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My broda, marriage is quite tougher than courtship as u ve learnt. ur wife is just bn a woman ie holding on nd nt letting go of wat she perceive 2 b hers unless it is eventually falling on her lap (family). I'm in dis biz nd I know she has more gud attributes dan nt so pleasant one. lovingly let her know d 2 families married nd nt just 2 individuals nd stop thinking or asking if u r married 2 d rong person bt taking ur marriage 2 d next level by passing dis test b4 u.(It is an institution u won't graduate from) Avoid telling or making her know wat u tink/know would piss her, avoid quarrelling/fighting wit her especially wen she is ranting, continue helping ur family as she was never there from beginin bt nw (different relationship) b really patient & most especially "LUV HER" more nd more. U r already married, enjoy it 4 dis wud pass wit tym maybe den na children palava. lol |
Thanks a lot 4 ur post as my wife is currently going thru dis medical condition and ur post wud sure go a long way in d management. |
I am a natural medicine practitioner , I can treat your wife.For the dizziness she needs ginger and as for the chest pain, cayenne is the solution.For the stress you wouldn't be able to prepare that.You will provide honey while I prepare it for you .This formula will let her sleep soundly I heard about such remedy, how do we go about getting it and providing the materials. Thank you. |
A dependable maid or nanny will go a looooonnnngggg way. She needs to place the babies on formula if she already has not. This will lessen d burden of feeding them and home chores. There is help though and just started formula. She wakes up at night when the babies are both up and crying. I appreciate your contribution. |
[quote author=dominique post=38301061]Does she have a help with the kids? How about her job, will they understand if she takes a week or two off to rest? Tell her to take a detailed doctor's report with to her bosses, if they don't accept because she's just resuming from maternity, its better she quit. Her life is more important than a job. My sister, she does have a help and her boss understands just that she can only rest when the babies are sleeping. Thanks |
jasssbabe:Thanks but how? I'm interested. |
My wife turned 33 this September and had been diagnosed to be Hypertensive (High Blood Pressure) a few days after putting to birth a set of twin April, 2015. She has been on drugs and the stress of taking care of the babies and other children drains her as she is constantly exhausted with head ache, chest and neck pain as well as dizziness. This is really taking a toll on us all. The Doctor's advice is to rest but there isn't enough of such as she feeds at night and goes to work and her Blood Pressure is still high and increasing. Please are there any way be it diet or lifestyle that can help remedy or reduce such medical condition? Thanks for all your anticipated inputs/contributions. |