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Oohrhii: Op ..Being around..would only waste your time..

Being in the dark will equally waste your energy..

Coming out with it..wont make them stop(if it has started) Nor make you wife beg.. they will just change venue ni.

The best solution..is you can afford it ..is just to install a CCTV.A miniature cam would do all the trick..while you just act like its nothing.. and still go ahead with your business as usual.

No lady would confess to fornication unless caught red handed. ..Yes they are that Bad and cunning.

Act like nothing is happening..and just wait to see wassup.

I concur, I have been thinkng and the only thing I can come up with is the surveilance camera, I mean with all the prosts that I have read with people stating i should sit her down and talk to her about it wont work, it will only make things worse or better still if truly something is happening, make her tighten their security the more. How can I get this CCTV cam?

Hi peepo, I never thought I'll become one of those people feeling a little bit wary about my wife's failtfulness to me, here is my story:

My wife is still a stay at home mum since she is still raising our 8 months old baby, and I since I lost my job have been running business here and there so sometimes am always at home, and attimes I am not. Now whenever my brother wants to come to the house, he actually doesnt call me or needs to call me. All of a sudden, he started calling, he'll go by saying ' you dey house'? I'll be like no if am truly not, and yes if I was. I was never having it in mind if he was trying something fishy with my wife when he started calling to ask if I was home, not until it became very frequent, then I started having the thought, and also my brother is well known to sleeping with house-helps no matter how good looking or bad looking they were, so that alone made me up my guard and I became so wary but was taking it easy.
It finally became more of a worrisome circumstance to me when I went to a friends place not too far from my house, that very day, my brother has called also to know if I was home, I told him no, and then my wife called me and asked if I was close to the house, I said no, I was then gonna ask why she was asking, she had hung up without me finishing the statement because I heard some1 knocked at the door, I immediately called her back,and asked who was at the door, she said it was my brother, at that moment I asked her again why she was asking, she said I shouldnt bother, I demanded that she tells me, she replied again by saying I shouldnt bother, I then suggested if she had wanted me to get her something, she now said yes I wanted you to help me get something, I asked what that could be, my wife couldnt give me an instant response until after at least 20 seconds, I found that weird to be precise, and I found it even more weird that she said she wanted chicken wings from KFC.I sent a txt message saying ‘be careful’ though in order not to make the issue more obvious that am being suspicious, I resent another txt saying sorry message was not meant for you, but at least if something was actually gonna go down, that txt may have avert it one way or the other.

Peepo, I know my wife well, and I know things she likes and what not to ask me to buy, although that faithful day, she might have had a different stuff she wanted truly, but those few details makes me feel there might be going on in agreement between the two of um. I told her immediately that I am coming home now, but didnt go back until like an hour cos I was having a business meeting with my friend.

when I got back home, she was quick to brng up counter accusations such as me being too private with my phones, that have been deleting messages etc etc, I found it weird because she wouldnt bring up issues up like that all of a sudden, I started feeling like shes countering me with somewhat of a guilty conscience inside of her, she wanted to know who I actually sent the 'be careful' message to.

This situation started to draw things of the past back, the way he always talk about my brother, how she feels bad for him when she overhear girls calling him and asking for different things and how he's always very quick to answer them, saying they are taking him for granted, also said he is the only one out of my siblings that she likes his lifestyle, saying he doesnt worry himself or give a Bleep about any worries. Those compliments and concern which I didnt take serious wayback, now seems something important to me, infact yesterday my brother was asking me when my wife's birthday's date is, I asked why he was asking, he said I wanna get ger something she likes for her bday, it may be a normal statement, but my brother isnt that nice to that level or would actually think about getting someone something for a birthday. Am I overthinking? or I have every reason to be wary at this moment?

Hi peepo, I never thought I'll become one of those people feeling a little bit wary about my wife's failtfulness to me, here is my story:

My wife is still a stay at home mum since she is still raising our 8 months old baby, and I since I lost my job have been running business here and there so sometimes am always at home, and attimes I am not. Now whenever my brother wants to come to the house, he actually doesnt call me or needs to call me. All of a sudden, he started calling, he'll go by saying ' you dey house'? I'll be like no if am truly not, and yes if I was. I was never having it in mind if he was trying something fishy with my wife when he started calling to ask if I was home, not until it became very frequent, then I started having the thought, and also my brother is well known to sleeping with house-helps no matter how good looking or bad looking they were, so that alone made me up my guard and I became so wary but was taking it easy.
It finally became more of a worrisome circumstance to me when I went to a friends place not too far from my house, that very day, my brother has called also to know if I was home, I told him no, and then my wife called me and asked if I was close to the house, I said no, I was then gonna ask why she was asking, she had hung up without me finishing the statement because I heard some1 knocked at the door, I immediately called her back,and asked who was at the door, she said it was my brother, at that moment I asked her again why she was asking, she said I shouldnt bother, I demanded that she tells me, she replied again by saying I shouldnt bother, I then suggested if she had wanted me to get her something, she now said yes I wanted you to help me get something, I asked what that could be, my wife couldnt give me an instant response until after at least 20 seconds, I found that weird to be precise, and I found it even more weird that she said she wanted chicken wings from KFC.I sent a txt message saying ‘be careful’ though in order not to make the issue more obvious that am being suspicious, I resent another txt saying sorry message was not meant for you, but at least if something was actually gonna go down, that txt may have avert it one way or the other.

Peepo, I know my wife well, and I know things she likes and what not to ask me to buy, although that faithful day, she might have had a different stuff she wanted truly, but those few details makes me feel there might be going on in agreement between the two of um. I told her immediately that I am coming home now, but didnt go back until like an hour cos I was having a business meeting with my friend.

when I got back home, she was quick to brng up counter accusations such as me being too private with my phones, that have been deleting messages etc etc, I found it weird because she wouldnt bring up issues up like that all of a sudden, I started feeling like shes countering me with somewhat of a guilty conscience inside of her, she wanted to know who I actually sent the 'be careful' message to.

This situation started to draw things of the past back, the way he always talk about my brother, how she feels bad for him when she overhear girls calling him and asking for different things and how he's always very quick to answer them, saying they are taking him for granted, also said he is the only one out of my siblings that she likes his lifestyle, saying he doesnt worry himself or give a Bleep about any worries. Those compliments and concern which I didnt take serious wayback, now seems something important to me, infact yesterday my brother was asking me when my wife's birthday's date is, I asked why he was asking, he said I wanna get ger something she likes for her bday, it may be a normal statement, but my brother isnt that nice to that level or would actually think about getting someone something for a birthday. Am I overthinking? or I have every reason to be wary at this moment?