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I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

falconey:
1MONTH OR I FIND OLOSHO

Are you married or you just assuming?... what's olosho?

Husbands, after your child's birth, how long did it take you before having sex with your wife again?
I really wanna know pls.

Cv

What you said the other time

Disgusting! Her laps ain't even looking good

Been to Nigeria a couple of times thou...my mom is igbo and I ain't gonna lie to you I know those who are Yoruba and igbo...

For the Yoruba girls:
1. Their mode of dressing is zero! Yoruba girls can't dress for sh!t. They love flashy stuffs don't know why...compared to igbo girls.

2.when it comes face painting, fixing of the hair and stuff, they are also zero! I mean you can't even learn anything from them and you can't admire what they put on their faces.

For the igbo guys :

1. Their mode of dressing is zero! Only few knows what to wear. most of them put on stupid shoes, mad trousers and so on compared to the Yoruba guys, I give it to them. They are so good in the clothes they wear.

2. They can't walk for sh!t! A whole lot of igbo guys don't even mind how they walk on the road, they got no swag and they love making calls on the road.lol

You can add yours. Thanks!

Goooaall ibra

signature2012:
abeg where do i stream this match online?

Go to google nd type "Chelsea Vs psg"....after doing that, click on "videos" you gonna see alot of YouTube streams popping out, keep clicking on any of the videos till you finally find a particular written " 24000 watching or any number " ...click on the video and you gonna start watching it.

Chelsea tried

Cossstaaa

Goooaall

TippyTop:
Get a job and you'd be able to afford enough mb.
The internet doesn't end here on nairaland. You should have used your remaining mb to visit Twitter and in the process save yourself this angst.

Don't even use the so called 'mb' you puke of sh!t is talking about .

If Chelsea qualifies... That means there is something really wrong with this world

Was it after he was attacked about publishing his books in the US he stopped tweeting?

Estharfabian:
Black panties are my favorite!

Monalisa185:
unfortunately, I love em black...

Pictures?

[size=20pt]all I can see there is a policeman... You should show us the rest so we can see How 'dapper' they look... [/size]

Cutehector:
Because it is cheap in d market

...u gave me a good laugh

I know it sounds funny thou....but alot of girls I have been with or seen bending down her always on pink pants with white dots in it or something else.
Is it that they ain't any other attractive color or

;D5

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I've been with my girlfriend now for about 4-5 months and recently she seems to have suddenly lost some interest. We met at university and we lived in flats next door to eachother in our student accomodaton so we had built a solid friendship for over a year.

Our relationship had been fantastic up to now and we've seen eachother almost everyday and she was always telling me how much she loved me and we have even booked a holiday abroad together in July.

However, a few days ago she seemed off with me (you know when you can just tell something isn't right) and this was just before she was going away for a weekend with her friend. Over the few days she was gone she didn't contact me at all which is very unusual for her and even when she got back she was always "too tired" to want to see me. So I asked her one day over facebook chat: "Are we ok?" and after taking a while she replied "I don't know". Which was a real shock to me and felt like a punch in the stomach.

I had to see her after hearing that so I went straight over to her house and asked her what that meant and she just kept saying she was tired and she didn't know. I asked her if she wanted to break up and she said she didn't know but she didn't think so. After a while she said she thought the problem was that we were "too perfect" and it seemed like "too much too soon", meaning after her last boyfriend who she was with for about two years and who she was still supposedly with when I first started having "relations" with her (yeah that's bad, I know, but he lived back where she's from so it was a long distance relationship and she'd been trying to break up with him but he wouldn't take it).

So apparently she's scared that we're too serious or whatever but what I don't get is that she's the one who made it serious in the first place, she was the first one to say "I love you", booking the holiday was her idea too and she's been all over me in general for the whole time. I don't understand it at all and any advice would be highly appreciated!

what a lady wrote

Three months ago, my then-boyfriend, Craig, got down on one knee and asked me to marry him. I cried with excitement. After all, it was a huge moment in my life that was exceptionally exciting, special, and celebration-worthy.

But is it an accomplishment? No.

Now that I have a ring on my finger, I can finally publicly share my opinion that would have sounded plain bitter coming from a girl sans ring. And being officially taken off the market has definitely not changed my stance: Getting engaged and married is not an accomplishment.

Ladies, before you angrily dismiss me, hear me out.




My frustration is this: It is 2016 and being popped the question is still more celebrated than academic and professional pursuits of women. Yes, college graduations and landing a great career and receiving wonderful promotions are all received with happiness from friends and family, but not even close to the same level of elation received when you announce that you are getting hitched. This is my experience, at least.

"It's time for society as a whole to re-evaluate what aspect of women's lives we put the most value on. "
I am so grateful for the excitement surrounding my upcoming marriage, however, I often wonder why the event of getting married is put on a higher pedestal than the true successes that come along with an education and career.

In the 1950s, women were primarily housewives and getting married was typically the end goal. Back then, being a wife is what defined a woman, so I can understand why finding your special someone was considered an accomplishment.

This is no longer the case, though. In today's society, ladies are balancing much more than just finding a man.

Women are entrepreneurs, lawyers, teachers, CEOs, inventors, designers, researchers, writers, consultants and so much more. Women are going to college and then getting their masters and doctorate degrees. Women are endlessly working to climb up the corporate ladder. Women are key figures in our government. Women are changing the world with their innovation.

And while many of these women are married, they are definitely not solely defined by their last name.

In general I have noticed that I tend to be questioned much more about my relationship, engagement, or wedding than my job or related accomplishments. And, this didn't just start in the last three months. It has always been the case that I was more likely to be asked "So, when are you getting engaged" or "How's everything going with Craig" than "How's your job going?" or "What have you been working on lately?"

I can't blame anyone for being more curious about my relationship status than my career, as I too have been guilty of doing the same with other woman. After all, we are all taught through expertly crafted commercials and advertisements that it is of utmost importance for a woman to get a ring put on her finger.

Y'all concluded that I'm the one who've been sleeping with her?