Romance › Re: HELP! My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by Jmaxinc: 7:58pm On Aug 06, 2017 |
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This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled. Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then. She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.
PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this? save yourself and run free the girl |
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Romance › Re: The Girl I Love Ended Our Relationship Because She Doesn't Trust Me. by Jmaxinc: 11:10pm On Jun 10, 2017 |
Miles & boom chic Baba you are free go enjoy your life Xxxx123: I have been in a relationship with this amazing girl for quite a while and it's been an awesome and adventurous experience for the both of us. We aren't just a romantic couple, we are also best friends. We understand each other on a deep level, both intellectually and sexually, and we spend a lot of time together. In all my life I have never been in love with anyone before, she is my first true love. Over the course of our relationship, we've expressed our feelings for each other, both in words and in deed, so there is no question mark in that regard.
She always made it clear to me that she doesn't like her emotions being toyed with and she strongly values trust in a relationship. I also value trust, but she seems to prioritize it to a higher degree than I do. There have been times when I violated this principle of trust and commitment, by my actions, and there have been times when she also has, although mine vastly outweighs hers, but we've always resolved our issues and moved on. But few weeks ago, something happened. While we were together having a conversation, she revealed something to me that according to her, she has been afraid and embarrassed to reveal to me. It was about her sexual fantasies. She said she didn't want to tell me about it because she was afraid I'd "push her" because it was also something I liked and I've always made mention of how I wished for her to be interested in it, not knowing that it formed the core of her own sexuality. When she revealed this piece of information to me, I didn't take it as seriously as she wanted me to take it, plus I was partly excited, and I did something that epitomized "pushing her" towards indulging in these fantasies. Something I now regret. After I did what I did, she said she didn't want me anymore in her life because she couldn't trust me. She emphasized on how she made it clear that she didn't want me to push her, which I still did. I tried apologizing to her but she has since refused to listen. She has stopped picking my calls and stopped replying my texts. She said she doesn't want me around her anymore.
The problem now is that I am in love with this girl and I can't stop thinking about her. I know the cliche advice would be to move on and find someone else to love, but the problem is that this seems nearly impossible. I am not someone that easily falls in love. The reason why I fell in love with this girl was as a result of a myriad of qualities she possessed which I don't think it's possible to find in someone else. And she isn't just my romantic partner, she is also my closest friend. Anyone who has a best friend would understand what it means to lose such person. To say that this whole situation has made me depressed would be an understatement. I honestly don't know what else to do.
What's your advice for me? |