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thanks for your responses
ur advices will definitely affect my decision.
she was a virgin before the incident ,we tried several times but because of the pains i backed off,we got intimate severally and she didn't refused me to dis-virgin her,i thought we wait litle bit longer.
she is far away because of her school
she was at my house like 3 weeks before that incident from what she said but got carried it away by peer pressure, just finished exams that afternoon and she called me to tell how the exam went but wanted to hang out with a boy that has been asking out and she got drunk and the boy sweet talk and one thing led to the other.
i felt i deprived her of what she want and she sought for somehere else.
she called me like two day before the incident that she is Hot and she needed me badly but we are hundreds of kilometers away there is no way i cant be there for her.

i just noticed she is changed and i asked her what is wrong and she came out and begging

i ve a short story to tell but it hurting me badly:here it goes i have a virgin girlfriend for 3 years and we are about getting married and exactly two months to our introduction ceremony she got disvirgin-ed by another guy but she claimed it was a mistake and she is   really sorry and she love me and all that. i really need a serious advice because i cant share it with any of friends or family, like u know marriage is a lifetime contract, does she deserve a second chance or once bitten twice shy?