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mayDtolu:
Guys I need advice on this matter.

There is this girl I know very well. We were very close before and we had casual relationship.( Just sex and no dating) but During that time, I also had something with two of her friends she introduced to me.

At that time I didn’t really think much about it because it was all casual but I won’t lie, she’s a very attractive lady and one of the sweetest people I’ve ever been with. We got along really well, and I enjoyed her company.

But later I started noticing her lifestyle and the kind of things she does, and I began to feel she is into runs / hookup lifestyle.

I’m not judging her o, but that’s what I observed over time.

Fast forward, I just found out she is engaged to one of my old university friends. The guy even don propose already.

When I saw their pictures I was shocked.

This guy is a very good and calm person because we lived together and I squatted in his place for a semester . That is why this thing is disturbing me.

Part of me feels I should tell him everything I know about her so he can decide with full information. Another part of me feels I should just mind my business and let her past be her past.

What do you guys think? If you were in my shoes, would you tell him or not?

Every human being on this earth have a past life even your girlfriend.

Allow her to get married

This idiot has prophecied his fake prophecy again.

Paid prophet.

brain54:
I wonder why grown ass men would lift pictures from the Internet and create tales from it...

bursted 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Truly some comments are childish

fergie001:
How can you be here and there at the same time.
Some comments go make you laugh 😂

obi4eze:
What exactly is Bola Tinubu scared of? Aren't 30 governors enough to win? Or you don't trust them?

Trust??

He doesn't o. Some notable northerners we spoke with said they're waiting for him on the election day.

This (S)election Will be tough for tinubu and co.

letskeeptalking:
Canada

Now I know where both of you miss it.

You guys are living the life of OYIBO PEOPLE. Shelf that life and live like a Nigerian couples.

Above all both of you NEED TO FORGIVE EACH OTHER AND GO BACK TO WHAT MADE BOTH OF YOU LOVE EACH OTHER BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.

If both of you can rediscover yourselves again you'll both see the reason to make your marriage work again.

MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU BOTH.

Nothing is wrong with that.

I have done it countless times for My wife and I'll still do it GLADLY WITHOUT LOOKING BACK.

Please which channel is showing the football match

oyeb15:
Why will Trump carry someone under FBI investigation along in their mission.

Moreover, they are watching him. That's why he stayed put in Nigeria.

My advice for him is to forget 2027 cos US want to correct Obama 2015 mistake in Nigeria.

And for those who don't know, there is a huge gold reserve in Northwest which those terrorists are using to finance their operations in Africa.

Not only gold. Even rear earth is there too.

ogaemma:
What do you expect?
America will never compromise with them for any false propaganda.
When another Commander in Chief, does what your own Commander in Chief could not do, don't expect the same report.
Commander in Chief pass Commander in Chief.
Wait ohh, where is Asari?
He was boasting that if Trump attack Nigeria, hell will let lose 🤣

As the bomb dey Land ASARI QUICKLY GO HIDE UNDER BED. He chickened out

ambu2:
In Benue, Kogi, Plateau and parts of Kaduna especially when El Rufai was governor. These are mainly Christian populated communities. Bodies of matcheted, shot and burnt men, women and children are usually lined up before burial. A church was attacked in Ondo State. Do a bit research online.

He doesn't need to do online research, am from Benue and I'll take him to where it happens for him to see for himself.

Mrchippychappy:
Nothing disgusts me more than when people are quick to point out problems without proffering any solution. Are the Christians being slaughtered supposed to just fold their hands and wait until Sowore is elected? Is that the solution?

In sowore's word:-thats the solution.

ritzyvic1:
[/b]“It will be recalled that some Christian leaders had written frivolous petitions to the US Congress, claiming that Christians were the only ones being killed by terrorists in Nigeria. Instead of debunking this, CAN simply amplified it,” he stated[b]
Alright, complain about the Muslim victims too. You can petition Iran or Saudi Arabia in that regards

Best answer so far.

THUMBS UP BUDDY

Jennyclay:
South - South men eeh!!

Especially Delta men

wetin delta do?

Hahaha hahaha

Topman7:
This forum is full of kids that just come in here and type nonsense from empty heads.

Am telling you. That's why I don't comment on many post here.

fadre5:
Spent virtually all my life in Gboko, i have plenty of Idoma friends and also, I did my primary, secondary and tertiary institution respectively in Benue... though I'm from the SW

Thats ok.

I was born in otukpo so are my grandparents. They are still there.

Though am from Enugu State.


I love otukpo die.

Freshtruth:
Zimbabwe go sell this match

What's the score?

fadre5:
This your village no get name??
I want check something cos e dey similar to the Alekwu deity in Otukpo, Benue state.

I've seen people, so full of life gone just because of one silly deity which is only concerned about sexuality. Why not deploy this same prowess to make better the lives of those people within its environs. Besides, the part you mentioned 247 power is indeed a fat light for the whole of your village

are you from otukpo and how come you know much about ALEWU DEITY?

adetoya234:
I predict a draw. Super eagles chicks are like NEPA. Very unpredictable.

Super ducks

Zonefree:
Rwanda fit struggle beat South Africa, then Lesotho go come win Nigeria.

That how useles.s this Super Eagles can be.

Point of corrections. Super duck

What APC cannot destroy in NIGERIA DOES NOT EXIST,


2027.... We're waiting.

Sammy101111:
I notice woman on nairaland don't like community with men here .AND YET FEMALE USERS ARE MUCH HERE WAY THING MEN DO YOU NA

no be una dey insult them?


The hate against them here on NAIRALAND is too much.

Onegai:
During a horrid time in my life. I saw B my friend and poured out my issues, same way she always told me stuff and I'd advise her. She gave some generic advise about prayers.

Then a month or 2 later, I got a random Friend Request on my Instagram account from a lady I didn't know. I DMed her and she said she was a friend of B. Even more confusing, I had no idea who she was and why she was adding me.

So I whatsapped B and asked her who this lady was. B told me the lady was "that my neighbor, her older sister nau!".

I became genuinely confused because I don't think I had met the neighbour and even if I had, I certainly had zero idea whom she was because that meeting would have been at most a greeting whilst passing in the doorway. So why on earth would a stranger's sister add me up?

B turned on the gas cylinder, full gaslighting:
"She knows you because I always gist her about you. She just wants to be friendly! Isn't that what social media is for!!"

That was when I realized that B had used my deeply personal issue as gist for her friends, those ones who had been mocking me as the "rich, spoilt girl" for years (B had a big chip on her shoulder about her and mine's social levels and I didn't help either) now wanted to gloat and spread my misery. So they were going through my social media, hoping to see me fall apart.

I kept it all in, politely greeted B's friend on IG. She ignored the greeting, busily looking for clues of my misery. Till tomorrow, she never replied that greeting. I unfriended her months later.

As for B, she pretended to check up on me months later, hoping for more gist about my issues. I was very polite and kept it short.

30 years of friendship, gone.

My mum had spent years warning me about B, I had randomly tweeted something B had done during my wedding and even strangers on the internet said "that girl isn't your friend". She used her hand to confirm it.

She's your fiend

Onegai:
You know what, I get this. In the Health section there's 2 giant threads for Pregnant and Newborn mums and then TTC mums. And it is a lovely community.

I wish we could do something like that for Married couples without it being flooded by people with other agendas derailing it.

I agree with you 100%

So painful.

I shed tears seeing this picture.

The super DUCK can not qualify.

If Dem qualify mek I bend.

owobokiri:
That should tell you that Isreal must have known about the Hamas attack but decided to let it happen since that will give them a good excuse to do what they are doing now; eliminate Hamas. Most people who should know, including Charlie Kirk, have insisted that Isreal moat probably "stood down" military actions during the "Hamas Attack".

If you really think that Isreal was taken unawares, you are joking. They had the army in thousands near Hamas territories, they had their informants all over Gaza and the West Bank, they basically control communications in those two areas too.

The socalled "Hamas attack" might have been a MOSSAD job to instigate worldwide anti Hamas/Palestinian sentiments, as a prelude to using the Isreali military to "wash off" any Palestinian presence in Gaza and the West Bank. The Isreali dead being "collaterals"...

I thought am the only one who think Israel is aware of the attack but let it happen so that they can use it as a yard stick to attack Palestine and destroy Hamas and Gaza.

God1000, my condolences to you and the entire igede people.

fuckingAyaya:
The fear of Nepal is the beginning of wisdom imagine Tinubu removing tax lol

Am telling you.

Truly the FEAR OF NEPAL IS MAKING THEM TO SIT UP.

Exousiang01:
I don't understand what Business the Ochi Idoma has with Igede Land.
Igede land is not Idoma land.

The Adirahu'Igede is a first class king and doesn't answer to the Ochi'Idoma.

Imagine the insult. I expect better from the Ochi'Idoma

did i hear you say the och'idoma has no business in igede Land?

Ajene okpabi the once och'idoma from igede made this present one have business over igede Land.

Today you guys are saying igede are not idoma and when political appointment come to zone C that comprises all idoma ethnic groups and igede is excluded you guys will be complaining of marginalization.

God1000, I hope you are not in this too.

princessyere1:
Hello everyone,
I hope this message finds you well. I am currently seeking new employment opportunities.. I have a Bsc in political science.If you are aware of any openings or can connect me with relevant opportunities, I would truly appreciate your guidance or referrals. My location is Lagos. Thank you.

Your email address.

It will make it easy for one to send you link.