the copyright. My trademark shines Even in the darkest night That is enough proof That my life is mine I am a master of art Words come from my heart Even the morning sky Confirms my raving style Beyond bounds i flow Crooks watch of glow They consult their cowries To set for me--boundaries But i am unstoppable And crooks-incapable Of putting my destiny Under undue scrutiny. I go up high And all fools sigh Cause my art is unique Better than their physique. |
Is your hubby a muslim or any other religion that allows more than one wife? If no, dear scatter the wedding ( i am taking this personal) when the pastor asks "is there anybode here with a reason on why this duo shouldnt get married?" rise up. If indeed his religion agrees pls pack your bags and children outta the house before you subconsciously kill somebody and get convicted for murder. As for you op....ahah.... For your husband to say you took your marriage as a a responsibility not love....check yourself did you usually welcome him home, ask him how his day went and so on. Sorry i am not thinking, i am taking this personal |
Mightyguy:lols...you answered your own question |
Yes you can start thinking about a date with her. But pls make sure you have a good enough rapport with her on phone first |
Jessyj616:you are smart....so you could always twist that convo to match the circumstances. What i want you to get from there is that the guy above started from her day.... to her family.. ..to her lips that is switching hooking, teasing, subtle flirting, rolled in one. Hope it was ok, gud luck |
Slyder:you could call her in the mornings around 9am s afternoons maybe around 2-5pm as for the conversation. Girl-hello guy-hi babe, watsup girl-nothing much, just here and you? guy-cool, how was your day? Hope you had fun? Girl-not really was kinda boring tho guy-boring?....so if you had magical powers what would you do with it right now? Girl-hmmm... .well...i'd like to blah blahblah guy-(depending on her reply you could hook on a point and continue from there or... Tease her) wow...you seem fun are you the middle born or something.....you dont look like a last born to me tho #smiles# girl-nooo...i am the second of five children guy-five?...would you also like to give birth to five? Girl-:-O no way three is ok for me guy-thank God....me too ...so you have THREE siblings,arent they a handful girl-yes they are but theses is nothing one can do about it unless you want to get roasted by mum guy-yeah...tell me about it...hey...i like the way you say that word girl-which word? Mum? Guy-nah...roasted...say it again. Girl-roasted? Lols you are not serious whats special about it guy-its the way your lips curl when you say it ....damn you should smile more it makes you look more beautiful....yeah... Just like that continue as the spirit leads. You could go back to the previous topic or switch |
Focus on the process not the end game. Establish some sort of rapport with her. I repeat,for a girl, attraction is emotional not logical. Hence, you can never overuse this line 'how did that make you feel?' you could also make use of repetitions and hooking listen actively, so you know what points she is consciously or unconsciously hammering on or avoiding. Eg guy- how was work today? Girl-stressful guy-stressful? How? Girl-my co-worker did this or did that,.... Guy-she did? How did that make you feel? Girl-annoyed because i.... blah blahblah continue as the spirit leads.....if the topic becomes boring switch to other light topics like what she is going to be cooking. Rapport makes her sees you as her boyfriend without you even asking. So, dont skip it |
jrerico1:tanks jawe . |
unilorin but thinking of porting to unilag
, nice one