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LadySarah:
Contact this no.hopefully something good comes out of it.

Thank you so much

LadySarah:
If a cleric tells you someone is a witch then let them cast out the spirit.The spirit of God doesn't bring confusion.Dont be deceived
Christians read your bibles yourselves and understand that you and the pastor have equal access to the Trinity.
Know this and have peace.

You are totally right, God bless you ma

LadySarah:
Her case is like a childless woman's case.
If you can't anymore do what you feel is best.Posterity will smile on you.
Also try to reach the welfare board of your state.
Is she Akwa/cross?

Yes she is from Akwa

LadySarah:
Drop her off at her daughter's gate.when they were sucking her breastmilk she wasn't a witch neither did she kill them at infancy.
If not for this failed country,govt owned 'old peoples home' should take care of cases like these.

Her 7 children are devil incarnates.

Thanks ma. It is a pity that a mother has taken care of 7 children all alone and at her old age none of them is ready to take care of her, it is really sad. She only has 3 children alive the others 4 are dead it was only my late wife and her late sister who truly loved her wholeheartedly.

poshestmina:
Must be from Akwaibom/Cross Rivers.

Those ones are always accusing and "catching witches upandan .

I feel so sorry for the old woman and your mom too ,it's definitely not easy taking care of a sick adult and two babies.

I don't know how financially stable you are, would have suggested a live-in maid but if you're not capable or inconvenient for you , report the children to the elders then drop her off as you planned.


It's well!

Thanks ma. Unfortunately I can't afford to hire a maid for now.

Lamanii22:
Awwww I'm really sorry about your wife's death, must have been so hard.... Regarding your mother-in-law.. omoor, I don't know oooo maybe you should take her to elderly care home....

Thank you ma

Freestainworld:
Report the children to the welfare in any LGA around, they must take Kia of their mother by force, you can't kill yourself because you want to be nice.

Thank you for your suggestion, am in Lagos.

mariahAngel:
Take the case to your late wife’s father’s kinsmen.
Report (her children’s attitude) to them, they’ll know what to do about the situation.
Anything that comes after that , you know that you’ve done your best.
You can’t do beyond yourself.

Thanks. I am not sure if they'll help because my father in law and mother in law have been separated for a very long time and he is married to someone else. My father in law is also aware of the situations but he hasn't said anything.

Kriss216:
People wey get Mother dey tell you say their mother na witch, she killed her 3 children, and you're doing strong head.

You mustn't bring sorrow and pains into your life cos you want to be nice. There are limits to niceties. You've lost your beloved wife in the cross fire.


The best way to manage risk is to avoid it.

You deserve happiness.

Thanks bro. To be honest I was so afraid to allow her in my house but my wife had reassured me that she wasn't a witch, she said her mother has sacrifice a lot for them imagine being a single mother of 7 children in this country after everything she passed through taking care of them all alone and for these children to grew up and tagged her a witch it's very sad and heartbroken. I don't know but there is no way that she is a witch I just don't believe it too, I think her children are being lied to by fake prophets.

Hey guys, I lost my wife 2 weeks after giving birth to our twins daughters, that was 21 months ago. We have five children together 3 boys 17,14, 9 and twins girls who are now 21 months old. Before she passed away her mother and her 15 years old niece were staying with us, her mother has been sick for a while now my wife was the only one taking care of her she does toilet in her clothes, she bathed her and fed her , her siblings had refused to help her because they tagged her a witch. According to them she has killed their 3 siblings who had previously died before my wife and it was only my wife who never believed that she was a witch and she supported her.

After my wife demise I was expecting her siblings to come and collect their mother but they never did, it was only the mother of the niece who came to collect her daughter and took her abroad where she based, and when I asked her about their mother she said she can't afford to take her abroad that I should call her brother or sister to come collect her which I did but to no avail.

I have contacted her again to informed her about her siblings has refused to collect their mother from my house, she said I should contact her sister pastor and he is the only one who will make her to come and collect the mother and I did but the issues were not resolved in fact she refused saying her mother has tied her womb and it is the reason she can't conceived after 8 years of marriage and she does not want her, even the brother has refused too saying if he is still suffering is because of the mother.

He is married, jobless and a father of 3 children who is depending on his father and according to them his mother he is the cause of their suffering and she has also killed my wife and the other 3 siblings they were 7 in total.

I am sick and tired of begging them to come for their mother and I can't bear to see my poor mother at her old age taking care of my twins including my mother in law, its like she's caring for 3 babies because my mother in law wear pampers and in a day she can poop more than 5 times, she bathed her and feed her it's too much for my poor mother. She is been complaining about back and leg pain.

Since her children doesn't want her and myself I can't longer accommodate her because there is nobody to give her the care that she needed and I want to go and drop her at her daughter front gate and it is up to her to decide what she wants to do with her, if she throw her on the street it will not be my problem.

Please let me know if the ideas it is good or not, also if you have any other suggestions for me.