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How much is it?

lekkie073:
i use google pixel 10 pro. i know say e go beat iphone wey never comot sef

How is the price for OPPO find X9?

And how much is fine the Xiaomi 17?

idris646:
The Battery & Power Factor (Surviving Grid Instability): If you travel frequently within Nigeria or experience irregular grid power, OPPO Find X9 Ultra (7,050mAh) and Xiaomi 17 Ultra (6,800mAh with 90W charging) are absolute lifesavers. They outclass the iPhone 18 Pro and Samsung S26 Ultra in raw battery capacity, letting you go days without needing a power bank.

How much is the price?

Gotocourt:
Google Pixel 11 Pro XL


If you don't gerrit ,forgerrit .

[color=#006600][/color] once beaten, twice shy.

Twice beaten, u be mumu forever.

Mut4y:
Hello, weldone everyone. Please, I’m in a dilemma and I need honest opinions.

About two years ago, I met a lady at NYSC camp. We fell in love and started dating. Everything was going well, and we genuinely loved each other.

About four months into the relationship, she travelled home for Christmas and came back telling me that her mother wanted her to marry someone who had shown interest in her. She said she had already told the man, his family and even her mother that she wasn’t interested, and assured me that she wouldn’t leave me for anyone.

The pressure from her family continued throughout our relationship. After NYSC, she went back home, and eventually the pressure became too much. She told me she had decided to go ahead with the marriage. At the time, I had just finished NYSC and wasn't financially ready to start a family, while she was approaching 30 and wanted to get married before then. I loved her, but I couldn't provide the financial security she wanted, so I let her go.

Later, I discovered that the man she was marrying was actually her ex. I was disappointed that she had hidden that from me. She also told me that pastors had said she and the man were spiritually compatible, while she and I weren't. I told her that marriage requires more than spiritual compatibility; both people have to be intentional and willing to put in the work. She didn't agree, so I let her make her decision.

Her bride price was eventually paid. She later told me that if I could somehow raise money for her bride price and a proper wedding, she would leave the man. Because I still loved her, I put a lot of pressure on myself and my business trying to make it happen, but I eventually had to admit that I couldn't afford it.

Since then, we've had an on-and-off relationship as friends. Sometimes we wouldn't speak for months, then she would reach out and we'd reconcile. We've only communicated online since the marriage process began.

I know I wasn't financially ready for marriage after NYSC, but I also believe we could have built together. During NYSC, I took care of our feeding and still gave her a monthly allowance from the money I was making from online gigs. I wasn't lazy; I simply wanted to build my life through legitimate means and refused to do fraud just to make money quickly.

So, I don't necessarily blame her for choosing financial security. I was disappointed, but I accepted her decision.

Now, recently, she reached out and told me she's tired of the marriage and wants to leave. She said that if I'm still available when everything is finally over, she'd like us to continue from where we stopped or start afresh.

The problem is that I still love her, but I don't know if I can trust her the way I used to.

There are also things I noticed during our relationship that I was willing to tolerate because I believed tolerance is important in relationships. She gets angry easily, sometimes gives silent treatment for days until there's a lot of begging, and has insulted me when she's upset. I never insulted her or raised my voice at her because I adored her so much.

Now I'm asking myself: if she eventually leaves the marriage and comes back, can I genuinely build a marriage with her again?

I don't have anyone else in my life at the moment, and a part of me still wants her. Another part of me feels that too much has happened and that the trust we once had may never return.

I also worry about the fact that she is currently married. Even if she eventually leaves, would I be making the right decision by going back to someone who once chose another man over me and is now returning because she's unhappy?

I believe love is important, but love alone isn't enough to sustain a marriage. Trust, respect, communication, emotional maturity and willingness to work through problems matter too.

What would you honestly do if you were in my position? Would you consider taking her back and starting over, or would you let the relationship go completely?

Please, I genuinely want honest and mature opinions. Thank you.

I understand you perfectly. I pass through that lane too like you.

Diamond098454:
You won't understand
I will never never help anyone here.
Very ungrateful people

I won't try that again honestly

Diamond098454:
I would have help but i stopped helping people from this forum three months ago.

Can you imagine that I paid a complete hospital bill of 450k of a guy in this forum when his wife delivered there baby boy through CS , still this guy keep abusing me here just because i refused giving him more money.
Not only him though few more people here too.

My dear
I will never help anyone from this Nairaland again
NEVER

Same thing happened to me too.

I helped someone here and he insulted me blue black and I vowed NEVER to help again here.

mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

Every human being on this earth have a past life even your girlfriend.

Allow her to get married

This idiot has prophecied his fake prophecy again.

Paid prophet.

brain54:
I wonder why grown ass men would lift pictures from the Internet and create tales from it...

bursted 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Truly some comments are childish

fergie001:
How can you be here and there at the same time.
Some comments go make you laugh 😂

obi4eze:
What exactly is Bola Tinubu scared of? Aren't 30 governors enough to win? Or you don't trust them?

Trust??

He doesn't o. Some notable northerners we spoke with said they're waiting for him on the election day.

This (S)election Will be tough for tinubu and co.

letskeeptalking:
Canada

Now I know where both of you miss it.

You guys are living the life of OYIBO PEOPLE. Shelf that life and live like a Nigerian couples.

Above all both of you NEED TO FORGIVE EACH OTHER AND GO BACK TO WHAT MADE BOTH OF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.

If both of you can rediscover yourselves again you'll both see the reason to make your marriage work again.

MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU BOTH.

Nothing is wrong with that.

I have done it countless times for My wife and I'll still do it GLADLY WITHOUT LOOKING BACK.

Please which channel is showing the football match

oyeb15:
Why will Trump carry someone under FBI investigation along in their mission.

Moreover, they are watching him. That's why he stayed put in Nigeria.

My advice for him is to forget 2027 cos US want to correct Obama 2015 mistake in Nigeria.

And for those who don't know, there is a huge gold reserve in Northwest which those terrorists are using to finance their operations in Africa.

Not only gold. Even rear earth is there too.

ogaemma:
What do you expect?
America will never compromise with them for any false propaganda.
When another Commander in Chief, does what your own Commander in Chief could not do, don't expect the same report.
Commander in Chief pass Commander in Chief.
Wait ohh, where is Asari?
He was boasting that if Trump attack Nigeria, hell will let lose 🤣

As the bomb dey Land ASARI QUICKLY GO HIDE UNDER BED. He chickened out

ambu2:
In Benue, Kogi, Plateau and parts of Kaduna especially when El Rufai was governor. These are mainly Christian populated communities. Bodies of matcheted, shot and burnt men, women and children are usually lined up before burial. A church was attacked in Ondo State. Do a bit research online.

He doesn't need to do online research, am from Benue and I'll take him to where it happens for him to see for himself.

Mrchippychappy:
Nothing disgusts me more than when people are quick to point out problems without proffering any solution. Are the Christians being slaughtered supposed to just fold their hands and wait until Sowore is elected? Is that the solution?

In sowore's word:-thats the solution.

ritzyvic1:
[/b]“It will be recalled that some Christian leaders had written frivolous petitions to the US Congress, claiming that Christians were the only ones being killed by terrorists in Nigeria. Instead of debunking this, CAN simply amplified it,” he stated[b]
Alright, complain about the Muslim victims too. You can petition Iran or Saudi Arabia in that regards

Best answer so far.

THUMBS UP BUDDY

Jennyclay:
South - South men eeh!!

Especially Delta men

wetin delta do?

Hahaha hahaha

Topman7:
This forum is full of kids that just come in here and type nonsense from empty heads.

Am telling you. That's why I don't comment on many post here.

fadre5:
Spent virtually all my life in Gboko, i have plenty of Idoma friends and also, I did my primary, secondary and tertiary institution respectively in Benue... though I'm from the SW

Thats ok.

I was born in otukpo so are my grandparents. They are still there.

Though am from Enugu State.


I love otukpo die.

Freshtruth:
Zimbabwe go sell this match

What's the score?

fadre5:
This your village no get name??
I want check something cos e dey similar to the Alekwu deity in Otukpo, Benue state.

I've seen people, so full of life gone just because of one silly deity which is only concerned about sexuality. Why not deploy this same prowess to make better the lives of those people within its environs. Besides, the part you mentioned 247 power is indeed a fat light for the whole of your village

are you from otukpo and how come you know much about ALEWU DEITY?

adetoya234:
I predict a draw. Super eagles chicks are like NEPA. Very unpredictable.

Super ducks

Zonefree:
Rwanda fit struggle beat South Africa, then Lesotho go come win Nigeria.

That how useles.s this Super Eagles can be.

Point of corrections. Super duck

What APC cannot destroy in NIGERIA DOES NOT EXIST,


2027.... We're waiting.

Sammy101111:
I notice woman on nairaland don't like community with men here .AND YET FEMALE USERS ARE MUCH HERE WAY THING MEN DO YOU NA

no be una dey insult them?


The hate against them here on NAIRALAND is too much.

Onegai:
During a horrid time in my life. I saw B my friend and poured out my issues, same way she always told me stuff and I'd advise her. She gave some generic advise about prayers.

Then a month or 2 later, I got a random Friend Request on my Instagram account from a lady I didn't know. I DMed her and she said she was a friend of B. Even more confusing, I had no idea who she was and why she was adding me.

So I whatsapped B and asked her who this lady was. B told me the lady was "that my neighbor, her older sister nau!".

I became genuinely confused because I don't think I had met the neighbour and even if I had, I certainly had zero idea whom she was because that meeting would have been at most a greeting whilst passing in the doorway. So why on earth would a stranger's sister add me up?

B turned on the gas cylinder, full gaslighting:
"She knows you because I always gist her about you. She just wants to be friendly! Isn't that what social media is for!!"

That was when I realized that B had used my deeply personal issue as gist for her friends, those ones who had been mocking me as the "rich, spoilt girl" for years (B had a big chip on her shoulder about her and mine's social levels and I didn't help either) now wanted to gloat and spread my misery. So they were going through my social media, hoping to see me fall apart.

I kept it all in, politely greeted B's friend on IG. She ignored the greeting, busily looking for clues of my misery. Till tomorrow, she never replied that greeting. I unfriended her months later.

As for B, she pretended to check up on me months later, hoping for more gist about my issues. I was very polite and kept it short.

30 years of friendship, gone.

My mum had spent years warning me about B, I had randomly tweeted something B had done during my wedding and even strangers on the internet said "that girl isn't your friend". She used her hand to confirm it.

She's your fiend

Onegai:
You know what, I get this. In the Health section there's 2 giant threads for Pregnant and Newborn mums and then TTC mums. And it is a lovely community.

I wish we could do something like that for Married couples without it being flooded by people with other agendas derailing it.

I agree with you 100%

So painful.

I shed tears seeing this picture.

The super DUCK can not qualify.

If Dem qualify mek I bend.