my sister are u a learner?? u should try to reduce yr weight if its too much or u feel u r getting out of shape n not because of some freaking fiancee.... e is even giving u condition. dump him bfor e does.....some guys love slim girls, some love fat girls. u r fat n there's no way u can b lepacious...u can only reduce small. that's y I love my bf e loves me for who I am...I no tall n I no fat....e no concern anybody. I tell my self if person no like me d way I b mk e go die......simple