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Afodot0022:
Top of the day to my nairalanders fam.
Majority of people here have idea about my story and if you don't, you can go through my previous post to get a glimpse.

This month made it one year and seven months have been Separated and living apart from my ex wife due to infidelity and cheating from my ex wife part. Since then, my two daughter aged 8 and 7 had been living with her and I do take responsibility of them until this January 2024 when my wife took my kids to her father and step mom place because there was this course she was order to go for 6months officially outside lagos state. I was so angry because she never seek my permission or approval before taking them there and because of this, I stop sending money or paying their fees till now. I saw it as a act of disrespect if I the father can't be informed of where my kids are been taking to for a long period of time. She already took them there before informing me.

She was supposed to finish her course outside the state by June and since then, she never called me to inform me she is back until yesterday when I put a call to her and she told me she got back since June. I asked about the kids and to my shock, she told me the kids are still there with her father and step mom. How can you leave the kids at your parents place while the father and mother are available, I got so upset and the discussion resulted to insult and curse on phone. She told me she had a serious issue at work and she couldn't combine the kids stress to what she is going through presently. To be honest, I was even thinking to reconcile with her cos of the kids despite she cheated but the way she behave and talks on phone shows she is not remorse or even care if the family is back together or ready for any reconciliation despite the fact she was at fault. Now my kids are my focus but I don't know how to go about this.

The information I got from her dad was that he will not release the kids to either me or her on less the money he had spent on them is refunded back to him. This is already looking like a kidnap and abduction case which I told her that if she doesn't pick those kids before weekend, I will file a case of child kidnap and abduction against her and her father. Pls I need advice on how to go about this and those that have first class experience with such should assist with advice. Thank you all

GOFRONT:
......And Nigeria Army cant eliminate Shekau and Turji of the Northern Descent


Shame on NA, NN, NAF, NSCDC,NPF,NIS,NCS,NFS, NTA

Frankdesigns:
Owerri, but we can deliver projects (both design and construction) anywhere within Nigeria...

Frankdesigns:
Hello

richmond500:
The kind of lies they tell us.
To be honest, Tinubu doesn't know the hardship we are facing

koldrun:
I was trying to prepare dinner about 2 hours ago, when boiling water poured on my leg. I was rushed to a nearby hospital, where I was administered first aid, and then the doctor prescribed some drugs. I have a feeling that this might be a third degree scald. Your suggestions are welcome on how to treat this.

GreyWolf01:
An impeachment is legal and democratic, even.

What is DSS's concern?

RZArecta:
Bulaba bastárds will start crying over a candidate who came third in an election and the pure, undiluted love he has on the streets. Bulaba bastárds are shameless cretins

Bea1234:
House please where can I learn a digital skill.. I read so many diaries of people making money online but no one wants to give me a tip of what to do. I want to quit my 25k salary work .. This week is my last.

I got paid 18k (minus around 7 thousand naira shortage) last week but after paying our nepa bill, gas, clearing some of my mum's debt and some food stuffs, all that's left with me right now is #2,700.

I am the breadwinner of my family. We are only 3.. my mum, sis and I. I am tired of feeding from hand to mouth at this stage in my life.

I need help nairalanders. I want to earn in dollars. I am not good in calculation but I am a fast learner in other aspects. Please sir and ma don't ignore my call for help 🙏🏿

Bea1234:
House please where can I learn a digital skill.. I read so many diaries of people making money online but no one wants to give me a tip of what to do. I want to quit my 25k salary work .. This week is my last.

I got paid 18k (minus around 7 thousand naira shortage) last week but after paying our nepa bill, gas, clearing some of my mum's debt and some food stuffs, all that's left with me right now is #2,700.

I am the breadwinner of my family. We are only 3.. my mum, sis and I. I am tired of feeding from hand to mouth at this stage in my life.

I need help nairalanders. I want to earn in dollars. I am not good in calculation but I am a fast learner in other aspects. Please sir and ma don't ignore my call for help 🙏🏿

Watcharena:
Israel will not attack Iran, quote me when they do

WoeBetide666:
If you're fluent in your ethnic/tribal language and you insist on speaking English to your children, in their formative years (zero to eight years), you should be arrested and tried.

KnowledgePower7:
I blocked her phone number but left my WhatsApp open.

She will be writing epistles upon epistles of how I have broken her.
The worst part is she will see that I read it
But I won't reply.

Out of respect I won't post our chats here
She wrote one very long epistel
Omo I shock
Didn't know she can fall so hard in love

We go to the same church
Tho I attend evening mass to avoid her
It's been 3 months since this happened

Anytime I think about it
I just smile so bright. Revenge is sweet

Omoapena:
Instead of them to find a way to initiate peace talk, they want to go and seek for more weapons.

Can Israel withstand war against 5 nations?

misreal:
Your pain is that Israel has allies.
Lol.
Shebi Iran does not have allies?.
When Someone is bigger than you in an aspect,accept it and stop giving excuses.
Iran wey no get defence and a proper airforce. Gbam!

No mind am joor.
Shebi you think war is fought on propaganda?.
E go soon clear you.

Nazgul:
Why can't he just fire her. I mean with all the things you said about her, he'll have more than a thousand reasons to do so.

For him to still keep her despite her nonchalant attitude towards the job which she's being paid to do shows that even though he might not admit it, he's clearly into her. That's definitely something going on between them that you're not yet aware of.

I'm sure if it was a male employee who was guilty of all these, be would have been laid off a long time ago.

Antwan99:
@the bolded. What do you mean?

Sluacoast:
No I don't. Even my neighbors phone who's a business man complains of this too. We don't owe them a penny

raslim20:
nairaland is a very bias platform, Hezbollah has been dealing with Israel for days and that won't come to frontpage, na only Israel successful strike Dem dey carry come frontpage

EreluRoz:
😂 I still think it's not cool

MsJackson:
Good morning. Please let's chat via my email address: ejirodetermined01@gmail.com. The email address I used to register on nairaland has become dormant, I can no longer access it.

MsJackson:
he was the one always reporting me to his family, not me. His brother confirmed it. The brother said if there were no cracks on the wall, lizards won't pass through.

techbro1:
Lol they’re only making trump more popular. Trump too should mind his utterances this period.

Hemanwel:
I used to be a Trump supporter during the build-up to his 2020 election win. I later withdrew my support before that election when I realized he was (and still is) a cho cho cho person, a Blacks hater, and an islamophobe, even though I am not a muslim.

In 2020, Hillary Clinton lost to him because Americans thought he was kinda 'breath of fresh air' (like, a break from the norm).

In this coming elections, he will lose overwhelmingly. If Americans were cool with him, he would have been voted-in for second term.

I therefore congratulate Kamala Harris in advance!

Cmanforall:
Why is US politics turning dirty?

MrBrownJay1:
- so because the dude can afford it and you CANT, he is automatically a simp?!?!?!?
- i guess everyone on earth should now turn off their AC and sweat inside a car, because thats what YOU would do, abi?!?!?!

stop comparing yourself to (or look down on) others, just because they can afford something you cant.